Ain't much, no one's really at fault, it was just the straw that broke the camels back. I'm a dumb mf who tends to bury emotions and move on and in this moment emotions won. I got angry at my older brother who constantly disrespects my dad (he's a single dad since my mom died when I was around 5).
My dad sacrificed a lot both personally and financially to make sure that his son got everything he needed, got to go to university. He worked multiple jobs and his ass off. Never got any free time, anything he had he'd give to us. Turned the racist stereotype of black fathers on its head and had to face that prejudice day in, day out. Took my older brother to sports practice miles and miles away every week, bought him equipment for whatever weird hobbies he wanted to get into.
Absolutely beautiful man. He still forgives my brother even though he abuses my dad's genorsity and trust. But my brother blames him for not being able to have a mom for some reason and will probably never forgive him. So in that moment the disrespect was too much to take and I had my first outburst of anger directed towards him.
I love my older brother still, but he made no effort to keep in contact with us once he went to university and we've been icy with him since when he was 18, apart from whenever he wants to visit with his white girlfriend so that he can impress her by pretending to be a family man and so that we can validate and approve of his life choices and then go back.
That's all really my brother
Ur bro a b**** for that
Ain't much, no one's really at fault, it was just the straw that broke the camels back. I'm a dumb mf who tends to bury emotions and move on and in this moment emotions won. I got angry at my older brother who constantly disrespects my dad (he's a single dad since my mom died when I was around 5).
My dad sacrificed a lot both personally and financially to make sure that his son got everything he needed, got to go to university. He worked multiple jobs and his ass off. Never got any free time, anything he had he'd give to us. Turned the racist stereotype of black fathers on its head and had to face that prejudice day in, day out. Took my older brother to sports practice miles and miles away every week, bought him equipment for whatever weird hobbies he wanted to get into.
Absolutely beautiful man. He still forgives my brother even though he abuses my dad's genorsity and trust. But my brother blames him for not being able to have a mom for some reason and will probably never forgive him. So in that moment the disrespect was too much to take and I had my first outburst of anger directed towards him.
I love my older brother still, but he made no effort to keep in contact with us once he went to university and we've been icy with him since when he was 18, apart from whenever he wants to visit with his white girlfriend so that he can impress her by pretending to be a family man and so that we can validate and approve of his life choices and then go back.
That's all really my brother
Damn family issues are TOUGH i feel u. Got siblings who dont respect my parents and what they did for us, meanwhile i send my parents 3k every month each and my siblings just ask for it from them. One day it will click for ur bro and he will feel awful
Context?
Some thanksgiving fight that I think the public found out later on was staged
Ain't much, no one's really at fault, it was just the straw that broke the camels back. I'm a dumb mf who tends to bury emotions and move on and in this moment emotions won. I got angry at my older brother who constantly disrespects my dad (he's a single dad since my mom died when I was around 5).
My dad sacrificed a lot both personally and financially to make sure that his son got everything he needed, got to go to university. He worked multiple jobs and his ass off. Never got any free time, anything he had he'd give to us. Turned the racist stereotype of black fathers on its head and had to face that prejudice day in, day out. Took my older brother to sports practice miles and miles away every week, bought him equipment for whatever weird hobbies he wanted to get into.
Absolutely beautiful man. He still forgives my brother even though he abuses my dad's genorsity and trust. But my brother blames him for not being able to have a mom for some reason and will probably never forgive him. So in that moment the disrespect was too much to take and I had my first outburst of anger directed towards him.
I love my older brother still, but he made no effort to keep in contact with us once he went to university and we've been icy with him since when he was 18, apart from whenever he wants to visit with his white girlfriend so that he can impress her by pretending to be a family man and so that we can validate and approve of his life choices and then go back.
That's all really my brother
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Ain't much, no one's really at fault, it was just the straw that broke the camels back. I'm a dumb mf who tends to bury emotions and move on and in this moment emotions won. I got angry at my older brother who constantly disrespects my dad (he's a single dad since my mom died when I was around 5).
My dad sacrificed a lot both personally and financially to make sure that his son got everything he needed, got to go to university. He worked multiple jobs and his ass off. Never got any free time, anything he had he'd give to us. Turned the racist stereotype of black fathers on its head and had to face that prejudice day in, day out. Took my older brother to sports practice miles and miles away every week, bought him equipment for whatever weird hobbies he wanted to get into.
Absolutely beautiful man. He still forgives my brother even though he abuses my dad's genorsity and trust. But my brother blames him for not being able to have a mom for some reason and will probably never forgive him. So in that moment the disrespect was too much to take and I had my first outburst of anger directed towards him.
I love my older brother still, but he made no effort to keep in contact with us once he went to university and we've been icy with him since when he was 18, apart from whenever he wants to visit with his white girlfriend so that he can impress her by pretending to be a family man and so that we can validate and approve of his life choices and then go back.
That's all really my brother
I’d have to hear his side now
Your brother wack as hell and ungrateful
Keeping it a bean
It's the ungratefulness that is the core issue I have. At least give this man something or cut him off. Whatever, technically you owe him nothing. If that's the case then stop leaving dad hanging thinking some day his beloved first son will have a change of heart and not treat him like s***. It's heartbreaking. Not to mention the pain he must've went through when mom died. I'd never get over that s***
Your brother is a piece of s*** sorry
How dare he blames your father for a loss he’s personally lessened by and is totally out of his control. The same father who built him up in her absence
Absolute loser
I just don't get the logic behind how it's dad's fault and I said that. S*** happens that's out of control, so how the f*** is it dad's fault. That could send him over the edge if he wasn't such a real mf
Let's hear your brothers perspective before we start calling ppl names
Hes only on tiktok really. But he was around 11 when mom died so it was different for me than him (I was 5). My little sister was 3 so she barely even remembers.
But the gist of his argument is that dad failed to provide the experience that both a mother and father could, and as a result it's negatively affected his life. But I'd argue he's ungrateful and being a idealist. We're lucky we had such a good single parent, most people ain't even have 1 good parent out of their mother and father. We got one.
Would it be cool if I had both a mother and father? Obviously. But it's outta my control and I'm not going to blame the man who lost the love of his life.