please don't do this lol esp NOT an edible arrangement

how many times have you reached out to her already? didn't she not respond to majority of your messages/calls? just leave her be, if it's meant to work out in the end, it will.

give it time, you will heal

You don’t like edible arrangements?

Idk I’m just telling op what worked for me, might work for him too especially if there are still feelings involved from her side. I’ve done it 3 times and all three times they’ve contacted me.

The constant reaching out isn’t ideal though, but if he wants her back why not try that?

In the past week we hung out a bit and I just tried to show her I still know how to have a good time. I’ve been wanting to reach out more and see her more often but I know it’s too soon. I just want things to go back to how they used to be. I want her affection it’s like she’s holding it back from me.

Why is that though

Just never found anyone interesting enough?

Didn’t approach who you wanted?

Lemme know

I honestly think edible arrangements are cringe and they're not as nice or fresh as some boutique chocolate covered strawberries, but maybe i'm just particular lol

no offense to the woman you've reached out to again, but you seemingly cheated or did something wrong, sent an edible arrangement, they took you back, and then you did it again. kinda speaks to lack of self respect for people who like edible arrangements

if y'all hung out again, then that's a good sign tbh. knowing this, flowers might be the move

it's understandable that she has a wall up and you're going to have to put in A LOT of work to get her to trust you again. imagine if she did the same to you, you'd be wary too

How do you think I can get her to put the wall down? It seems like a dumb question but I feel like I’ve tried everything

women are like cats. if you try to make them love you, they will resist.

All you can do is be your best self, show her you still care without forcing it on her, and allow her to want to come to you.

if you love something, let it go etc etc cliche statement

just keep doing what you're doing. the only thing you can do is give it time and show her you're sincere about loving her

Thank you for your advice. I hope you’re doing well too friend

Appreciate it man

I am, thanks!! You too ❤️

I was a shy and insecure kid so didn’t have any experience with girls until I was 17-18.

Since then I guess it’s been a mix of not approaching who I want, and of the ones I do, poor relationship compatibility.

It boggles my mind seeing some people effortlessly go from long term relationship to long term relationship. It makes me feel like there’s something wrong with me and is very very bad for my mental health.

When you stop looking for it

in a hopeless place

I see

I think for you, just work on making sure your confidence is unbreakable

You need to learn to be fine with rejection

With everything, takes some L’s to get a W

Instead of looking at long term relationships like a prize understand that relationships are work. They can be very hard. It’s like a second job. Enjoy the freedom of being single for now. Hit up the dating apps. Go on dates. Have fun. Everything is just how you perceive it

Find it in yourself 1st. Build your own world filled with love and faith in yourself and then , invite someone that can add to it