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  • Mar 17, 2021
    SecretGarden

    There were Nazi soldiers who killed jews and showed no remorse who went on to live normal lives and have families.

    Universe is a cold uncaring place brother.

    I agree, if i can get back at the person and not get in trouble(go to jail) i will deal w them myself. But other than that i hope for the worse for them and keep it moving w my life( DISClAIMER i don't actively think about things like this only when im reminded)

  • Mar 17, 2021
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    SecretGarden

    In your case maybe you should forgive, I think we talked about it before.

    It’s complicated but it’s also really f***ing annoying they’d genuinely be friends with an actual physical abuser over me

    They stepped over bounds first.

  • Mar 17, 2021

    they say forgiveness is really for yourself and not the other person

    forgive, but take a mental note dont be naive i guess

  • Mar 17, 2021

    biggest stunt is moving on tbh

  • Mar 17, 2021

    forgive yourself 1st for not forgiving then do the rest

  • Mar 17, 2021
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    Emery Atreides

    It’s complicated but it’s also really f***ing annoying they’d genuinely be friends with an actual physical abuser over me

    They stepped over bounds first.

    These guys are friends with an actual pedophile who stalks minors over me so you just gotta understand some people are going to be s***ty. It's life.

  • Mar 17, 2021
    SecretGarden

    These guys are friends with an actual pedophile who stalks minors over me so you just gotta understand some people are going to be s***ty. It's life.

  • Mar 17, 2021

    “Don’t be sorry be better” if they improve/don’t do it again I’ll move on

  • you don't always have to.

  • Mar 17, 2021

    I been drinking real crazy

  • realize it ain’t that serious and move on

  • Mar 18, 2021

    if it’s up

  • Mar 18, 2021
    Shelby

    sometimes you just gotta let time pass by

    this the one

  • Mar 18, 2021
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    nothing truly matters and everything is temporary

  • Mar 18, 2021

    And if you really wanted to be kind
    You'd have forgiven them a long ass time ago
    And if you really wanna know how kind you are
    Just ask yourself why you're lying in bed alone

  • Mar 18, 2021
    No Color

    Realizing that hate, grudges, all that, will rot you from the inside

    You’ll end up hurting yourself even more than they did. They’ll end up winning.

    Also, me personally I’m tired of the cycle of hate. I rather just remove myself completely.

  • Mar 18, 2021

    literally just spark up a j & I'm over it by the next day

  • Mar 18, 2021

    i’m pretty forgiving i give it some time because i’m usually annoyed and not thinking 100% of course

    let yourself be angry

    you don’t necessarily need to forgive

  • Feel like holding long term grudges is what makes 28 year olds look middle aged

  • Mar 18, 2021
    eversince

    nothing truly matters and everything is temporary

  • Jun 18, 2021
    eversince

    nothing truly matters and everything is temporary

    lol nah but seriously, time to move on now

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