Love isn’t always the honeymoon phase, the high levels of attraction & excitement like they make it seem in the movies…it can come and go, especially if you have personal stuff going on, but the beauty of love is you make sacrifices and stay around during those lows because they are your person.

I struggled with stuff like that here and there with my girl and we are now engaged to be married in a few months and i couldn’t be happier.

Love is never perfect, there will be days you wonder if it is all worth it, but it is, when you have that inseparable bond & vulnerability you can’t get from anyone else.

I don’t know you much OP but as someone who had similar feelings and stuck around though it, I’m very happy I did so and would have regretted it so much had I not.

Best of luck my friend

We miss u....

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Hmm interesting, I'd say maybe the honey moon phase is wearing off

But in general I think and idk how it ended seeing that this thread is older
But usually these feelings do tend to grow

Maybe something happening in ur surroundings messing ya up

Anyways u 25, u prolly felt it, major shifts in the way u think and s***
So maybe u feel like u wanna move to the next phase in ur life and ur gut is telling u, this doesn't include her for whatever reason

Again u still young and will grow

Ngl I felt during my relationship the same as in;
Am I really gonna spend the rest of my life with her? Is that possible?

Back then, it was also all roses and rainbows, I was beating myself up for my neg thoughts
Turns out I was right tho down the line

Sometimes as a human u just change, specially at age 25, like ngl that's the age u fully become ur adult you
U really see yourself in the world in a diff way and feel more confident and focused, at least for me
And I had this thing too; f*** man I gotta cut all dem toxic fools, if u wanna go up and try to capitalize on my talents, it's now or never

And no cap, my gf was couple yrs younger than me, near the end of the relationship when I was 26, it felt like I was walking with a toddler, completely diff mentality and s*** and she was 21
While when we met when I was 23, we were practically on the same wave

Life and changes, natural progressions
U may choose to stick with what is
Or test and see where your mind leads you

Whenever this happens have a kid trust me

Cheat on her, if you feel bad afterwards you know that she’s the one

Nigga want to be unemployed AND single

time to cheat buddy

OP what’s her number?

Then break up nigga damn y’all make things so difficult