Damn wtf yall really skipped over that vid I posted

You gotta stop putting importance on impermanence. You got rejected. And? That whole process was probably 5 minutes max but you carrying that over two days? Life goes on, you need to go on with it. Figure out your values and what’s important to you. And try it more, learn from your mistakes trial and error and also realize that sometimes it ain’t you but sometimes it is. Youll never truly know so it is what it is.

@op having an idgaf attitude, embracing who you are, and remembering that everyone is weird/insecure/flawed in some way will 100% help you

you don't need a therapist for confidence issues lmao

no but you could need a therapist for other issues that could also affect your confidence

just do one small thing each day that gets you out of your comfort zone op

I don't think it's that serious with op, all in all people really need to stop suggesting seek a therapist in the first post they make , when they try to give advice

dont be scared to take L's, a lot of people are scared to fail, which only damages their confidence in the long run. you have to make mistakes to learn, we all human at the end of the day

If he’s in his head too much & constantly bringing himself down. He says when a girl rejects him he thinks about it for days, a therapist can help change his perspective on these instances & create a new positive narrative for him

umm I think they just meant like if that stuff is also a problem

I see what you are saying but it's probably not gonna hurt anyone so it doesn't really matter

Have you ever been to a therapist? It sounds like you’re unaware of the benefits it can have on you

It’ll happen, but once you keep doing you’ll become numb to it. Especially when someone says yes.

But seriously workout, meditate, or indulge yourself with other things.

I don't have any extreme mental issues so no, I also don't keep things bottled up and I have close friends when I feel like talking about real s***. Plus most young adults can't even afford a therapist.

unless OP is really fearful when talking to people and show it in his posture then maybe yeah he might need a therapist but simple confidence issues doesn't really call for one

Nah you said go see a therapist and get on medication based off the OP alone. You ain’t even have the context that you talkin bout in this post. No type of questions even tryna figure out his actual issues first. First thing you jump to is medicating the nigga?? Sure therapy can work but it don’t need to be the first option plus who knows about his funds. His issues seems like they can be handled by himself if he really tries.

.... calm down buddy

Lol you calm down g. The whole point is not jump to conclusions.

yeah but they said if they are depressed or anxious

Tru but he didnt even know the issue of OP. At least try to get some more info out the dude first lol

My point still stands

A big part of it is stop giving a f. You are who you are so love yourself.

it aint that deep lol im just a b****nigga