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  • Aug 14, 2020
    Zach LaBeam

    This. biiig difference between being spanked/hit a few times and being abused

    facts.

    obviously its something that has to require that level of discipline. but it shows the kid that theres consequences to everything. thats how the real world works.

    cause and reaction, right from wrong

  • mfs really supporting domestic violence itt

  • Aug 14, 2020
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    Oj Or

    It’s easier to reflect when you punished vs when you crying and screaming while getting ur ass whooped

    It’s the difference between sitting down and thinking “dang if I didnt do that dumb s*** I would have my playstation 2 rn” vs the emotional reaction of ur ass getting clapped with a strap lmao

    it just seem like one of those would lead to more mental f*** s*** occurring than the other

    REGARDLESS this girl in OP said she was abused, not disciplined

  • Aug 14, 2020

    Tbh I felt bad when I read "her mother took anger about it and the media out on her"

    cause she was big mad at the media at that time, can't imagine all that anger being released on a child

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    Oj Or

    It’s easier to reflect when you punished vs when you crying and screaming while getting ur ass whooped

    It’s the difference between sitting down and thinking “dang if I didnt do that dumb s*** I would have my playstation 2 rn” vs the emotional reaction of ur ass getting clapped with a strap lmao

    it just seem like one of those would lead to more mental f*** s*** occurring than the other

    I’m not even trying to be a contrarian but that punishment s*** didn’t work for me. The only thing that worked at a certain point is not wanting to be beat. That s*** saved my life.

  • Aug 14, 2020
    Delejayn

    I’m not even trying to be a contrarian but that punishment s*** didn’t work for me. The only thing that worked at a certain point is not wanting to be beat. That s*** saved my life.

    S*** sometimes fear the only option, when u dont care to lose anything.

    it definitely can work, just at what cost in some people’s case

  • Aug 14, 2020
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    I never got beat by my mom but she had a mean collar yank and stare.

    Worked just as good

  • Aug 14, 2020
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    Delejayn

    What you preach about?

    i don’t preach i share my views.

  • Aug 14, 2020
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    Yall way too concerned about what other niggas doing with their kids Like KTT legend @FrostyFlakez once said, "Adopt him or stfu b"

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    RX Nigerian Pastor

    I never got beat by my mom but she had a mean collar yank and stare.

    Worked just as good

    in a Nigeria household?!

  • HeyFriends

    in a Nigeria household?!

    Mom is not Nigerian, she a light skin woman from NJ

    Pops is Nigerian and I ain’t live with him

  • Aug 14, 2020
    Tvremote

    depends how much she got beat.
    little discipline never hurt no body.

    Whites itt gonna be on your ass about saying a little beating here and there ain't bad. Real niggas been through it and I can't honestly say I didn't deserve my fair share of those beatings I got.

  • Aug 14, 2020
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    Sometimes kids deserve to get they ass beat

    This why so many white people are awful people. They never got checked for their behavior

  • Aug 14, 2020
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    gesufaleg

    i don’t preach i share my views.

    Look up the definition of preaching 😂

  • Aug 14, 2020
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    Delejayn

    Look up the definition of preaching 😂

    “ To proclaim or put forth in a sermon.
    intransitive verb To advocate, especially to urge acceptance of or compliance with.
    intransitive verb To deliver (a sermon).”

    sharing views isn’t the same thing.

  • Aug 14, 2020
    D A N

    I think in normal circumstances either would work. Every child is different tho. Taking something away might be more effective than whoopings for one child, or vice versa

    for me, I just got used to things being taken away. Like my friends are always surprised when they see that I actually have my phone

    Spankings worked better, but for some kids taking things away is much more effective

  • Aug 14, 2020
    aaron xx

    surprised this isnt a @Singh_is_King thread

  • Aug 14, 2020
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    I’m so happy that it’s illegal to hit/spank a child in my country.
    The fact that there are so many people in this thread co-signing adults hitting/spanking kids is f***ing disgusting.

  • Aug 14, 2020
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    MyLeftBrain

    I disagree, you should never discipline your child by beating it

    you calling a child an "it" is worse in my eyes

  • BlueChew Sean

    Yall way too concerned about what other niggas doing with their kids Like KTT legend @FrostyFlakez once said, "Adopt him or stfu b"

    Youre a bad person

  • Aug 14, 2020
    MyLeftBrain

    I’m so happy that it’s illegal to hit/spank a child in my country.
    The fact that there are so many people in this thread co-signing adults hitting/spanking kids is f***ing disgusting.

    It's illegal in any country if it's outside the bounds of "reasonable punishment" and if the child reports it

  • Aug 14, 2020

    thats f***ed up

    but I don't really care sorry, theres people itt who listen to XXX, Chris Brown, gangster rappers, trappers, etc

    Miseducation still a classic for me, I will still listen

  • Aug 14, 2020
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    Psychological abuse is as bad as physical abuse

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