If you talk to those people yourself you'll realize most actually do have a passion ,once did , or is too scared to start
I did media and learnt a bit. This could be a very basic explanation (for the west) and miniscule factor
The media has portrayed nuclear families and long work hours as perquisites to be a valued member of their communities ever since newspapers. To have the title 'good' in pilgrim times you would have to fit the requirements of the bible and only then would you be respected. When people are boxed in and repeatedly push an ideal they expect its normal. For example 'to be useful and respected in society I must work a 9-5'
Fast forward, TV only helped people come to the conclusion that the 'white picket fence' life style is the epitome of happiness and don't believe there isn't anything better to do because all the advertisements, their religion and elders reinforce it is the best life you can have.
this is too long but the world is much less ignorant now with the internet blah blah people now are open to people chasing atypical jobs/lifestyles ect so it is getting better.
And you see older people already be stubborn to the fact younger people are trying to tear down the traditions they felt like they built as a generation. Like certain rules in the workplace and your daily lifestyle of what you actually care about
“....Is there really a difference then, between those who fully accept and those who don’t? If there actions end up following the dictates of the genre. Regardless of what way we become part of the genre, the reason we play our parts is all the same- a reward”
We’re all just kids chasing a candy bar. Only the candy has been replaced with material things. Millions, Fast car, 🍑, etc...
i feel like many people don't have the choice not to. be it due to lack of perspective or their cards not being right
For people saying "well people have families to feed so they have to work whatever job", then don't have kids lmao.
People have kids way too frivolously and don't think about the situation they'd be placing their kids into.
Whether it be a situation where there's poor personal finances of the parents or the if world the kid is being born into itself is volatile and dangerous.
It's a lot easier to do what you want in life without the burden of having to start a family.
As you get older you’ll realize life is unpredictable and most people don’t choose their situation. It’s just kind of where they end up. Nobody works a job they hate because they have no passion. It’s survival. They can either complain or find the good in it and make the most out of it.
A lot of you young mfs will learn that real world is more unstructured than it appears. When you in school and s*** there’s structure and there’s always a safety net, so you can dream as big as you want and take risks knowing you not going to completely fall off if you fail. In adult life one bad move or decision can put you in a hole that you might have to spend years digging yourself out of.
Most people aren’t going quit their job to make beats and s*** full-time when they gotta feed their family. The risk ain’t worth it. Personally, I still dream big, but my decisions now are way more calculated and thoughtful than when I was your age. I got s*** to lose now.
This.
You have to be more calculated as a adult. I can't be as reckless with my decisions now that I'm 24
they could think their purpose is raising a family and a desk job supports that, you’re not better than anyone bra
For people saying "well people have families to feed so they have to work whatever job", then don't have kids lmao.
People have kids way too frivolously and don't think about the situation they'd be placing their kids into.
Whether it be a situation where there's poor personal finances of the parents or the if world the kid is being born into itself is volatile and dangerous.
It's a lot easier to do what you want in life without the burden of having to start a family.
A lot of people actually want kids.
As you get older you’ll realize life is unpredictable and most people don’t choose their situation. It’s just kind of where they end up. Nobody works a job they hate because they have no passion. It’s survival. They can either complain or find the good in it and make the most out of it.
A lot of you young mfs will learn that real world is more unstructured than it appears. When you in school and s*** there’s structure and there’s always a safety net, so you can dream as big as you want and take risks knowing you not going to completely fall off if you fail. In adult life one bad move or decision can put you in a hole that you might have to spend years digging yourself out of.
Most people aren’t going quit their job to make beats and s*** full-time when they gotta feed their family. The risk ain’t worth it. Personally, I still dream big, but my decisions now are way more calculated and thoughtful than when I was your age. I got s*** to lose now.
they could think their purpose is raising a family and a desk job supports that, you’re not better than anyone bra
I'm not saying I'm better than them at all, I eventually want to have a family too and would do what I have to do to support them, but I would ideally be in a position where I followed my dreams too, cause I'd also want my kids to be inspired off that.
Again tho, if your passion is to just have a family then by all means live your life and have a desk job, but that's not what I'm talking about here.
I'm not saying I'm better than them at all, I eventually want to have a family too and would do what I have to do to support them, but I would ideally be in a position where I followed my dreams too, cause I'd also want my kids to be inspired off that.
Again tho, if your passion is to just have a family then by all means live your life and have a desk job, but that's not what I'm talking about here.
comes off exactly like that
False.
Actually getting a job affords people so much more opportunity to actually live while still young. Instead of struggling living with my mom, I can plan events to travel and go out and actually afford it myself and enjoy myself.
Because it's a sense of comfort and direction in an absurd life where nothing has genuine purpose
Some people just aren't in a position to follow their dreams and others just don't have any dreams