She’ll come to you. Don’t go looking

i've heard Tinder is pretty lit if you looking for something serious

And next time don't throw away a good thing for no reason. Realize what you have in front of you

Just focus on yourself and keep leveling up in the mean time. Trust me, don’t be too stuck. Easier said than done I know tho.

But nah like others said OP, that s*** will just happen when u don't expect it

It really is a magical thing

I've met my current girl of 4+ years while working my first job years ago but i was in a relationship already back then

Then like a week or two after i broke up with that girl i went out to drink with the colleague and after a year of being friends we ended up making it official

Even more in love now after 4+ years then i was at the start. Have never even thought about wanting to cheat or see other women

i would prob lower your standards tbh. Find a f*** buddy(s) first and once you find the right one you'll know

Thank you brother wish you the best

Nothing worse than forcing yourself to find love. People waste too much time trying to find their "perfect women" and they end up missing out on so many opportunities

Just take it slow and go on some dates, but be up front with the chicks and let them know what you are looking for in a relationship. You always wanna be with someone who wants the same exact thing you want out of a relationship

got out a long term relationship (on/off 4-5yrs). It took probably 8-9mo till I was good. 6mo into a new relationship with somebody else and couldn't be happier. there's better days ahead of you OP.

Thank you man it’s only been three months, I hope to have a happy update another 6 months down the line

Dead age s***location

It’ll come around OP (as long as you ain’t an a****** or sum) if you genuine it’ll come but for sure possible to just end up hurt

@bruntz thoughts???

be a good person and keep chugging things fall in to place

1. Heal, seek therapy on dealing with emotions and not bottling them up. Set a healthy emotional foundation for the next girl that comes around.

2. Work on yourself. Gym, hobbies, find a job, go to school. Whatever its gonna take to help you find purpose.

3. Seek out healthy activities that you would enjoy doing that have the opportunity to socialize. Be open to people in general and be happy to be there. Most likely a girl who you connect with will come around and you will be in a good enough state and have an open energy that will allow it to happen for you.

Good luck bro, I believe in you.

Also people saying "dont go looking" is a half truth. Definitely shouldn't force it, but you also wanna put yourself in the right situations to succeed.

-one last thing: meditation/visualization is a really great tool as well. Feed your mind healthy thoughts

im assuming you're trolling. Tinder is not good for that lol

bet you that poster is single and miserable

You’re not wrong

Don’t look for it

I feel this smh

“Dont look for it” “it’ll come when it comes” “just work on yourself”

Nigga im turning 24 been single my whole life never where the f*** this s*** at