Going through a break up rn and just wondering what do other people do to get through it ?
I cried then got really drunk in Vegas two days ago and partied. Im not done grieving but I feel 70% better
Gotta get in the gym though too
Become a shell of my former self, still smiling and in a happy mood for my people, but slowly lose trust in those around me/question on an existential level how/why I feel so alone
Then I do d****, f*** hoes, and make music. Pray to Allah for repentance for the former two.
Rinse, repeat
Write
Drink
Create stuff
Cry
Listen to music
Take walks
Go to my karaoke spot
Hang out with friends
Basically the same s*** I do anyway only I feel worse when I'm doing it
Hard to answer . I plan on marrying my girl if we broke up I don’t even know what I’d do. Probably relapse
S***s hard man No real advice for it but take it day by day and just know life continues and do things you enjoy
find productive things to put your times towards, like start a clothing brand or another dream you might’ve had
keep yourself busy with productive things that benefit you (gym, school, work, hobbies)
— i recommend against distracting yourself with women and s***and attention because that often seems to be worse in the long run for actually healing from a breakup and coming to terms with it
First off ,you gotta join relationship sxn with the rest of us degenerates. I got a girl but i’ll always have dirt on me. We family now
Download hinge and tinder depending on area and if you a nigga stay the f*** away from bumble. Come off as a genuine dude and dont tell them you just got done with a breakup. If you’re mentally weak like me you prolly not gonna get over her for years to come. Just gotta f*** as many hoes as possible to get your mind off her. But let’s be real here aint no one gonna top shawty, they never do
After you f*** some hoes you gotta get the foundation back g, do what you love and hang with the boys. Whatever hobby you enjoy stick to it and connect with others through it. Me and my boy be gaming every night so i can forget how worthless i am without for about 3 hours
Throw yourself into hobbies, whether it be exercisie, reading, meditation, sports etc, just find something that will keep you preoccupied
There’s no set amount of time to heal, but before spiraling out with all your emotions just remember to love yourself first. Anything that you enjoy doing just transfer your emotions into that. You might discover something new you enjoy.
Burying yourself in partying/casual s***etc ain’t gonna do s*** fr, sure it’ll distract you but in the end you gotta go through that path.