The answers be right in our face

They don’t call you the water giver for nothing

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even the flattest ass getting piped on a fri/sat night when theres a guy drunk and/or h**** that ass be looking like jlo remember 1 time i was dancing wtith shawty at carnival waved asf lost her, lost my friends she had the phattest ass i swear was tryna find her n link her in north didnt she went on holiday we lost contact she hits my friend who's number i'd somehow drunkenly saved her number in (think my phone had died) up couple years later saying lets link im like bet go for drinks then back to hers had a nice time but it was top 5 flattest ass i been with ( nothing wrong with that) just in my head she had the a brazy bbl type joint even before bbls were even a thing n she was backing it up like brazy x type beat i was so wrong my drunken eyes deceived me i was literally falling in love with that ironing board ass imagining it was a coco type beat:idris: ....

probably wasn't a sexual advances though? 'you want this p****' off that bat' 'come over lets netflix n chill' etc think thats what ops aiming for straight away which is crazy pokemon mewtwo shiny rare even if you objectively a 10/10 guy

What you say lmao
used to think beer goggles were a myth before this one time I was vibing with what I thought was a Rihanna tier bad gyal at a dimly lit bar and then next day my friends filled me in
I refused to believe it but then texted her for a picture and her arms were twice as big as mine

I still haven’t forgiven them fully for not interfering/stepping in and coming to my rescue tbqh

i done worse my bredrin rushed over was on an emergency 'STOP EXCUSE ME HE'S GOT A GIRLFRINED' tried to steer me clear but i was like nah stop playa hating she might be a lil big but she got a phat ass bwoy was i wrong that s*** was back fat the sloppy was sensational though i apologised to him next day i shouldve listened she was backing up a flat fat concave ass getting me bricked asf n i was believing she was stacked like oxbridge bookshelves

idk if it helps op but most of the reasons "why" women tell me they approached me is either of these things or all together

1. my voice. i have a unique voice that is ironically due to health issues but girls have always loved it since middle school. technically its not what my voice is suppose to be naturally, its from lung and damaged chord vocal issues as a kid.

2. im funny and i dont seem standoffish or an a******/threatening.

3. my height. im 6'2. asking "how tall am i" is a classic opener from woman to me.

4. how i dress. i dress nice but without being extra about it or obnoxious.

5. an air of "mystique". i come off a bit reserved or like "all my cards arent out there, but i also seem confident and "strong".

6. racial ambiguity. im mixed, black and white. my white mom is itallian and irish - but my black fathers mom (my black gma) is literally half black half native (cherokee) which makes my fathers kids (us) have like 10 percent of native or sumn s*** and we're viewed as official native race. anywyas, all too say, most people at first look "dont know what i am" outside of my hair and facial features being 1000% black. so another opner thats common with women "hey i wanted ask what race/culture/heritage are you?" then i usually joke and play coy with sumn like "what do you think i am". most think im part black either majority or part, then also i get a bunch of ish like puerto rican, middle eastern, indian & sometimes even asked if im part asian cuz native american cherokee eyes theres a slight slant to em and its
present on me lol. its a slight curve in the corner of the eye. most of them never think im mixed with white. and a very few dont think im mixed at all.

thats mostly for irl but also me being funny and how i look is what ive been told gets them to cold dm and cold comment/follow me. this has been happening since middle school (which is funny cuz in elementary girls used to ignore me and i had a bit of a self confidence issue in first half of middle school).

also irl they say they observe how i interact with my friends and they liked my interactions with my friends.

but yeah, most of these things are outside yours or mine control. like i said idk if any of it will help. most of it comes down to " "mystery" " (not in the corny reddit or anime way tho) that gives the woman something to say or ask, or how approachable you seem with the way you act and look.

Eventually s***is just flesh and bone man

Don't make the same mistakes i have made and prioritize a genuine connection and finding someone whose not only hot but challenges you and pushes you to be better

of course not lol that not going to happen unless youre in a straight up planned p***o.

it doesnt even work like that for guys unless you want to be called a creep or catch a charge.

flirting tho yes - and starting a convo or wanting to get to know more of me. etc. before i ever interacted and sometimes dont even know theyre there.

i just posted what the "reasons" and how it starts above.

most women ive dated too are usually 1 to 3 years older than me too. my first actual girlfriend was a 9th grader freshman when i was in 8th middle. she thot i was older. she started our first ever interaction at a friends house.

but even with women my age or younger its the same most of the time too. just that i actually date tends to be older.

And that the f***ed up part about this dating s***

Like ugly hoes need love too but I know one too many ugly hoes with a roster of niggas

Post your d*** in the thread so we can truly guide you

yh interesting break down would help if op gave a similiar breakdown so we could help but i think the main problem is his use of 'sexual advances' (basically impossible) as just opposed to 'advances' (possible but might be rare depending on what his situation is age/height/general attractiveness/job/where he hangs out etc.) think the way he wrote it feels like he just expecting women to just go out on a limb and throw p**** at him lol unless u like drake that's just not happening

women making “advances” on you is them making eye contact and smiling at u for example u still have to go up and start the convo after that

i feel like the roster s*** all fun n games til u get older she freinds getting married having children building with their s/o's n she now actually wants a serious relationship n they all like n she playing real life trav alot of man wanna beat lay the smack down but not really tryna lock down a relationship with an objectively ugly girl savage but true but getting that free grad a d*** from multiple sources got some of them feeling like ' i can get into a relationship at any time im the s***' like nu uh hunny thats not how this works

As long as the initial effort is made bro code is kept what you do after that is on you if the initial save is turned down you chalk it up as something your boy wanted lol

na not even he was on a protect your bredrin from a crusty ass he was actually sabotaging his chances by talking to me intervening as others tings might have looked at him like 'you deal with that u actually fine but n uh u cant talk to me know'

Some of em got good rosters too lmao

After I graduated from college I did the room share thing for a bit, my roomie was nasty and trashy as can be, and I had to turn her down countless times, had to eventually get a lock on my door to stop her from trying to sneak into bed to cuddle lmao, but she had a roster of pretty boys that did whatever she wanted, she said it was all about her swag and cockiness that despite being huge she could get whoever she wanted (her words not mine from my point of view she was thirsty af and just fired left and right knowing some will bite the bait )

just carry coke and offer it

just had a flashback (not pun intended) i'd literally seen the lengest tall fluffy ( in all the right places) girl at a festival been talking to her for couple hours dancing together etc. thought it was a go then she drops the ' i got a man i cant do anything more me and my girlfriend going home now enjoy your night' left me like trav which led to the fat back spiral that my friend tried to save me from :​

Lmao this is non ironically the way into every ditsy blondes heart

Who wasn’t been there at some point

In my experience they just instantly physically grab me and pull me to a private room