I met this trans lady recently who's 30 something and she's basically everything I want to be. A published author, a musician, she loves video games and internet culture, she has an active s***life, and she cooks her own meals.

Everything about her is perfect. She's like me without the trauma and BPD. She's also exactly 10 years older than me.

I've found myself copying a lot from her lately. The gender ambiguous way she dresses, the dry sense of humor I already had x 100, the they/them pronouns. All of that.

I don't mean to rip from her so much but I can't help because she's EVERYTHING I want to be in 10 years. Is that weird?

Yeah

It’s much better and fulfilling living your own life and loving yourself

There’s nothing wrong with admiring someone or even aspiring to reach their level of success but trying to “be” them may do more harm than good & you may end up losing yourself in the process

Love who you are

weird thread ngl

Well you gon clap them cheeks or what pleghboi

Do it, you found something you like, cooy snd eventually your own unique little thing will evolve out of that.

Find yourself dawg

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Whatever helps in doin so 💯

be yourself and know that that’s good enough

construct your personality based off the image your have for yourself, not a copied version of someone else. If this person is who you want to be, use it as a form of motivation to get to a similar point.

If you got a crush on em just tell em

you think she was that perfect 10 years ago

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What kinda psycho s*** is this

She's achieved everything I want to I can't help but emulate her while still being myself.

No matter how hard you try you can't construct a personality, our senses of self are formed by our own unique experiences. You cant be anyone else and no one can be you. Same goes with trying to get a specific skillset or career. Of course you can go in that direction but it never goes 100% how you want it to go.

That's the thing. She probably wasn't. She's the peak of everything I hope to achieve.

You'll be better off working on who your are rather than emulating whom you perceive as perfect.

Emulating someone's personality won't bring you their success, achievement and even overall appeal.

You're most likely just obsessively inspired.

Use that person as a reminder that it's okay to be yourself and accomplish anything you want without being someone you aren't.

It'll be good in the longrun.

Do you mean just admire her? I’ve got a lot of people I look up to and are similar to as well, there’s nothing wrong with that. But you shouldn’t try to be exactly like them no cause that’s not genuine. But it’s perfectly fine to be similar to those you look up to if they do things you enjoy

I love myself. I just see everything I am trying to be in her and I can't help but follow her lead while I still have mt own interests.

For example I'm a rapper and she does rock music. She has 100k followers on Spotify. Different styles but she's still so cool.

Op is Shang tsung

That's what I was trying to say. I wouldn't want to be exactly like her but she's a close approximate of who I want future me to be.

LMAO this dude again man your threads are something else OP

OP down bad posting on Life sxn

You worried about the wrong Life