Hiking is essential

Sounds to me you are not toxic, rather you've led yourself to believe you are one since you have avoidant tendency and it works like a convenient excuse when really what you fear is the vulnerability that comes w relationships. Your whole life you've grown attached to feeling secure so you fear the unknown territory. If you think this is a diss well just know it's also self burn cause this s*** is on me too

What you need is a journey of healing towards self-acceptance. For me what helped is getting into relationship itself, cause once you start facing it you understand a lot of this s*** is just in your head. Give yourself a try

why seclude yourself like this though? What do you hope to accomplish?

this can again be a reflection of your tendencies where instead of learning balance, you’d rather seek healing by permanently removing. while it’s good on you for wanting to use social media less, wanting to use it less in hopes of solving an internal problem will only lead to that energy being put on something else or someone else

please heed my advice on page 2. I have been in a strong relationship now for over 2 years with someone just like you and it has been a challenging sacrifice on my end, something most will not put up with.

fix you first my brother. that avoidance is real and it only gets worse with a partner who gives you every excuse to keep enabling you without realizing it cause they don’t want to hurt you with the honest truth. there’s a base level understanding you need about yourself and why you act this way and many professionals have written many books

Good on you for realizing, well done do you have the time to go off and find yourself, cause the world waits for no one. Keep up at the gym and learn effective communication, every impulse can and must be monitored, and where you slip, take FULL accountability. Going off away from the world is a dramatic gamble, exist and face it! We won't be young forever

Have you tried putting it in rice

Therapy

Wishing you the best whatever you decide to do @op

Hope you stick around, great poster

dagestan 3 years and forget

Jerk off before having any conversation

read some Jung

Same but I’m not fixing it

be transparent to her about it

dude idk if youre toxic like ive been in your shoes based on the last thread you made and honestly you just might need to care less about what others think of your partner? thats what helped me

go to a place that’s foreign to you and learn something new it doesn’t have to be an indigenous tribe or anything but something you haven’t experienced before i find that really inspires me

atleast u realized it before u lost everything