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  • Feb 3
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    oshikuru

    This is the predicament I’m in! I met a girl I really like and don't want anything getting in the way of this 🙃🙃 like I’m genuinely amazed by her, Im not letting bad karma jeopardize something that could be good

    What your afraid she gonna ghost? You been onna date yet?

  • Feb 3
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    Just delete bro, this is a nothing issue.

  • If y'all don't plan on meeting then you don't owe em nothing. They'll charge it to the game. No matter how much you play it cool, just remember that there are some unhinged people out there who will not take kindly to you moving on regardless of how easy you let em off the hook.

  • Feb 3
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    Young King

    What your afraid she gonna ghost? You been onna date yet?

    I went on a date with her yesterday and man I’m really speechless she’s really special

  • Feb 3
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    oshikuru

    I went on a date with her yesterday and man I’m really speechless she’s really special

    Dont show neediness to her man

  • I rather be ghosted than have someone lie to me

  • CRACKASTEPPAVEGAN

    Just delete bro, this is a nothing issue.

    @op they telling you to do the Cole

  • Feb 3
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    CRACKASTEPPAVEGAN

    If y'all don't plan on meeting then you don't owe em nothing. They'll charge it to the game. No matter how much you play it cool, just remember that there are some unhinged people out there who will not take kindly to you moving on regardless of how easy you let em off the hook.

    That’s why I’m conflicted, I know it’s not the right thing to do ghosting someone but that’s happened to me in the past. I told a girl I wasn’t in the right space for dating at that moment, told her how great she seemed and how whoever ends up with her is a lucky person and she responded by basically saying she was gonna khs 🙃

    She didn’t actually obviously but how are you gonna put that on someone that’s never even met you??

    I know this is such a dumb question but this is why I asked it cause some people are legit nuts

  • Young King

    Dont show neediness to her man

    I’m doing my best to be cool, I really really really really don’t wanna mess this one up

  • Feb 3
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    i thought this was going to be about family or something its dating apps bra who tf cares

  • you should kill her

  • oshikuru

    That’s why I’m conflicted, I know it’s not the right thing to do ghosting someone but that’s happened to me in the past. I told a girl I wasn’t in the right space for dating at that moment, told her how great she seemed and how whoever ends up with her is a lucky person and she responded by basically saying she was gonna khs 🙃

    She didn’t actually obviously but how are you gonna put that on someone that’s never even met you??

    I know this is such a dumb question but this is why I asked it cause some people are legit nuts

    That's on them bro, not you. We all got problems. Delete and move on, it's really simple.

  • Cherrywine1

    I think that ghosting people reflects poor character, but yea technically you don’t owe online people anything

  • Feb 3
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    americana

    Ay man if ur texting someone for weeks on end without meeting them wtf u doing spoiling all the fun

    long distance relationship

  • Feb 3
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    Warren Peace

    long distance relationship

    I, personally, could never initiate a relationship as long distance

    It developing into LD is cool

  • Feb 3
    Lmfao

    Most these users don’t got much experience w dating. I always meet girls within 5 days after the first text

    Tbh Ive been seeing this girl for a few months and I didn’t get their number till about last week

    We share a gym and a mutual friend so I just end up pulling up on dates/times we agree too

    Great dynamic

  • americana

    I, personally, could never initiate a relationship as long distance

    It developing into LD is cool

    i couldn’t do it at all. quality time is my love language

  • Feb 3
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    the worst for me was when things were going so well and i clicked with a girl and then she just removed me from her life randomly on a whim. that s*** hurted. i was always honest with girls if i didn't want anything real or if i need to leave them in my past

  • Feb 3
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    ghosting is p**** s***. you dont even have to meet up with someone to tell them you’re not interested anymore lol. dont ghost people and be a man about it.

  • Feb 3
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    Plight2

    i thought this was going to be about family or something its dating apps bra who tf cares

  • u ok jay

    i was actually about to fire up a geniune post about family and then its just this

  • Feb 3
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    scoop

    ghosting is p**** s***. you dont even have to meet up with someone to tell them you’re not interested anymore lol. dont ghost people and be a man about it.

    What about the women?

  • Closure doesn't exist. It's just a way to leave a thread open for future connection. They don't want you no more just fall back.

    And when you get older, just say how you feel and dip

  • Ive ghosted 2 dates. Still glad i did

  • Feb 3
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    I would much rather be ghosted than whoever I’m talking to me to say “yeah I don’t really like you” in a message just for them to feel better about themselves