Nute

1y

F*** his bride

Fever

1y

Did y'all bully op off the site

Niggamortis

1y

who are these other girls you were sending pics of during the relationship

Duck Fieri

1y

He tried to make amends and you were acting like a b**** now you're whining you won't be in a wedding

fun guy

1y

Why waste your time at a wedding for someone you dont fw especially if you're not desperate for friends

left4good

1y

honestly. If the groom wanted him there despite them falling out i feel like he would’ve asked. going there imo looks desperate, stay ur ass home.

DaeHan

1y

At this point, I really don't want to go.

Not on any malicious mean spirited type stuff. I'm really just over the friendship.

If I wanted to patch things up, I would've done it when he reached out.

Yes - We were childhood friends at one point, but we've grown apart over the years. We don't talk on a daily basis (only in group chats), and haven't seen each other in like 5 years lol

Wonyoungism

1y

blud really wants to get married to this dude the way he types whole harvard essays about him

JaeRell

1y

You don't even know of you're invited and you're asking us if you should attend?

DaeHan

1y

Basically he tried to son me by downplaying/disrespecting my relationship of 2 years

He mentioned that he was going to be in town, and I said that him and his fiancé should double date with me and my girl (of 2 years)

He Lol'd at that and said that she probably doesn't exist and that its probably my cousin who I just chill with - Disrespectful

I told him that it was disrespectful what he was saying, and that he's talking big now that he's engaged

He then said that he was just joking. I told him that we're too old to keep using "I was just joking" as an excuse when you say disrespectful s***. He's always made comments in the past, and I've let it slide.

He then said that my track record is shady when it comes to women and that I'm not the model to follow until proven otherwise, and not to come at him like I'm some saint. He says that because I'm serious about this girl now, how is he supposed to take it seriously after 10000s of times with other girls who are never mentioned agin'

I had to ask him, "If you see me trying to move in the right direction, why not acknowledge that instead of trying to harp on how I was in the past?"

My other homie in the chat chimed in and asked what happened and was met with - "He's being really sensitive over his track record...I've said these same things over the past 10 years and NOW he wants to get sensitive...he's got a girl who he's 'supposedly' been faithful to over the past 2 years but it doesn't add up because he still sends me pictures of other girls...he's gotten tender..."

I reiterated how I felt what he said was disrespectful and he told me that he didn't have time to keep talking because he had to get back to Bible study. I told him, "You need to go back to Bible study because you need Jesus"

His response was, "And don't ever ever ever ever speak to my faith life because I've done more than you have in a lifetime in just one year. I'll cut you off bro"

After that I was done

DaeHan

1y

Lol and I'm perfectly fine with this

Just wanted to make sure I'm not being an a****** by not going to the wedding

Gangy

1y

What was the argument

Vlonely

1y

Bible study

JaeRell

1y

You don't even know of you're invited and you're asking us if you should attend?

JaeRell

1y

You don't even know of you're invited and you're asking us if you should attend?

Big Tobacco

1y

go to the reception and air that s*** out

DaeHan

1y

Lol I have enough friends.

You really think I should still go?

DaeHan

1y

At this point, I really don't want to go.

Not on any malicious mean spirited type stuff. I'm really just over the friendship.

If I wanted to patch things up, I would've done it when he reached out.

Yes - We were childhood friends at one point, but we've grown apart over the years. We don't talk on a daily basis (only in group chats), and haven't seen each other in like 5 years lol