Bro you always in some relationship type thread acting like you got your s*** together and others don't.
You're an ugly naked mole rat with glasses who got married young and whose wife settled and is currently getting piped down by baguettes in paris. You for sure are not the leading voice in relationship advice.
Always tryna seem high and mighty because you convinced some hippie to take half your wealth or in your case your bong collection and run the jewels vinyls
well damn
I’ve tried that before but everyone has their own lives and she isn’t around when they’re around enough to get that exposure usually. Plus whenever she comes thru it’s usually late night and everyone’s tired or high or both.
We’ve been together like 1.7 years. I’ll try to talk to my friends and have them talk to her more but its not like they don’t ever acknowledge her, we just tend to have no pressure conversations when everybody is tired from working all day and just vibing, smoking and they may not want to talk or engage as much as she would like
But there’s time where me and my boys might just be high for 20-30 minutes on our phones scrolling not saying much if there’s a lull in the convo. I try to make it extra causal and chill since we’re all working all day and just want to relax
I didn’t read through thread so idk what specific conversations she’s looking for. If she’s expecting them to ask about her day and s*** when she happens to come home and they’re there that might be asking too much lol
Bro you always in some relationship type thread acting like you got your s*** together and others don't.
You're an ugly naked mole rat with glasses who got married young and whose wife settled and is currently getting piped down by baguettes in paris. You for sure are not the leading voice in relationship advice.
Always tryna seem high and mighty because you convinced some hippie to take half your wealth or in your case your bong collection and run the jewels vinyls
Damn
I didn’t read through thread so idk what specific conversations she’s looking for. If she’s expecting them to ask about her day and s*** when she happens to come home and they’re there that might be asking too much lol
I think she wants them to do that basically if they do that with me, which they kind of don’t do every time. It’s like she wants them to say “how’ve you been, what’s going on with you” …but what if that’s not how they communicate? What if they don’t want to get into that and get into a conversation they may not have the energy for? I feel like her expectations are slightly strange but she says that’s normal and they’re the strange ones. I also try to create an atmosphere where nobody has to say anything other than exactly what they want to say that way nothing feels forced
Like my guy friends aren’t all talking to each other if everybody’s not close on an individual basis. I done had times where I had diff homeboys over and everybody wasn’t super close together because people are friends or know each other to varying degrees
this might be a southern thing cuz I fully understand op and know a lot of dudes who move the same way. there's a way to do it and not be rude though
you can't control your friends and make them be friends with her but having a regular convo and not being stand offish should be the norm
“they’re too tired to talk to anyone” but yall talk to each other?
I don’t know if yall live together but if i walk into MY house and nobody speaks to me, everyone going home.
“they’re too tired to talk to anyone” but yall talk to each other?
I don’t know if yall live together but if i walk into MY house and nobody speaks to me, everyone going home.
We talk to each other but like there’s no guiding basis everyone just talks randomly. Sometimes we don’t even talk we’re just on our phones quiet and high. And not everybody even talks to each other. Some of my friends barely make conversation with my other friends if they don’t talk to them first. Just how some people’s personalities are idk.
We don’t live together I have my place she has hers. And I have one friend who may not say hi at times just a waive or something but most of my friends at least say hi but leave it at that unless she sparks a conversation with them. They don’t spark the convos they just respond if she sparks up a convo.
I have like 4-5 friends I chill with on a regular and I don’t usually chill with all of them at once it’s usually just me and 1 or 2 of them at a time. Every once in a while she’ll come by while they’re still there or getting ready to leave after a bit and she basically feels some type of way that they don’t try to engage her or say hey how u doing during these interactions even though we’ve all chilled in a Group setting before and they know her and she knows who they are
She gotta chill, it's not like they are actively hating on her, just make her understand how some niggas be, it's not sexist or some ahit like that. I understand her side too though and I hope you do too
Bro you always in some relationship type thread acting like you got your s*** together and others don't.
You're an ugly naked mole rat with glasses who got married young and whose wife settled and is currently getting piped down by baguettes in paris. You for sure are not the leading voice in relationship advice.
Always tryna seem high and mighty because you convinced some hippie to take half your wealth or in your case your bong collection and run the jewels vinyls
Gahdamn
She gotta chill, it's not like they are actively hating on her, just make her understand how some niggas be, it's not sexist or some ahit like that. I understand her side too though and I hope you do too
Dawg that’s what I been trying to do and she just not getting it lol. I do understand her perspective but she doesn’t agree with the explanation I’m trying to explain to her. She says she gets it but thinks it’s weird or sexist.
plants always getting unnecessary smoke. Someone called him the Chance of this site because he keeps posting about his wife
Dawg that’s what I been trying to do and she just not getting it lol. I do understand her perspective but she doesn’t agree with the explanation I’m trying to explain to her. She says she gets it but thinks it’s weird or sexist.
At the end of the day, she's there for you and not them, ain't nothing you can do about your friends cause it'll be awkward trying force convos, if she don't get it, she don't get it
At the end of the day, she's there for you and not them, ain't nothing you can do about your friends cause it'll be awkward trying force convos, if she don't get it, she don't get it
All facts. I ain’t trying to have any forced awkward convos. Crazy how a random stranger on the internet can get it easier than my gf who I love and have a life with can get it
Is communication between men and women that different oh my god
I didn't read everything so this might've been answered but how often is your girl the only girl around when you're with your friends and why does this happen so often (if it does)
I didn't read everything so this might've been answered but how often is your girl the only girl around when you're with your friends and why does this happen so often (if it does)
She’s always the only girl around because none of them have gfs currently and I don’t really have any girl friends any more since being with my gf. She’s not around when my friends are over that often though.
All facts. I ain’t trying to have any forced awkward convos. Crazy how a random stranger on the internet can get it easier than my gf who I love and have a life with can get it
Is communication between men and women that different oh my god
You lucky still, she's just nagging, my gf didn't like none of my niggas, she was just territorial af, had to tell her I'm not just hers, we gotta have lives outside of everything else, she never seemed to get it and I didn't try to care, one day she seemed to get it and would ask or engage in convos about them or with them
Them females hardwired a certain way sometimes, you'll be good tho
Bro you always in some relationship type thread acting like you got your s*** together and others don't.
You're an ugly naked mole rat with glasses who got married young and whose wife settled and is currently getting piped down by baguettes in paris. You for sure are not the leading voice in relationship advice.
Always tryna seem high and mighty because you convinced some hippie to take half your wealth or in your case your bong collection and run the jewels vinyls
Bro this is pathetic niggas is just chatting an u go full blown BPD for no reason
Bro you always in some relationship type thread acting like you got your s*** together and others don't.
You're an ugly naked mole rat with glasses who got married young and whose wife settled and is currently getting piped down by baguettes in paris. You for sure are not the leading voice in relationship advice.
Always tryna seem high and mighty because you convinced some hippie to take half your wealth or in your case your bong collection and run the jewels vinyls
Jesus