Crazy that people itt are playing dumb acting like they don't know what op is talking about

she might think its rude but from a male perspective its very normal

men are typically territorial over their girlfriends, so if you're a guy I respect and am friends with, I'm not gonna be chatting your gf up other than hi and bye honestly.

dawg you and your friends are straight up weird to the maximum for this ong

respectability politics

Obviously women are people. What I’m saying applies regardless of gender. You don’t think it’s strange to talk to your friends partner at length or say more than they’re talking to them? I think that’s weird.

got no f***in clue, no idea, zero

u at a get together and you just borderline ignore every mans girl? so f***ed

i try not to go beyond just casual small talk. if were talking at length, both of them are involved. I never wanna appear like the guy that acts overfriendly around my friends partner - some ppl get a rise outta that

THIS IS EXACTLY WTF IM TALKING BOUT LOL. WHY MFS ACTING LIKE THEY DK WHAT IM TALKING BOUT 😭

Didn't you know every conversation between a man and woman is an attempt to f*** them

news to me!!

Big red flag. I'll say wassup and bye to my boys girl but wtf i look like trying to get to actually know her beyond a surface level.

I'm not tryna throw any accusations out but kind of sounds like she wants attention. Respect to your boys too because they know the game. She really tryna "get close" with your boys if you know what i mean

OH you’re the OP okay i get it

Bro I’ve been trying to explain this perspective to her and she just does not get it lmfao 😭😭 like I try to break it down and everything

r u white

This is like 17yr old s*** tbh

You a grown adult acting like this, you need a reality check

Chill on my mans plants 🙅🏽‍♂️😂

see this is completely backwards to me

if you're a man i respect imma take even more interest in your partner because you mean so much to me i wanna know more about this person you chose to be together with.

but like LD said i guess this like a race thing?

I mean tbh it usually with certain exceptions, obviously when the age gap is big, or within a proffesional environment amongst other exceptions too.

But typically in a normal setting, two heterosexual opposite gendered people engaging in conversation especially for more than a couple minutes is typically an attraction which often times can lead to more even if unintentional. Not all, but alot of peoples cheating starts out as unintentional, so not putting yourself in the position for it to happen is the best solution. I.e not engaging with opposite gender especially if they are heterosexual while you’re in a committed relationship.

At the end of the day, just cause we are intelligent doesn’t make us not animals with basic instincts.

For heterosexuals, that basic instinct is to court and mate the opposite gender, that is a scientific fact. Knowing that, you shouldn’t put yourself in the position to mess things up cause anything that can go wrong will go wrong.

Women who are not satisfied with female friends seek out the harem experience and it's very sad. You see this most prominent with the "gay best friend". Very popular amongst greedy insatiable women.

g what?

Ima be honest, I did not read OP

LMAO this is mental illness

It takes no effort to put your d*** away

You sound hella insecure

So it's a boundary thing with your friends and your girl thinks that's strange?

This is Mike Pence not allowed in a room with another woman type s*** lol