With most of male friends, we have shared interests, and when I hang out with them, we usually spend our time on a shared activity. I got into chess a few years ago, and when I hang out with my male friends, we often talk and play some games. If it’s in the evening, we’ll grab some beers out of the fridge.
This year, 2 of my closest friends got into new hobbies: one got really into playing some old Smash Bros game and the other pool.
Obv I end up playing those with them, and I suck at both. To the point i could easily get 10-0’d in either one. I respect the time they’ve put in, but I have 0 interest in improving. Ive gotten a lot better at both out of respect for them, but I’m not going to spend my own time getting better at them.
They’ve both lost interest in chess (somewhat coincidentally i got a lot better and was winning more) and I feel like it shifted our friendship dynamics
just be grateful you got friends some ppl out here have f*** all not even that its such work/home for them
just be grateful you got friends some ppl out here have f*** all not even that its such work/home for them
It wasn’t meant to be a super serious thread but you’re right!! I lost a bunch of friends at the start of 2023, i know what it feels like to be lonely.
which is why i started a chess club in my city. I love lonely, socially awkward men because they’re generally good people who need love and encouragement.
Yall are weird and should not have access to internet
I see what you’re saying, but if us schizos couldn’t use the internet, think of the kind of trouble we’d get to irl
this mmight be the funniest thing ive read on here LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
Ever so slightly homoerotic male friendships are back, and in a big way!!
I think with the pool friend we’re gonna mix it up with poker since we both wanna get into that, and we still have our weekly new music sessions where we check out new singles.
We’ve talked about 2manning a girl but neither one of us wants to share rn. He’s kinda street and is v aesthetically homophobic, but he’s done more gay s*** than me, and one nigjt when we were really drunk said I could suck his d***. I didn’t but after saying no i kinda regretted it
This post is a hot mess
This post is a hot mess
I was responding to a comment suggesting a “gooning sesh”
Im the normal one here
Aye ton’ ya ever heard a hobbyzoning?
Nah, T, hobbyzoning’s last years news, man. Hobbymaxxing’s all the rage now. All the kids -
Aye! Pipe down. I practically grew up with the man and can’t even get a word in. Back in my day, there was an order to things…
With most of male friends, we have shared interests, and when I hang out with them, we usually spend our time on a shared activity. I got into chess a few years ago, and when I hang out with my male friends, we often talk and play some games. If it’s in the evening, we’ll grab some beers out of the fridge.
This year, 2 of my closest friends got into new hobbies: one got really into playing some old Smash Bros game and the other pool.
Obv I end up playing those with them, and I suck at both. To the point i could easily get 10-0’d in either one. I respect the time they’ve put in, but I have 0 interest in improving. Ive gotten a lot better at both out of respect for them, but I’m not going to spend my own time getting better at them.
They’ve both lost interest in chess (somewhat coincidentally i got a lot better and was winning more) and I feel like it shifted our friendship dynamics
This the gayest thing I ever read
Crine imagine ever caring this much
Hbomax
How old are you
He’s 14
I think with the pool friend we’re gonna mix it up with poker since we both wanna get into that, and we still have our weekly new music sessions where we check out new singles.
We’ve talked about 2manning a girl but neither one of us wants to share rn. He’s kinda street and is v aesthetically homophobic, but he’s done more gay s*** than me, and one nigjt when we were really drunk said I could suck his d***. I didn’t but after saying no i kinda regretted it
Bruh I was about to write a whole paragraph until I seen this s***
Sounds to me like they quit cause you got too good, so easy solution: get so good at smadhbros and pool that you absolutely destroy them and make them quit that as well. Keep doing that until they get a hobby you like, and then don't get better in it