Aug 14, 2020Hope a lot of you itt don’t have kids holy s***
Aug 14, 2020
HITSLIKEDIETCOKEYeah in this case it's obviously wrong
But if you're applying harmless force to a child to discipline them I see nothing wrong
Why would you beat on a mentally undeveloped little kid for doing s*** that all kids do?
- Aug 14, 2020·2 replies
kids are capable of learning multiple languages
i think if u put in effort they're capable of learning how to behave without you having to hit them
- Aug 14, 2020·1 replyblonded
kids are capable of learning multiple languages
i think if u put in effort they're capable of learning how to behave without you having to hit them
Have you ever met a child before
- Aug 14, 2020·edited·1 replyNexizimas
Have you ever met a child before
yes, in fact even better I was a child before
- Aug 14, 2020·1 reply
3DotsEven Lauryn’s response is sus
Not discrediting the s*** she’s went through but it seems very deflective. Your life experiences are reasons for your actions but they’re not excuses.
I hope they can/have reconcile(d) their relationship
You still are discrediting in a way though.
Aug 14, 2020·1 reply
Slingshotlol how things run in the household as a child directly guides how u see relationships as an adult. If you getting s*** taken out on you physically as a child for something that isn’t your fault, that will warp your mind. you forever have a skewed view on how the world works
she struggles with relationships today because her brain takes what she saw in her household as a child and tries to mold how her relationships should take place today to fit that image. that’s why childhood trauma is so damaging, it has long reach and affects u your whole life
and you don’t get to be the judge of whether or not someone was really affected by their adolescence, only they know that
Lmaoo gtfoh
- Aug 14, 2020·3 repliesblonded
kids are capable of learning multiple languages
i think if u put in effort they're capable of learning how to behave without you having to hit them
Lmaoooo y’all bout white af
- Aug 14, 2020D A N
Lmaoo gtfoh
u finna argue against every psychologist on earth or what
- Aug 14, 2020·1 replyD A N
Lmaoooo y’all bout white af
compelling argument
- Aug 14, 2020D A N
Lmaoooo y’all bout white af
Aug 14, 2020·1 replyD A NLmaoooo y’all bout white af
You are lost
we black ppl already got generational trauma instilled from slavery and u proud of continuing the traumatizing of our children lmao
Aug 14, 2020Maybe read the articles in op before giving an opinion?
What Selah's parents did was f***ed especially Lauryn however it seems their family is working forward
- Aug 14, 2020·1 replyblonded
compelling argument
Not trying to have a compelling argument about this. I’m not gonna sit here and try to convince anyone that hitting children is right lol. But it does work. And if you’re not a maniac hitting your child every day for tiny f*** ups, it can be a useful discipline tool. But I know y’all got your minds made up so 🤐
Aug 14, 2020blondedyes, in fact even better I was a child before
oh s*** fr?
- Aug 14, 2020·1 replyOj Or
You are lost
we black ppl already got generational trauma instilled from slavery and u proud of continuing the traumatizing of our children lmao
I see your point I just disagree.
- Aug 14, 2020·1 replyD A N
Not trying to have a compelling argument about this. I’m not gonna sit here and try to convince anyone that hitting children is right lol. But it does work. And if you’re not a maniac hitting your child every day for tiny f*** ups, it can be a useful discipline tool. But I know y’all got your minds made up so 🤐
Just because something works is not a logical argument that you should do it
- Aug 14, 2020D A N
I see your point I just disagree.
Im not even that uptight about hitting ur kids to discipline its just the attitude when its brought up I have a problem with, like we not allowed to talk about it
- Aug 14, 2020·1 replyblonded
Just because something works is not a logical argument that you should do it
Exactly, which is why I ain’t arguing it lol
- Aug 14, 2020·1 replyD A N
Exactly, which is why I ain’t arguing it lol
So you admit that your argument is illogical
- Aug 14, 2020
Wrap it up
- Aug 14, 2020·2 repliesblonded
So you admit that your argument is illogical
You not LISTENING lol I’m not arguing s***. Arguing to hit kids isn’t the move lmao, I just believe it works. Do you 😬
- Aug 14, 2020
strict =/ abuse
i grew up with my grandma, and she had a mad temper and i had to deal with the occasional slipper or hangar but there is a line on being harsh and straight up abuse, i dont think it works on everyone as well.lmao i remember she taught me how to write in one day cause she was so strict, despite everything i still miss her and she was the only person who really raised me when i was a kid, my best attributes are all from her
- Aug 14, 2020·1 reply
Niggas really arguing with someone conceding the argument lol
- Aug 14, 2020D A N
You not LISTENING lol I’m not arguing s***. Arguing to hit kids isn’t the move lmao, I just believe it works. Do you 😬
this is the weirdest stance to take.
"I'm not going to argue to do what I do, but it works so I'll do it"
