Im so done my day became even worse than that thanks for everything god or higher power or whatever
Please forgive me for not being good enough even though I don’t deserve forgiveness i did everything i promise and it wasn’t enough , my everything is never enough for anybody
need discipline n routine, gonna start making my sleep schedule more consistent. wake up - cold shower - meditate - take dog on walk all before checking my phone
need discipline n routine, gonna start making my sleep schedule more consistent. wake up - cold shower - meditate - take dog on walk all before checking my phone
Stay committed brother and good luck!
Please forgive me for not being good enough even though I don’t deserve forgiveness i did everything i promise and it wasn’t enough , my everything is never enough for anybody
Keep pushing my brother your worth it! Love you bro hope you have a good night!
The investigation went okay, I have my disciplinary hearing on Monday, the original vibe I got from the manager after the investigation was good, however the letter I received didn't make for good reading. I messaged the investigating manager (who I get on with but annoyingly he won't be doing the hearing on Monday) and said to him although I think dismissal is incredibly unfair and unwarranted id like to know if that is what is going to happen so I can just resign rather than going through the hassle and stress of being dismissed, he said all I can say is don't resign, as he can't really tell me anything about the outcome the fact that he said that cryptically tells me that I won't get sacked otherwise he would tell me to just resign, so I feel as confident as I can feel in the circumstances going into the hearing on Monday. Regardless of what happens the worst case scenario is I lose my job, I don't like the management there and its overly stressful to work there anyway and it just pays the bills while I am doing my studies so I'll just find another job, hopefully I keep it though as I have some good friends there and I don't deserve to lose my job. I'm thinking more positively these days though, I lost a girlfriend who I loved due to her cheating and leaving me for someone else when I thought we had a life together, I am doing my studies in restricted unprecedented circumstances, I have had much loved pets pass away and my grandad is showing early signs of dementia, but through all of this I am still determined and surviving and making really good progress with my masters, I have learned to only worry about factors of life that I can control as it makes no sense to dwell on things I cant, and for all these reasons I feel proud, If I can get through this horrible year I can get through anything.
That last sentence is what is most important my brother. To many of us get wrapped up in things we cannot control and it causes us to spiral.
Heartbreak and failure is all apart of the game of life, no changing that. So when it happens we just gotta take our time and heal and move on from the situation. My grandmother had dementia and I watched her fade away for 10 years until there was nothing left. It’s heartbreaking but it’s life so we have to accept.
I hope the best for your situation and your studies. Keep us updated bro and remember to keep pushing forward
I haven’t been able to get a therapy appointment since this whole lockdown s*** started and I’ve been trying to keep it together but I’m legit starting to lose it
I just need to talk it out but they won’t f***ing call me back it’s driving me nuts
If you ever trying to talk bro feel free to message me about whatever you got going on!
Ayo my bipolar been going wild lately, haven't been to therapy basically since lockdowns started in March, it's rough out here but we gunna get through it fam
Thank you brother I appreciate the kind words ♥️
Anyone else struggle with guilt at feeling how they feel when there are others going through worse in the world? It’s weird as I always tel other people to not look at things that way as our lives are independent, don’t all exist in a vacuum and we can still feel bad even if others have bad things to go through. Yet I don’t take my own advice and still feel bad the mind is a phenomenon.
I think we're all better at giving advice than taking it.
Hope everyone had a great holiday!
For those of you that know my knee is about 85% recovered and and 30% ready for sports. Been arguing a lot with my girl about some stuff but I think it’s just the pandemic putting pressure on us.
Hope all of y’all stay safe and continue to work towards being better! Love all of y’all man!
Doing pretty well recently all things considered. My Dad’s surgery is this Friday, I’m scared as f*** but I’m just acting like it’ll go smooth but preparing in case it doesn’t. I haven’t cried over it again since I found out last week so that’s a plus.
I’ve really taken a huge step back into normal life since stepping down from my crypto project. It’s refreshing but I feel so different. I feel like I missed so much, crypto was my life for most of 2020 it feels like. It’s not depressing, it’s just kind of a “okay now what do you want”. And I know the answer but I can’t get it. It’s fine though, baby steps. Not everyday needs to be a glowing success.
Realized how much abandonment I struggle with going back to shortly after my ptsd event. All my friendships left me. Then most of my close relationships in my 20s have left me. I wonder what’s wrong with me. Genuinely want to get to the bottom of it so people stop leaving me cause I really don’t like it :/
I think I need to mind my own business more. When people are going through stuff I shouldn’t inquire, I should just let it be and direct them to alternate methods. I don’t think me being someone they can talk to is a good idea. Imo this isn’t really friendship but if I keep on down the path of what I think being close to someone is like I’m just gonna end up alone.
I'm really just floating get older and closer to death
"people don't live or die, people just float"
people tell me to get help when i have already and it's been ineffective feel they are a waste of time for me i get more council from speaking to randos on the net.
this doesn't apply to everyone and therapy can do alot of good and can accelerate people's recovery.
I think we're all better at giving advice than taking it.
people can give you some of the most insightful wisdom oat but if you don't believe it seldom will it be effective at improving your life.
I deserve every bad thing that has happened to me and more. That’s why the bad things will keep coming and they will never end
I deserve every bad thing that has happened to me and more. That’s why the bad things will keep coming and they will never end
na you don't g nobody deserves bad we all deserve love and affection despite any perceived flaws.
older i get the more apparent it becomes that i should have killed myself years ago
session tomorrow