now dont get me misunderstood, no loser content here

life is just one temporary interlude between 2 long stretches of death. if you find someone you love, you wont be with them forever, because even if you always are in love, life doesnt last. i look around and i dont see truly loving partnerships being the norm, it seems like the spark dies and people live together co-operatively. they dont get butterflies thinking of their partner, they crash after a long day and watch netflix with them.

it just seems like everything you can have will one day cease. i think the idea of love is just one big marketing scam.

s*** maybe relationships section is better

it will probably happen when you least expect it.

don't rule it out, like...what if a baddie suddenly declared interest in you? are you prepared to turn that down if so then cap.

ain't no such thing as halfway thots

youre probably right, i guess my thoughts are born out of a failure to live in the moment- the happiest people dont waste energy getting deep, they just live

Me too a little bit not necessarily a negative thing for me at this moment though

A thing isnt beautiful because it lasts

Love will find you.

Update op when it does.

Build ur value

Become valuable to yourself your family and society as a whole

B****es are an after thought and a by product.

sure will do

im moderately successful with women but you right

just the feelings part is where i dont really register that much anymore

Idk if ive given up on love but i dont believe in it enough to put in any effort to find it at this moment

love is a beautiful thing but you guys need to find purpose
like life is endless with places to travel people to see
you guys literally hung up on fairy tale s***
like people date , breakup get a new person
marry divorce remarry
life goes on

Feelings will come bro trust

Everyone situation diff obv but I’ve def had extended periods of time where I didn’t have those special feelings and couldn’t picture it for myself. It comes natural when it comes tho

Oh love? Big lightning bolt to the heart

I felt like this after i lost my virginity. I thot my life would change to an extent that I’d feel completely different abt love and s***and stuff and then that didn’t happen and i was confused. I began to think that sex/dating would be pointless if ur not with someone u really care for, but i figured i was overthinking it. Lately I’ve been giving dating apps another go and i don’t have probs getting matched or conversing with girls, but I’ll ghost as soon as things get semi-serious, prolly cuz I’m afraid to commit

Doesn’t truly exist so not a bad decision tbh.

U can say this about anything tho. Like nothing lasts, so why not make the most if it. If loves comes your way, dont fight it

Damn bro at least you at least going on dates lol. I’m struggling, so I decided I’m gonna revamp my profile with more interesting pic

When the right one comes you’ll know bruh. You not gonna think twice about ghosting them lol.

Well i went on one date but that went awful, planned two others then ghosted when i could see it was getting more srs. I think it’s cuz I’m not that attracted to them but idk. I wanna jus go on them but i don’t wanna go and then jus realize that i don’t wanna be with them, now i wasted my time lol

just because the spark dies doesnt mean the love necessarily dies

arent we all just looking for that person to crash and watch netflix with whom we love unconditionally in old age? its not all about passion and s***at that age, its true unconditional love for one another

That’s life, it’s a numbers game. You gotta play your cards till you find something you like. Most of your dates are gonna be dookie. That’s expected, I mean most people in general are just “meh” and we don’t bother to befriend them.... the dating world is no different. But just like friends you meet down the line from the drones of people you cross paths with in life, there will certainly be a few girls that really tug at your heart.

We make up ideas like love to create an imaginary purpose for our species

Replace love with god and you got it

Also, love is very much real - it goes wayyyy beyond a romantic partner

Who hurt y’all niggas