What’s stopping you?

I feel like changing your lifestyle and changing your personality are two completely separate things

Like having an active s***life like her and cooking all of your own meals just like how she does is cool but changing your sense of humor is really weird tbh

Trauma. But I'm working through it and meeting her was a big help.

There’s no real personality, you are who you aspire to be not who you are currently. Why? Because the way you are now is most likely not something you chose to be, it was forced upon you by your circumstances and environment. You should always be changing and aiming to become the person you’ve always wanted to be!

No I have the same sense of humor and I have very active s***life already. I just met someone who does these things and doesn't get picked on for acting the way she does.

She helped me realize there was nothing wrong with me.

Look at it like this. You’ve seen someone similar to you doing everything that you’re also interested in. You’ve got someone to confine to at least a little bit. Someone who understands what you’re going through. Talk to them they will help you more than we can. That person can help you get over (not get over but “change” I guess) your mindset. The trauma may never go away but it can be lessened with time. But if you keep thinking about it it will never go away. If you keep blaming it it will only get worse and stop you from doing things that you can do. Have a nice long talk with her

I don't think I want to even if I probably could

good post and that's kinda what i meant. i don't want to be like patrick on that one spongebob episode.

i want to be myself while also being more like her. the positive traits.

i have the same fade as drake facial hair lined up like drake i strated lifting weights when i seen the drizzler start hitting the gym whatever namebrand drake namedrops i cop , e x p e d i t i o u s l y. i even wear my ovo socks when im f***ing my b****

wtf are we talking about again?

i even want my music career to blow up loke drake whatever vsts 40 namedrops i use in my own f***ing music

the only difference is that im a f***ing loser c***soaked basement dweller while drake is the f***ing MAN I LOVE YOU DEAAAAKE

i even got clb in my name i hope drake sees this and knows how much i listen to his musix how much he savered my life

beautiful

If the person is everything you want in a S / O, then go for it bro

Like bro don’t miss out on someone that could end up being your soulmate

You’ll regret it if you don’t act

I don't think I want to date her. She's too old. But she's perfect.

thank you

She's too old but she's perfect?

she's who i want to be like when i'm 30 something but also she has a d*** so there's that too

How do you know she has an active secs life..

she tells me about it

sounds like a real winner

I never thought I'd meet someone who would make me want to be so much better than I am.

Sounds like she winning at life

As you're someone whos coming out of being diagnosed w a disorder and working against it I don't think working towards the goals you see her accomplishing is a bad thing at all, but going as far as completely modeling your identity on her may be too much