Oj Or

5y

I hope one day you are pointed to the wealth of intelligent thoughtful sisters that’s reaching out to this young girl via social media and discussing her trauma in a public setting, The idea that only white ppl can discuss trauma is disgusting, but you only here for quotes and likes from other white people so f*** it

pneu

5y

I haven’t even seen the video, I’m just referring to parents disciplining their kids.

Plus when did I say only white people can discuss trauma

Oj Or

5y

what else is implied with “I only see whites complaining bout this”?

pneu

5y

Complaining about discipling their child through the method of beating. Why you acting dense?

Oj Or

5y

I just feel like now is not the time to turn thread into “no ur white, no UR white” s***show

it’s better convos to be had since yall all white anyway

Slingshot

5y

lol how things run in the household as a child directly guides how u see relationships as an adult. If you getting s*** taken out on you physically as a child for something that isn’t your fault, that will warp your mind. you forever have a skewed view on how the world works

she struggles with relationships today because her brain takes what she saw in her household as a child and tries to mold how her relationships should take place today to fit that image. that’s why childhood trauma is so damaging, it has long reach and affects u your whole life

and you don’t get to be the judge of whether or not someone was really affected by their adolescence, only they know that

pneu

5y

Well I don't know much about this situation but It looks like a parent putting her daughter in check. Will watch the video soon I guess.

Tvremote

5y

it would be, except the daughter said she beat her for not doing anything, which is obviously wrong. thats where her moral high ground left

Tvremote

5y

it would be, except the daughter said she beat her for not doing anything, which is obviously wrong. thats where her moral high ground left

Oj Or

5y

Oh you were there?

Lets us know what she did that got her beat please

You was the nanny?

Tvremote

5y

errr i think you should go read my posts ITT again, and see which side i aligned with
i literally just gone off what someone else ITT said

Oj Or

5y

I misread lol I’m sorry

it sounded like you said she was wrong in saying she got beat for no reason

nightstars

5y

Anyone ever notice how people who say “nothing wrong with a whooping” or “damn straight my mom whooped me and taught me respect” are usually the most underdeveloped juvenile people on the planet? Those are usually the people that are 40 and remind you of how kids are in high school as far as emotional maturity and s***

MyLeftBrain

5y

I disagree, you should never discipline your child by beating it

sigmund fraud

5y

My dad used to whup me and my bro's ass all the time when we were younger.

We feared him more than we loved him

So there's levels to disciplining your child.

HITSLIKEDIETCOKE

5y

Yeah in this case it's obviously wrong

But if you're applying harmless force to a child to discipline them I see nothing wrong