Gojira 🦖Jul 17, 2023you gotta pee pee the poo poo my man
Nort 💫Jul 17, 2023Live life. Have new experiences.
Jul 17, 2023D**** start feeling like it's decaf.....
Jul 17, 2023Not very well ill tell you that much
Jul 17, 2023·edited·2 repliesbeen 3 years.
eh, lot of alarming advice in here but I'll say this @op
S***and f***ing others isn't it at all. And the fact men keep driving that agenda is why we have such an unhealthy relationship with s***as a whole. You just temporarily filling that hole until you nut. It's nothing worse than f***ing someone else while you thinking about someone else. It's quite distorting and dehumanizing and s***should honestly not be utilized as a coping mechanism.
(this aint an attack on hookups as a whole, there's nothing wrong with casual if people are on a healthy level)
A good percentage of f*** niggas are homies that never really got over that one girl that broke they heart back in '09.
Understand that yes, you'll probably never love someone like her because what you had for her was something unforgettable and special but most important of all, it was in the past.
You gotta learn to be comfortable with your own emotions and understand there is so much more to this life that can bring you so much fulfillment to the point that...hell maybe even more than a girl can.
Another important thing to acknowledge as men (shoutout to therapy, also something I recommend) is as a group of people that're severely touch starved, we gotta learn to shed alot of that s***. Gotta find there's more physical intimacy we can achieve with our platonic friends both men and women that doesn't have to do with s***or romance.
It's why @Awarded made a great point, if we was more in tune we wouldn't be overly emotionally reliant on our girl to literally be our EVERYTHING. Cause (if she's sane at least), hopefully we aren't her everything either.
Jul 17, 2023This relationship that just ended isn’t the end all be all, other women will come in into your life. Distract yourself, talk to other women, see what you like and what you don’t like
- Jul 17, 2023
Therapy helped me last time
It was the only thing that ever really helped tbh
- Jul 17, 2023insertcoolnamehere· edited
been 3 years.
eh, lot of alarming advice in here but I'll say this @op
S***and f***ing others isn't it at all. And the fact men keep driving that agenda is why we have such an unhealthy relationship with s***as a whole. You just temporarily filling that hole until you nut. It's nothing worse than f***ing someone else while you thinking about someone else. It's quite distorting and dehumanizing and s***should honestly not be utilized as a coping mechanism.
(this aint an attack on hookups as a whole, there's nothing wrong with casual if people are on a healthy level)
A good percentage of f*** niggas are homies that never really got over that one girl that broke they heart back in '09.
Understand that yes, you'll probably never love someone like her because what you had for her was something unforgettable and special but most important of all, it was in the past.
You gotta learn to be comfortable with your own emotions and understand there is so much more to this life that can bring you so much fulfillment to the point that...hell maybe even more than a girl can.
Another important thing to acknowledge as men (shoutout to therapy, also something I recommend) is as a group of people that're severely touch starved, we gotta learn to shed alot of that s***. Gotta find there's more physical intimacy we can achieve with our platonic friends both men and women that doesn't have to do with s***or romance.
It's why @Awarded made a great point, if we was more in tune we wouldn't be overly emotionally reliant on our girl to literally be our EVERYTHING. Cause (if she's sane at least), hopefully we aren't her everything either.
What a banger goddamn
OPJul 19, 2023insertcoolnameherebeen 3 years.
eh, lot of alarming advice in here but I'll say this @op
S***and f***ing others isn't it at all. And the fact men keep driving that agenda is why we have such an unhealthy relationship with s***as a whole. You just temporarily filling that hole until you nut. It's nothing worse than f***ing someone else while you thinking about someone else. It's quite distorting and dehumanizing and s***should honestly not be utilized as a coping mechanism.
(this aint an attack on hookups as a whole, there's nothing wrong with casual if people are on a healthy level)
A good percentage of f*** niggas are homies that never really got over that one girl that broke they heart back in '09.
Understand that yes, you'll probably never love someone like her because what you had for her was something unforgettable and special but most important of all, it was in the past.
You gotta learn to be comfortable with your own emotions and understand there is so much more to this life that can bring you so much fulfillment to the point that...hell maybe even more than a girl can.
Another important thing to acknowledge as men (shoutout to therapy, also something I recommend) is as a group of people that're severely touch starved, we gotta learn to shed alot of that s***. Gotta find there's more physical intimacy we can achieve with our platonic friends both men and women that doesn't have to do with s***or romance.
It's why @Awarded made a great point, if we was more in tune we wouldn't be overly emotionally reliant on our girl to literally be our EVERYTHING. Cause (if she's sane at least), hopefully we aren't her everything either.
Needed this rn. i've been going f***ing crazy lately. really don't know what to do tbh.
- OPJul 19, 2023·1 reply
WisdomWatch 500 days of summer @op
Keep watching it until you get it
I get it, i just hate it.
- Jul 19, 2023·1 replyblue_42_
I get it, i just hate it.
What happened in your relationship to make it go south
Jul 19, 2023
- OPJul 20, 2023·2 repliesWisdom
What happened in your relationship to make it go south
that f***ing movie is the situation literally.
- Jul 20, 2023·1 replyblue_42_
that f***ing movie is the situation literally.
Brutal
Well, remember when the sister was like next time you look back look at everything not just what you want to see?
Do that a couple times and see where it went wrong. If you can’t find anything in memories.. then it’s really not on you.
Time unfortunately makes people fall apart. People get tired of each other and want to try something new. Especially in their 20s.
- Jul 20, 2023
Glow up and hook up and grind
Just stay busy tbh
Jul 20, 2023·1 replyi’m in a similar situation to you op
atm it’s distract myself during the day, cry a bit at night
Jul 20, 2023write songs
- Jul 20, 2023blue_42_
that f***ing movie is the situation literally.
- OPJul 21, 2023·1 replyWisdom
Brutal
Well, remember when the sister was like next time you look back look at everything not just what you want to see?
Do that a couple times and see where it went wrong. If you can’t find anything in memories.. then it’s really not on you.
Time unfortunately makes people fall apart. People get tired of each other and want to try something new. Especially in their 20s.
just had this conversation with her last night. we both blame ourselves for it but still hooking up. i just don't really wanna accept it because i feel that maybe not now but later on. idk, we're also close friends and shes moving away pretty soon.
- OPJul 21, 2023Chloe
i’m in a similar situation to you op
atm it’s distract myself during the day, cry a bit at night
don't do that to yourself. you deserve better homie. :
- Jul 21, 2023·1 replyblue_42_
just had this conversation with her last night. we both blame ourselves for it but still hooking up. i just don't really wanna accept it because i feel that maybe not now but later on. idk, we're also close friends and shes moving away pretty soon.
Been there bro
Ended in depression for about 2 weeks
Then I found someone else, brightened me right up.
It’ll happen, just takes time
Jul 21, 2023kill myself
- OPJul 21, 2023Wisdom
Been there bro
Ended in depression for about 2 weeks
Then I found someone else, brightened me right up.
It’ll happen, just takes time
I know.. i just can't stop thinking about the potential of it all. It's all just one sided and that s*** hurts.