Ya parents brainwashed with the "discipline" your dumbass if you actually think this is true
Wishing you well my brother cause you need to heal
Yeah bro my mom brainwashed me by taking away my game console for a few days. You got it
F***ing idiot
Americana. Maybe read the thread before puffing your chest out and replying
Ain’t ever said that
Dude is arguing with himself lmao
These guys are all in their 20’s promising they’d consider beating their hypothetical child or else they’re p****
These guys are all in their 20’s promising they’d consider beating their hypothetical child or else they’re p****
Nobody ever said that
Nobody ever said that
Literally the first fives pages had a guy calling people pussies cuz they won’t hit their kids fam
Literally the first fives pages had a guy calling people pussies cuz they won’t hit their kids fam
Who?
Thought of a good hypothetical:
What would be your course of action if you caught your child playing with a gun?
You don’t know how they got it, yours is securely locked up because your a good parent.
What do you do?
Thought of a good hypothetical:
What would be your course of action if you caught your child playing with a gun?
You don’t know how they got it, yours is securely locked up because your a good parent.
What do you do?
Long talk w them tbh
Part of the reason people are against spanking and other forms of corporal punishment is because of how vehemently it warps perceptions and acceptance of punishment, especially when it is intergenerational.
You see it in here - people are literally saying that kids will not respond to any form of punishment that is not physical. People are acting like kids are not smart enough to understand words, actions, and consequences if they aren't reinforced with physical violence.
There is a plethora of scientific research that says that spanking is not an effective form of punishment, and is generally correlated with various negative outcomes developmentally and even into adulthood. It also forms a cognitive connection with the child - it teaches them that people in their life who love them will physically punish them, and that cognitive understanding acts in direct opposition to what a parent is supposed to be - an understanding and loving, but firm caregiver.
You are not a bad person if you think spanking your child is fine, especially if it was done to you. But please understand that part of your reasoning is most likely because of the cognitive warping and biases that occurred because it happened to you. Every professional organization decries this as does much of the world outside of the United States. Just think about it critically instead of thinking "I turned out fine"
Part of the reason people are against spanking and other forms of corporal punishment is because of how vehemently it warps perceptions and acceptance of punishment, especially when it is intergenerational.
You see it in here - people are literally saying that kids will not respond to any form of punishment that is not physical. People are acting like kids are not smart enough to understand words, actions, and consequences if they aren't reinforced with physical violence.
There is a plethora of scientific research that says that spanking is not an effective form of punishment, and is generally correlated with various negative outcomes developmentally and even into adulthood. It also forms a cognitive connection with the child - it teaches them that people in their life who love them will physically punish them, and that cognitive understanding acts in direct opposition to what a parent is supposed to be - an understanding and loving, but firm caregiver.
You are not a bad person if you think spanking your child is fine, especially if it was done to you. But please understand that part of your reasoning is most likely because of the cognitive warping and biases that occurred because it happened to you. Every professional organization decries this as does much of the world outside of the United States. Just think about it critically instead of thinking "I turned out fine"
Ok but we are also not beating our kids every time they do something dumb there’s levels to this
Thought of a good hypothetical:
What would be your course of action if you caught your child playing with a gun?
You don’t know how they got it, yours is securely locked up because your a good parent.
What do you do?
I’ll shoot them
They’ll get over it
Ok but we are also not beating our kids every time they do something dumb there’s levels to this
I stand by what I said regardless of what level of spanking or physical punishment you inflict
Sometimes whoopings are necessary, sometimes they aren't. I didn't get whooped after every little thing I did, but when I crossed that line, I got the belt. A mix of timeouts, talking things out, with a little bit of the belt is gold imo.
this was basically my upbringing & tbh whenever i got the belt i definitely see why it was called for since that wasn’t the go to method for discipline for my parents
Thought of a good hypothetical:
What would be your course of action if you caught your child playing with a gun?
You don’t know how they got it, yours is securely locked up because your a good parent.
What do you do?
You sit em down and talk to them. Ask em why they have it, what’s going on, are they in any danger, etc.
Yeah bro my mom brainwashed me by taking away my game console for a few days. You got it
F***ing idiot
It's okay, bud, let it all out
I'm here for you