Feb 12, 2021Y’all be depressed af
Feb 12, 2021·edited·3 repliesWell, it's almost Valentine's day, which is a big consumer holiday, and its been made to make people feel bad if they're not in love or have a partner.
It's not your fault, and its fair to feel iffy on the idea of love. Rushing into love only gets you burnt. IMO, A real connection comes when you have a clear head and you're not stressed, and losing sleep because you're worried about whether or not you'll get your d*** wet on the weekend.
A relationship is a two person operation, you have to be on the same wavelength for it run smoothly. Anyone can say "I love you," and not mean it. It's up to you two to connect and determine whether it's genuine and meaningful, or if its just a phrase you use because it's your obligation to say it since thats the general consensus of what real love is.
Life's a marathon, not a race. Everyone runs at their own pace, you're not being timed. Erase the word love from your mind, & just work on yourself. Do what makes you happy and a better person. Hit the gym, find a hobby. Channel that positive energy into yourself. It sounds selfish, but everyone's selfish, everyone's working on themselves. The ones who are so focused on trying to achieve love just to feel accepted by the public, burn themselves out; They lose sight of themselves in this attempt to force the idea of a genuine and spiritual connection.
That being said, there's a lot of people who never have a life partner, and never need to. And thats OK too. Love has infinite forms and can be connected to anything in life. The traditional love ideology is just a marketed social construct. Growing up, lot of people were conditioned to believe that the ideal 'life' is to have that white picket fence, the dog, kids & the stay at home wife who bakes pies while you're out working.
Live your life, and if you develop a connection with someone, then good for you, if you don't? still good for you. The most important key is to always check in with yourself. Treat your body and mind well, because that'll set the standard for how others will treat you. If you carry negative energy then you'll invite it into your life unconsciously, and its a hard pit to get out of.
Feb 12, 2021so why not take the ride while we’re here?
Feb 12, 2021·1 replydebbieWell, it's almost Valentine's day, which is a big consumer holiday, and its been made to make people feel bad if they're not in love or have a partner.
It's not your fault, and its fair to feel iffy on the idea of love. Rushing into love only gets you burnt. IMO, A real connection comes when you have a clear head and you're not stressed, and losing sleep because you're worried about whether or not you'll get your d*** wet on the weekend.
A relationship is a two person operation, you have to be on the same wavelength for it run smoothly. Anyone can say "I love you," and not mean it. It's up to you two to connect and determine whether it's genuine and meaningful, or if its just a phrase you use because it's your obligation to say it since thats the general consensus of what real love is.
Life's a marathon, not a race. Everyone runs at their own pace, you're not being timed. Erase the word love from your mind, & just work on yourself. Do what makes you happy and a better person. Hit the gym, find a hobby. Channel that positive energy into yourself. It sounds selfish, but everyone's selfish, everyone's working on themselves. The ones who are so focused on trying to achieve love just to feel accepted by the public, burn themselves out; They lose sight of themselves in this attempt to force the idea of a genuine and spiritual connection.
That being said, there's a lot of people who never have a life partner, and never need to. And thats OK too. Love has infinite forms and can be connected to anything in life. The traditional love ideology is just a marketed social construct. Growing up, lot of people were conditioned to believe that the ideal 'life' is to have that white picket fence, the dog, kids & the stay at home wife who bakes pies while you're out working.
Live your life, and if you develop a connection with someone, then good for you, if you don't? still good for you. The most important key is to always check in with yourself. Treat your body and mind well, because that'll set the standard for how others will treat you. If you carry negative energy then you'll invite it into your life unconsciously, and its a hard pit to get out of.
Depressed niggas itt not tryna hear this tho
- Feb 12, 2021Husk_
Depressed niggas itt not tryna hear this tho
Meh, it is what it is. Can't help anybody change if they don't want to tbh. 
Feb 12, 2021·1 replydebbieWell, it's almost Valentine's day, which is a big consumer holiday, and its been made to make people feel bad if they're not in love or have a partner.
It's not your fault, and its fair to feel iffy on the idea of love. Rushing into love only gets you burnt. IMO, A real connection comes when you have a clear head and you're not stressed, and losing sleep because you're worried about whether or not you'll get your d*** wet on the weekend.
A relationship is a two person operation, you have to be on the same wavelength for it run smoothly. Anyone can say "I love you," and not mean it. It's up to you two to connect and determine whether it's genuine and meaningful, or if its just a phrase you use because it's your obligation to say it since thats the general consensus of what real love is.
Life's a marathon, not a race. Everyone runs at their own pace, you're not being timed. Erase the word love from your mind, & just work on yourself. Do what makes you happy and a better person. Hit the gym, find a hobby. Channel that positive energy into yourself. It sounds selfish, but everyone's selfish, everyone's working on themselves. The ones who are so focused on trying to achieve love just to feel accepted by the public, burn themselves out; They lose sight of themselves in this attempt to force the idea of a genuine and spiritual connection.
That being said, there's a lot of people who never have a life partner, and never need to. And thats OK too. Love has infinite forms and can be connected to anything in life. The traditional love ideology is just a marketed social construct. Growing up, lot of people were conditioned to believe that the ideal 'life' is to have that white picket fence, the dog, kids & the stay at home wife who bakes pies while you're out working.
