Girls don’t even text their friends within the hour
Bro wants girlfriend treatment from the jump
ya she's probably purposefully taunting u
Women are inherently evil
You're doing the right thing @Middle_Keys
just a real example from my perspective. lost some people very close to me this year unexpectedly. stopped using social media and messaging almost anybody back except very close friends for a couple weeks. it was ok that i did that. some people were still around when i was ready to come back, some not. my boundaries are completely valid. other people's are too if they decide it's too much. it's just how relationships work. all this applies especially to anyone i was in the talking stage with.
Sorry for your loss gang
just a real example from my perspective. lost some people very close to me this year unexpectedly. stopped using social media and messaging almost anybody back except very close friends for a couple weeks. it was ok that i did that. some people were still around when i was ready to come back, some not. my boundaries are completely valid. other people's are too if they decide it's too much. it's just how relationships work. all this applies especially to anyone i was in the talking stage with.
Condolences for what you went through but having a traumatic event happen to you is a generally an exception to this conversation. Even then, what you’re communicating by not responding for weeks is that you’re not in the right headspace for a new relationship. Which was probably true and is totally reasonable and fine.
All I’m saying is if somebody constantly doesn’t respond for long periods of time, then they’re most likely not interested in a relationship, whatever the reason might be
F*** options man. That’s for people looking for casual s***or empty dates. If you want a serious relationship, avoid those kind of people. There are women out there who genuinely believe in carefully choosing one or two guys to seriously date and evaluate a relationship with and those are the ones you go for when dating for something serious.
Don’t ever give into demand or supply in life. If there was only one choice given to me and I felt it wasn’t matching to my worth, I’m not taking it. Yes, women will naturally have more options. But as a man, there isn’t anything more empowering than knowing your worth. I’ve rejected women when I’ve had 10 others texting me and I’ve rejected women when I’ve had no options and gone on a drought for 6 months after. Inner strength is the greatest asset of all
I imagine it would take a few months and a lot of link-ups to decide if you want to seriously cut everyone to solo in on one person right?
I mean everyone is different but I think you can be looking for more than something casual and still move like that
I don't even respond to my best friends within an hour sometimes. I might be busy or I just don't have anything to say at the moment. That's just normal s***.
First page is so cringe man
Bunch of f***ing losers who put p**** on a pedestal on the regular
Good for you OP. You made your intentions clear and when hers didn’t match yours, you didn’t stick around like some sorry ass loser and ditched her
bro, these cases are never black and white bro. There's obviously a spectrum to this, when to be serious and when to ask important questions like what OP did. He did it too soon. Texting is like f***in around man, getting the feeling of things, nothing too serious. Dont get too attached, I was, work on yourself brobro
but whatv
Condolences for what you went through but having a traumatic event happen to you is a generally an exception to this conversation. Even then, what you’re communicating by not responding for weeks is that you’re not in the right headspace for a new relationship. Which was probably true and is totally reasonable and fine.
All I’m saying is if somebody constantly doesn’t respond for long periods of time, then they’re most likely not interested in a relationship, whatever the reason might be
you're right and thank you
Only weird thing you did was unsend your messages, that seems a bit too much work when you could've just blocked. But if you're not talking to this girl again, it doesn't matter anyways. A lot of people take rejection worse, so this was a pretty tame way to disengage.
couldve just seen how she would've reacted if you stopped being the one initiating conversation
couldve just seen how she would've reacted if you stopped being the one initiating conversation
Having to play games to establish a relationship is a red flag off rip. I get it if you just tryna hit it and quit it but otherwise its not going to end well
this nigga op caught feelings for a hoe with a sugar daddy.
Nah I didn't this why I asked her in the 1st few days
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Yeah this the OP. I sign out and forgot my password.