darkknight

4mo

Not far off. A lot of the times being unemployed = splash szn. But f*** those distractions lol fully focused

mdmadon

4mo

are you glamorizing being sexually assaulted at work

Melz

4mo

We were hooking up secretly so it’s not a typical SA situation but she cornered me and kissed me at work when I wasn’t expecting it at all

If ur around women a lot and nothing like this is happening to u then u just don’t have anything going for u

OHMNI

4mo

WHAT IS TO FOLKS

Melz

4mo

We were hooking up secretly so it’s not a typical SA situation but she cornered me and kissed me at work when I wasn’t expecting it at all

If ur around women a lot and nothing like this is happening to u then u just don’t have anything going for u

Water Giver

4mo

idk if it helps op but most of the reasons "why" women tell me they approached me is either of these things or all together

1. my voice. i have a unique voice that is ironically due to health issues but girls have always loved it since middle school. technically its not what my voice is suppose to be naturally, its from lung and damaged chord vocal issues as a kid.

2. im funny and i dont seem standoffish or an a******/threatening.

3. my height. im 6'2. asking "how tall am i" is a classic opener from woman to me.

4. how i dress. i dress nice but without being extra about it or obnoxious.

5. an air of "mystique". i come off a bit reserved or like "all my cards arent out there, but i also seem confident and "strong".

6. racial ambiguity. im mixed, black and white. my white mom is itallian and irish - but my black fathers mom (my black gma) is literally half black half native (cherokee) which makes my fathers kids (us) have like 10 percent of native or sumn s*** and we're viewed as official native race. anywyas, all too say, most people at first look "dont know what i am" outside of my hair and facial features being 1000% black. so another opner thats common with women "hey i wanted ask what race/culture/heritage are you?" then i usually joke and play coy with sumn like "what do you think i am". most think im part black either majority or part, then also i get a bunch of ish like puerto rican, middle eastern, indian & sometimes even asked if im part asian cuz native american cherokee eyes theres a slight slant to em and its
present on me lol. its a slight curve in the corner of the eye. most of them never think im mixed with white. and a very few dont think im mixed at all.

thats mostly for irl but also me being funny and how i look is what ive been told gets them to cold dm and cold comment/follow me. this has been happening since middle school (which is funny cuz in elementary girls used to ignore me and i had a bit of a self confidence issue in first half of middle school).

also irl they say they observe how i interact with my friends and they liked my interactions with my friends.

but yeah, most of these things are outside yours or mine control. like i said idk if any of it will help. most of it comes down to " "mystery" " (not in the corny reddit or anime way tho) that gives the woman something to say or ask, or how approachable you seem with the way you act and look.

Melz

4mo

We were hooking up secretly so it’s not a typical SA situation but she cornered me and kissed me at work when I wasn’t expecting it at all

If ur around women a lot and nothing like this is happening to u then u just don’t have anything going for u

OHMNI

4mo

Nigga a victim

Water Giver

4mo

idk if it helps op but most of the reasons "why" women tell me they approached me is either of these things or all together

1. my voice. i have a unique voice that is ironically due to health issues but girls have always loved it since middle school. technically its not what my voice is suppose to be naturally, its from lung and damaged chord vocal issues as a kid.

2. im funny and i dont seem standoffish or an a******/threatening.

3. my height. im 6'2. asking "how tall am i" is a classic opener from woman to me.

4. how i dress. i dress nice but without being extra about it or obnoxious.

5. an air of "mystique". i come off a bit reserved or like "all my cards arent out there, but i also seem confident and "strong".

6. racial ambiguity. im mixed, black and white. my white mom is itallian and irish - but my black fathers mom (my black gma) is literally half black half native (cherokee) which makes my fathers kids (us) have like 10 percent of native or sumn s*** and we're viewed as official native race. anywyas, all too say, most people at first look "dont know what i am" outside of my hair and facial features being 1000% black. so another opner thats common with women "hey i wanted ask what race/culture/heritage are you?" then i usually joke and play coy with sumn like "what do you think i am". most think im part black either majority or part, then also i get a bunch of ish like puerto rican, middle eastern, indian & sometimes even asked if im part asian cuz native american cherokee eyes theres a slight slant to em and its
present on me lol. its a slight curve in the corner of the eye. most of them never think im mixed with white. and a very few dont think im mixed at all.

thats mostly for irl but also me being funny and how i look is what ive been told gets them to cold dm and cold comment/follow me. this has been happening since middle school (which is funny cuz in elementary girls used to ignore me and i had a bit of a self confidence issue in first half of middle school).

also irl they say they observe how i interact with my friends and they liked my interactions with my friends.

but yeah, most of these things are outside yours or mine control. like i said idk if any of it will help. most of it comes down to " "mystery" " (not in the corny reddit or anime way tho) that gives the woman something to say or ask, or how approachable you seem with the way you act and look.

Melz

4mo

We were hooking up secretly so it’s not a typical SA situation but she cornered me and kissed me at work when I wasn’t expecting it at all

If ur around women a lot and nothing like this is happening to u then u just don’t have anything going for u

Melz

4mo

Funny to think about but then I get to do it to her back

It was basically a game of pushing limits

Water Giver

4mo

idk if it helps op but most of the reasons "why" women tell me they approached me is either of these things or all together

1. my voice. i have a unique voice that is ironically due to health issues but girls have always loved it since middle school. technically its not what my voice is suppose to be naturally, its from lung and damaged chord vocal issues as a kid.

2. im funny and i dont seem standoffish or an a******/threatening.

3. my height. im 6'2. asking "how tall am i" is a classic opener from woman to me.

4. how i dress. i dress nice but without being extra about it or obnoxious.

5. an air of "mystique". i come off a bit reserved or like "all my cards arent out there, but i also seem confident and "strong".

6. racial ambiguity. im mixed, black and white. my white mom is itallian and irish - but my black fathers mom (my black gma) is literally half black half native (cherokee) which makes my fathers kids (us) have like 10 percent of native or sumn s*** and we're viewed as official native race. anywyas, all too say, most people at first look "dont know what i am" outside of my hair and facial features being 1000% black. so another opner thats common with women "hey i wanted ask what race/culture/heritage are you?" then i usually joke and play coy with sumn like "what do you think i am". most think im part black either majority or part, then also i get a bunch of ish like puerto rican, middle eastern, indian & sometimes even asked if im part asian cuz native american cherokee eyes theres a slight slant to em and its
present on me lol. its a slight curve in the corner of the eye. most of them never think im mixed with white. and a very few dont think im mixed at all.

thats mostly for irl but also me being funny and how i look is what ive been told gets them to cold dm and cold comment/follow me. this has been happening since middle school (which is funny cuz in elementary girls used to ignore me and i had a bit of a self confidence issue in first half of middle school).

also irl they say they observe how i interact with my friends and they liked my interactions with my friends.

but yeah, most of these things are outside yours or mine control. like i said idk if any of it will help. most of it comes down to " "mystery" " (not in the corny reddit or anime way tho) that gives the woman something to say or ask, or how approachable you seem with the way you act and look.