Live your life, and if you develop a connection with someone, then good for you, if you don't? still good for you. The most important key is to always check in with yourself. Treat your body and mind well, because that'll set the standard for how others will treat you. If you carry negative energy then you'll invite it into your life unconsciously, and its a hard pit to get out of.
Thank you, debbie.
- Feb 12, 2021Saturday
Thank you, debbie.
Feb 12, 2021does the marketing scheme address what love truly is? love only exists beyond the threshold of ideology. if you can explain love, then its not where you think it is. love is tragic and irrational. you dont choose it, you just surrender to it.
as we condition ourselves to live up to our own commodification, which aides corporations more than it does any human, we grow out of touch with not only the feeling of love, but the language required to define love beyond the means in which it is sold back to us
Zaywop 🐶Feb 12, 2021·1 replyGoodFellaWho hurt y’all niggas
THESE HOES
Feb 12, 2021i think i need better tinder pics
Feb 12, 2021·1 replyThe butterflies fade but your feelings and love for them doesn’t. Once you find someone you realize you don’t wanna hurt or have someone hurt them you’ll realize.
It’s finding the person you can vibe with. When you legit just watching Netflix with them you can look at them and realize you don’t wanna be doing that with someone else
Feb 13, 2021
No ColorA thing isnt beautiful because it lasts
Wisdom.
- Feb 13, 2021·1 replydebbie
Well, it's almost Valentine's day, which is a big consumer holiday, and its been made to make people feel bad if they're not in love or have a partner.
It's not your fault, and its fair to feel iffy on the idea of love. Rushing into love only gets you burnt. IMO, A real connection comes when you have a clear head and you're not stressed, and losing sleep because you're worried about whether or not you'll get your d*** wet on the weekend.
A relationship is a two person operation, you have to be on the same wavelength for it run smoothly. Anyone can say "I love you," and not mean it. It's up to you two to connect and determine whether it's genuine and meaningful, or if its just a phrase you use because it's your obligation to say it since thats the general consensus of what real love is.
Life's a marathon, not a race. Everyone runs at their own pace, you're not being timed. Erase the word love from your mind, & just work on yourself. Do what makes you happy and a better person. Hit the gym, find a hobby. Channel that positive energy into yourself. It sounds selfish, but everyone's selfish, everyone's working on themselves. The ones who are so focused on trying to achieve love just to feel accepted by the public, burn themselves out; They lose sight of themselves in this attempt to force the idea of a genuine and spiritual connection.
That being said, there's a lot of people who never have a life partner, and never need to. And thats OK too. Love has infinite forms and can be connected to anything in life. The traditional love ideology is just a marketed social construct. Growing up, lot of people were conditioned to believe that the ideal 'life' is to have that white picket fence, the dog, kids & the stay at home wife who bakes pies while you're out working.
Live your life, and if you develop a connection with someone, then good for you, if you don't? still good for you. The most important key is to always check in with yourself. Treat your body and mind well, because that'll set the standard for how others will treat you. If you carry negative energy then you'll invite it into your life unconsciously, and its a hard pit to get out of.
Nah thing is I know you're right really its just hard to keep your head up
Especially cause lockdown got me working a 9-5 in my bedroom and only able to leave the house when it's dark
- Feb 13, 2021
Nothing wrong with that
Feb 13, 2021A day before valentine's day
Feb 13, 2021
ROBO DOG"First time I was rushing for a wait, this time I'm waiting for a rush"
- Feb 13, 2021
Tbh I feel like this too
I can talk to women just fine and hold a convo with em but idk I don’t feel anything and most of the time it just feels like a chore to keep remembering to push the convo
- Feb 13, 2021·1 replyTragedyBerlusconi
Nah thing is I know you're right really its just hard to keep your head up
Especially cause lockdown got me working a 9-5 in my bedroom and only able to leave the house when it's dark
I feel that, its really hard right now. I think I got lucky since the quarantine took my work away & I had a ton of time to actually reflect and focus on myself for the first time in like 6 years. Even the smallest thing can help, like a small run or walk around the block, or eating some food you made off a recipe. IDK your situation fully, but hope you get through it my G
- Feb 13, 2021debbie
I feel that, its really hard right now. I think I got lucky since the quarantine took my work away & I had a ton of time to actually reflect and focus on myself for the first time in like 6 years. Even the smallest thing can help, like a small run or walk around the block, or eating some food you made off a recipe. IDK your situation fully, but hope you get through it my G
Thanks man, appreciate it and sorry about your job
- Feb 13, 2021Zaywop
THESE HOES
Time to find a good woman brother
Feb 13, 2021·1 replyIt may just be possible that the person for you isnt within 50 miles of your exact geographical location @op
Theres a lot of f***ing people in this world.
Keep looking.
- Feb 13, 2021
Also im not addressing the nihilism.
Feb 13, 2021No ColorA thing isnt beautiful because it lasts
More the point I want to get across to OP than anything specifically having to do with love. "Everything ends so what's the point" is a really dangerous thread of logic.
- Feb 13, 2021Thizz
The butterflies fade but your feelings and love for them doesn’t. Once you find someone you realize you don’t wanna hurt or have someone hurt them you’ll realize.
It’s finding the person you can vibe with. When you legit just watching Netflix with them you can look at them and realize you don’t wanna be doing that with someone elseLol