Bro you always in some relationship type thread acting like you got your s*** together and others don't.
You're an ugly naked mole rat with glasses who got married young and whose wife settled and is currently getting piped down by baguettes in paris. You for sure are not the leading voice in relationship advice.
Always tryna seem high and mighty because you convinced some hippie to take half your wealth or in your case your bong collection and run the jewels vinyls
Nigga cooked him
hey!
i aint got glasses so he's wrong about that
By the way, @op and his friends aren’t in the wrong. My GF and her friend are like that too. Anything outside of a “hey, how are you doing?” Is considered weird because it’s suspicious that you’re tryna get to know them like that
That’s why when I see her friend we just briefly say hey but nothing much outside of that.
op knows its all love bro im always in his threads. but fair, fair, i'll tone it down, i admit i came off a lil strong in those first pages
its just this whole concept screams antiquated behavior to me. like some s*** my parents would do yk
This comes from a really insulated place because there are a lot of norms that just don't apply to white/hyperprogressive people but are a very real concept to everyone else
Stuff like this is definitely changing especially with the younger generation where everything is free game and everyone mingles on the same level
But for others, these unspoken rules are just normal and come without thinking
It's based in a mixture of respect and courtesy
Lol trying to get some opinion. I feel like me personally I may engage my friends gf in convo just to be polite and I would include him( the friend) in it as well really more like talking to them both. I probably wouldn’t have convos with them at length regardless of whether or not they’re a cool person just out of respect for my friend and their relationship, I feel that that is strange. Like that’s an unsaid boundary you kind of anticipate and avoid out of respect.
My buddies tend to not be too talkative to my girl if they see her besides saying hi or having small exchanges here and there. My friends have had convos at length with my girl in the past but tend to avoid it. I feel like it’s a communication difference like when my male friends interact with me or each other there is like no pressure or obligation to talk if you don’t want to, we’re usually smoking. Sometimes mf don’t even acknowledge each other and everybody just doing their own thing.
My girl thinks it’s weird because she says up north (I’m from the south), mixed gender groups like mingle and have convos even if its their friends girl? That just sounds strange asf to me. Like obviously everybody can chill in a group and do something but why would someone talk to their friends partner at length?
Why is she itching to have a conversation with them anyways
You're lowkey an emotionally immature f***face too man. Don't think we've forgotten all those hooker and ass eating threads. Between you and Malafe you make it easier on the rest of us to get p**** because all we gotta do is not be yall weird asses
I’ll say I definitely did used to f*** hookers. No shame here. As far as eating ass I don’t remember making threads about that.
I’ve been in a relationship for almost the last two years and also nearly doubled my income in the last two years. Built up my emotional maturity dealing with clients and growing in a relationship. Im for sure more handsome and successful with business and women than the majority of people on here so don’t sit on your high horse too much g cause u talking crazy 😂 i ain’t even come for u like that
Malafe def be tripping tho
Bro you always in some relationship type thread acting like you got your s*** together and others don't.
You're an ugly naked mole rat with glasses who got married young and whose wife settled and is currently getting piped down by baguettes in paris. You for sure are not the leading voice in relationship advice.
Always tryna seem high and mighty because you convinced some hippie to take half your wealth or in your case your bong collection and run the jewels vinyls
It's like if ur at work and ur talking to a colluiege who's married ur not thinking about f***ing her ur just being friends is it rly that hard to imagine
Why is she itching to have a conversation with them anyways
She’s not she just thinks it’s some sexist s*** I guess that they don’t want to engage her like but its like I’m not going to force them to engage her beyond a hi or head nod. Sometimes mfs don’t have s*** to talk about
This comes from a really insulated place because there are a lot of norms that just don't apply to white/hyperprogressive people but are a very real concept to everyone else
Stuff like this is definitely changing especially with the younger generation where everything is free game and everyone mingles on the same level
But for others, these unspoken rules are just normal and come without thinking
It's based in a mixture of respect and courtesy
yeah its making sense atp
but it's also something that if I were in ops position I would be purposely trying to not do anymore. as long as my homies knew I was not tryna make any moves and vice versa yk? some patterns of behavior just ain't worth maintaining and this is one of them imo
but its also not that easy to just put the kibosh on s*** like this I understand. its the way him and his friends been maneuvering their whole life, s*** like that doesnt just vanish
n if his friends just tired and not wanna chat a lot, thats nbd
Bro you always in some relationship type thread acting like you got your s*** together and others don't.
You're an ugly naked mole rat with glasses who got married young and whose wife settled and is currently getting piped down by baguettes in paris. You for sure are not the leading voice in relationship advice.
Always tryna seem high and mighty because you convinced some hippie to take half your wealth or in your case your bong collection and run the jewels vinyls
Got into a convo w an acquaintance's gf a couple days ago and he quickly came over and split us up
Personally not something I would do but it's a thing fs
By the way, @op and his friends aren’t in the wrong. My GF and her friend are like that too. Anything outside of a “hey, how are you doing?” Is considered weird because it’s suspicious that you’re tryna get to know them like that
Man why all y’all so scary. Why can’t we all just be homies sounds like lack of self control and trust issues
I think it’s fine to talk to your friends girl in a group setting as long as you not crossing any boundaries, use common sense
Of course they’re people, but is that not strange to talk to your friends partner for longer then a few minutes? I feel like theres a respect factor there.
No, my friends are friends with my wife
And my ex's were friends with my friends too
If I’m ever talking to your girl for more than 30 seconds just know I’m trying to hit 🙏🙏
Man why all y’all so scary. Why can’t we all just be homies sounds like lack of self control and trust issues
Just shows a lack of trust in not only their girl but also their friends
It depends on how occasional you all link up. If its on some every day s*** and they dont really include her in convo that is rude. Or maybe they think she’s a b**** and dont have the heart to tell you
I mean tbh it usually with certain exceptions, obviously when the age gap is big, or within a proffesional environment amongst other exceptions too.
But typically in a normal setting, two heterosexual opposite gendered people engaging in conversation especially for more than a couple minutes is typically an attraction which often times can lead to more even if unintentional. Not all, but alot of peoples cheating starts out as unintentional, so not putting yourself in the position for it to happen is the best solution. I.e not engaging with opposite gender especially if they are heterosexual while you’re in a committed relationship.
At the end of the day, just cause we are intelligent doesn’t make us not animals with basic instincts.
For heterosexuals, that basic instinct is to court and mate the opposite gender, that is a scientific fact. Knowing that, you shouldn’t put yourself in the position to mess things up cause anything that can go wrong will go wrong.
God yall brains are f***ing warped