Cow

5y

I am from the UK so only know UK charities.

Is there a reason why she would do it to you only? Anything that was unique about you? Different race to everyone else?

I suspect she continued on doing it long after you were gone to other children.

Ari

5y

i dont feel comfortable telling them this and and even if the were supportive about it i doubt the remember her name. i do still know the name of the school tho

mishka

5y

interesting but is that really the reason you're fucked up today? I know we often look for reasons as to why we are the person we are today and sometimes in that quest we can make ourselves believe certain things. Kind of like a confirmation bias of some sort

Dirty

5y

Like if you’re just thinking of this now and never really paid it any mind and it never bothered you before, it obviously didn’t effect who you are.

Ya know what I mean?

JAKEMCCNASTY

5y

You can ktt da school info and we could do our investigative work to make sure she’s not a teacher anymore if you comfortable with that, bc that s***s weird and very wrong for her to do especially to a 6yr old.

ASAKI

5y

op, have you thought of maybe talking to a therapist? having a confidant you can talk to about this irl can really help you.

Ari

5y

i dont want ant sort of like confrontation like getting police involved because this whole situation scares me but i would at least like to know if she still works there

JAKEMCCNASTY

5y

Do you remember her name?

Ari

5y

i've been to a therapist once and she made me cry i dont feel comfortable in those situations

okaa

5y

thats crazy op lots of weird things happen everyday just try to keep moving no one knows this happened to you so people will never look at you differently teachers is def a creep though

Ari

5y

with all the sexual assault accusations going around i have a question regarding myself. when i was in kindergarten i the teacher (a middle aged white woman) would always kiss me on the lips. eventually one of the counselors found out and told her to cut it out. after this she told me from that point on she told me we had to give each other Eskimo kisses.
after kindergarten i moved to a different city. for the longest i thought nothing was wrong with what happened to me until maybe a year ago. i feel like what she did yo me is a large part of why im so f***ed up in the head now. i know that what she did to me was wrong but would it count as sexual assault or something along those lines ?
(also i dont feel comfortable putting this on normal social media so plz keep this among our selves)

Ari

5y

i've been to a therapist once and she made me cry i dont feel comfortable in those situations

KOLLAPS

5y

have you ever brought this up to a friend?

KOLLAPS

5y

fam you were in kindergarten I dont mean to sound insensitive but that was definitely sexual assault. Im very sorry youre dealing with this but we're here for you fam <3

it's different if it's your parent's family friend cuz in America a lot of people kiss their kids on the mouth and it's normal but an authoritative figure of any kind is NOT supposed to be in contact with children, much less elementary schoolers in such a manor or in general.

Ari

5y

i just told my girlfriend and a older friend of mine who has also had something like this (worse tho) happen to them

Ari

5y

even my parents/family members wouldn't kiss me on the lips when i was little she prolly saw me as weak/stupid and did that to me

KOLLAPS

5y

ok good it's good to have people in your corner to confide in with these type of things

one of my closest homies shared a similar experience with me regarding a family member and he shared a similar experience where he suppressed it for years and one day it just came back to his memory. I dont know if that's exactly what happened to you.

regardless my brother, you are still a human being like the rest of us and this moment in time does not define who you are. you're absolutely brave in even acknowledging this on a public forum. I can't say I share your pain from an experience like this, and I honestly do not know what the solution is but I think acknowledging it and understanding that you're so much more than that moment is a good first step.

What about therapy/therapeutic scenarios do you think makes you uncomfortable?

Ari

5y

its ok your question is genuine
its not like she happened to give every kid a kiss on the lips and it was just a mistake. i was the only one she did this to. and even after she was caught she was sneaky and told me in private that she couldn't kiss me in front of the kids anymore and had to give each other eskimo kisses when we were in front of other students

MM6 Moka

5y

Idk know what that would be counted as but that sounds pretty sus especially because she hid it

_Boomin_

5y

My 3rd grade teacher used to give me them tit hugs my face straight in her t*** I loved that s*** cmooon now.