After my brother put me on with a girl, long story short I am a boring dry lifeless person.

He told me how gray I was during cards against humanity, and the sad part is I tried as best as I could to be fun and engaging.

She lost interest in me because I am boring and dull, I tried loosening up, even when tipsy I'm still just a swaggless weirdo.

And when a look at myself on video all I see is awkward fool. I looked at photos with a previous girl and saw how dead I looked.

Done with dating, done with people I don't care about anything anymore. I thought depression was done for but it was just hiding around the corner..

You’re not boring bro cmon you’re the Renaissance man

Wow. Ok.

First of all how old are you?

Lets talk yo

Somebody one day will love everything you hate about yourself. It'll just happen. Until then keep being the best you!

This

It might never happen op and you gotta be ready for and okay with that tbh

Its actually a good thing you noticed that. I used to be the same way then I had the same realization. Best thing to do is just accept yourself for who you are and fix how you view yourself. You're not a boring, lifeless person, you're just a low intensity, relaxed individual. Its the low self-confidence that makes people see you in that negative light, or at least thats what it was with me.

Don't try to over-engage with people around you, it doesn't work and will just lead to internal frustration. Also, people have a sense of when a person is trying to "imitate" a personality or behavior that does not come natural and they don't like it, so that just makes it worse. You're an introvert and thats alright.

Confidence is the key. Learn to have confidence in yourself as an introvert, and speak up when spoken to or when you have something of importance to say.

there is nothing inherently bad about being shy or awkward. I am too and some girls find it cute or even charming if you're shy around them. Once you find somebody that likes you with time you will feel more comfortable around them and they will love how you'll open up and trust them more and more.

25, old

I see

thread makes your name ironic ctfu

Say something more than that. You "see", but does what I said make sense or no?

Op please get rid of the word "inadequate" from the title. That is not what you are

You can’t judge yourself because one b**** didn’t vibe with you. There’s hoes everywhere

i still love you op

and being interesting in rooted in having confidence in yourself, which is rooted in liking who you are. just take some time to reflect on the good qualities you have(everyone has them), and try to live where those qualities can be brought out

Youre just you bro

Who tf cares if youre 'boring' for some people
For others with the same interests as you u prob dope af

Seek people w the same interests

I see that it's okay to be introvertive and that going too far to "fit it" will give of a sense of trying to imitate a personality.

Real

I'm 23 but it happens with me too. I think it's still pretty common cause we are still in a rough age. I know that in our 30s is when it sorta starts to get better, however we know it doesn't need to be like that.

Op i feel the same way with myself but all we can do is work on it everyday and try not to beat urself up about it

Also I hate cards against humanity lmao

Im 27.(your young af bro)

You probably havent noticed it yet i guess but there's a thing in life called evolving, search for the next in your life and just do it, you want to try earrings, tattoo,long hair, or a hobby or sport, f***ing do it mate.

Its gonna sound weird or cringy but idgaf, i just recently (2 yrs) found out about this and the one who gave me this advice is someone who aint even with us anymore, he goes by xxxtentacion, not gonna lie his music put me in a weird place but through following him i found out allot about myself, the thing about him what sparked with me was his constant evolving and giving others while simultaneously embracing himself.

The message i got from him is to constantly evolve, dont fall in the trap of distractions, challenge yourself, challenge life, be the best you.