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  • Updated Dec 31, 2023

    Edit: adding in context since my brother @OS9 suggested

    No one's really at fault, it was just the straw that broke the camels back. I'm a dumb mf who tends to bury emotions and move on and in this moment emotions won. I got angry at my older brother who constantly disrespects my dad (he's a single dad since my mom died when I was around 5).

    My dad sacrificed a lot both personally and financially to make sure that his son got everything he needed, got to go to university. He worked multiple jobs and his ass off. Never got any free time, anything he had he'd give to us. He'd genuinely move mountains for us. Turned the racist stereotype of black fathers on its head and had to face that prejudice day in, day out. Took my older brother to sports practice miles and miles away every week, bought him equipment for whatever weird hobbies he wanted to get into and then would drop 2 months later, even though we were not in the financial position to do that s***.

    He's an absolutely beautiful man. He still forgives my brother even though he abuses my dad's genorsity and trust. But my brother blames him for not being able to have a mom for some reason and will probably never forgive him. He feels he missed out on that experience and it's affected him negatively. So in that moment the disrespect was too much to take and I had my first outburst of anger directed towards him.

    I love my older brother still and always will, but he made no effort to keep in contact with us once he went to university and we've been icy with him since when he was 18, apart from whenever he wants to visit with his white girlfriend so that he can impress her by pretending to be a family man and so that we can validate and approve of his life choices and then go back.

    In my opinion he abuses our unconditional support by taking it but treating us badly. I get he owes us nothing, but stop sending mixed messages and keeping him hanging on. He knows we'll always support him so he either consciously or unconsciously gets away with bad behavior. The other point I mentioned is how unacceptable it is that he treats my dad like he is uneducated and dumb just because he didn't have a chance to go to university. It's just so naive and privileged of a view. He did not go this far, sacrifice this much (basically his whole life, he could've ran away or given us away) just to be treated like a nobody, while this random boring ass white girl he met 3 years ago is the only subject of attention in his life.

    Anyone have any tunes for this feel?

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    What a girl

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    breh think he the bear

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    spill

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    like this?

  • Dec 30, 2023

    lame as hell

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    don’t have any tunes but i hope ur okay

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    Cant give music without more details unfortunately

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    Did you slap up your pops and tell your mother the baked ziti was overcooked to assert dominance OP

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    Did you close the door behind you with ya hips

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    TraewayTrueToATL11

    Cant give music without more details unfortunately

    Ain't much, no one's really at fault, it was just the straw that broke the camels back. I'm a dumb mf who tends to bury emotions and move on and in this moment emotions won. I got angry at my older brother who constantly disrespects my dad (he's a single dad since my mom died when I was around 5).

    My dad sacrificed a lot both personally and financially to make sure that his son got everything he needed, got to go to university. He worked multiple jobs and his ass off. Never got any free time, anything he had he'd give to us. Turned the racist stereotype of black fathers on its head and had to face that prejudice day in, day out. Took my older brother to sports practice miles and miles away every week, bought him equipment for whatever weird hobbies he wanted to get into.

    Absolutely beautiful man. He still forgives my brother even though he abuses my dad's genorsity and trust. But my brother blames him for not being able to have a mom for some reason and will probably never forgive him. So in that moment the disrespect was too much to take and I had my first outburst of anger directed towards him.

    I love my older brother still, but he made no effort to keep in contact with us once he went to university and we've been icy with him since when he was 18, apart from whenever he wants to visit with his white girlfriend so that he can impress her by pretending to be a family man and so that we can validate and approve of his life choices and then go back.

    That's all really my brother

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    BVL

    like this?

    Exactly like that, literally movement for movement

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    Saturday
    !https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kuiwNb-Pxcc&pp=ygUUcGFyZW50cyBkZW56ZWwgY3Vycnk%3D

    Denzel is goated

  • Dec 30, 2023
    Bigtime

    What a girl

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    Theory Talk Trader

    breh think he the bear

    TF is the bear

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    TTU

    Did you close the door behind you with ya hips

    I do that regardless

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    etuev

    Ain't much, no one's really at fault, it was just the straw that broke the camels back. I'm a dumb mf who tends to bury emotions and move on and in this moment emotions won. I got angry at my older brother who constantly disrespects my dad (he's a single dad since my mom died when I was around 5).

    My dad sacrificed a lot both personally and financially to make sure that his son got everything he needed, got to go to university. He worked multiple jobs and his ass off. Never got any free time, anything he had he'd give to us. Turned the racist stereotype of black fathers on its head and had to face that prejudice day in, day out. Took my older brother to sports practice miles and miles away every week, bought him equipment for whatever weird hobbies he wanted to get into.

    Absolutely beautiful man. He still forgives my brother even though he abuses my dad's genorsity and trust. But my brother blames him for not being able to have a mom for some reason and will probably never forgive him. So in that moment the disrespect was too much to take and I had my first outburst of anger directed towards him.

    I love my older brother still, but he made no effort to keep in contact with us once he went to university and we've been icy with him since when he was 18, apart from whenever he wants to visit with his white girlfriend so that he can impress her by pretending to be a family man and so that we can validate and approve of his life choices and then go back.

    That's all really my brother

    Your brother wack as hell and ungrateful

    Keeping it a bean

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    etuev

    Ain't much, no one's really at fault, it was just the straw that broke the camels back. I'm a dumb mf who tends to bury emotions and move on and in this moment emotions won. I got angry at my older brother who constantly disrespects my dad (he's a single dad since my mom died when I was around 5).

    My dad sacrificed a lot both personally and financially to make sure that his son got everything he needed, got to go to university. He worked multiple jobs and his ass off. Never got any free time, anything he had he'd give to us. Turned the racist stereotype of black fathers on its head and had to face that prejudice day in, day out. Took my older brother to sports practice miles and miles away every week, bought him equipment for whatever weird hobbies he wanted to get into.

    Absolutely beautiful man. He still forgives my brother even though he abuses my dad's genorsity and trust. But my brother blames him for not being able to have a mom for some reason and will probably never forgive him. So in that moment the disrespect was too much to take and I had my first outburst of anger directed towards him.

    I love my older brother still, but he made no effort to keep in contact with us once he went to university and we've been icy with him since when he was 18, apart from whenever he wants to visit with his white girlfriend so that he can impress her by pretending to be a family man and so that we can validate and approve of his life choices and then go back.

    That's all really my brother

    Your brother is a piece of s*** sorry

    How dare he blames your father for a loss he’s personally lessened by and is totally out of his control. The same father who built him up in her absence

    Absolute loser

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    etuev

    TF is the bear

    This family is out of control

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    etuev

    TF is the bear

    Fr, f*** crodie talmbout

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    First of many?