you clearly just dont get what I mean
You where fat and missed out on girls and partys?
you can still do both of these now
op wants to be a person that peaked in hs 🥴
Basically
GUYS!!
YOUR EARLY TO MID 20s IS NOT OLD!!
YOU'RE STILL A DEPENDENT UNDER YOUR PARENT'S INSURANCE AND YOU CAN'T RENT A CAR OR HOUSE YET AND PROBABLY DON'T HAVE ANY CREDIT!!
Bro, you have at least 50 more years of life. Don't dwell on the past.
Have an amazing rest of your 20's, 30's, 40's etc.
Focus on the present, and be happy that you are breathing.
Sooooo you missed out on doing average teenage s*** and you stressed? Tbh all you need to do if that’s the case Is get some more p**** and go to hella concerts and kickbacks and that’s the peak. Now go chase who the f*** you want to be in your 20s and life in general. Now if you was 27-30 I could understand but you still fresh into this life s*** dog
nikkas graduate high skoo wit a 3.4 gpa and go "dam guess im in da real world nah" 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Sooooo you missed out on doing average teenage s*** and you stressed? Tbh all you need to do if that’s the case Is get some more p**** and go to hella concerts and kickbacks and that’s the peak. Now go chase who the f*** you want to be in your 20s and life in general. Now if you was 27-30 I could understand but you still fresh into this life s*** dog
I'm still a disgusting ugly fat boi so it's actually too late for me
I know how you feel man. I'm in the same situation (I'm not fat though). It's overwhelming to start improving my life right now, I don't even know where to begin, I'm way behind on every aspect of life. I don't have any friends and since I'm about to finish college I missed out on the best opportunities to socialize.
A ton of hs experiences, I could've gone to more parties, prom, dated girls etc I also havent been to a beach or pool since I was a kid bc I'm too insecure for that. I lived in atlanta for a couple years and I could've had a lot more fun but I wound up just being depressed and lonely.
Like my youth was ok but also kinda trash bc I was lame and missed out on s***
Dude stop dwelling on the past I promise you you aren't ugly and you have a future ahead of you.. seriously
Dude stop dwelling on the past I promise you you aren't ugly and you have a future ahead of you.. seriously
Yeah I know I cant change the past but I cant stop being extremely mad at myself for how much I've f***ed up tho
Ehhhhhh
I kinda feel the same, but I improved my life, lost weight and have a gf and other girls interested in me now and try and be more social. But I still regret what I missed out on in high school because I was a p*** addict and fat. I played football at least tho
I’m 19 and freshman in college btw..
Yeah I know I cant change the past but I cant stop being extremely mad at myself for how much I've f***ed up tho
Dude only you can focus in the future. You aren't fat or a bad looking guy. I'm serious
i feel you op
Two types of people in the world
Reactive: "I've wasted my entire youth, my life if over"
Proactive: "I am not happy with who I am, what can I do to change things?"
Youre 23 bro thats not even old. Get your s*** together and stop feeling sorry for yourself.
Two types of people in the world
Reactive: "I've wasted my entire youth, my life if over"
Proactive: "I am not happy with who I am, what can I do to change things?"
Youre 23 bro thats not even old. Get your s*** together and stop feeling sorry for yourself.
I'm doing both actually
I'm doing both actually
You can regret what you've done, but being stuck in the past won't help you. Take this moment as a wakeup call and start thinking in the future. Lot of people I know have had amazing late 20s to earlier 30s. You arent an old man, but it's good to wake up sooner rather than later.