Being comfortable with your masculinity and standing up for yourself is the manliest thing you can do. You can be whatever you want brotha just don’t turn into a b****

Man just cause you insecure in your nail painting dont mean people cant get jokes off, them s***s were light anyway.

OP came to us for advice because his mom won’t accept him for who he is

Instead of providing him the help he needs you guys instead make jokes and dehumanize him

You guys are pieces of s*** and there’s no way around it

Why did you even bring up my nails

A few jokes not changing OP situation neither is the shallow advice of “do what you want/be yourself/move out asap”.

No one dehumanized buddy so lets kill all that

Your personal experience making you overly emotional

How are you going to speak for OP?

He literally came to us for advice and help and you think what we say won’t affect him? By making this thread he obviously values what people say

If I was OP and struggling with my parents accepting me and I came on here for guidance and was instead made fun of it would just make me depressed

The fact you don’t see that shows how much you actually care about others

Man listen if you getting depressed cause internet strangers arent consoling you got much bigger issues need to find a community or sumn

What we say matters absolutely, no one abusing op or throwing phobic language at him 🤷🏿‍♂️ you tb banning for standard ktt s*** thats all im sayin

Mental health isn’t a joke

@op if you want some real advice i would highly recommend seeking out real life LGBT communities, be it in school or in your wider community.

There you will more than likely find a network of people that will have a much similar experience to you and can help you navigate this difficult time.

Dont know the ins and outs of your home life or the dynamic between you and your parent but if you do anything please start there, having real people to turn to that will listen is important.

Man shut up already damn

No nigga people like you that think it’s okay to joke like that are the issue

Put me on ignore then if you so pressed

Your posts have no value anyway

How im pressed when you the one in the thread cryin

Man go fight witcha daddy or sumn jr

shouldve told her u were sniffn it

Be a man and stand up to her and say youre going to be whoever you want whether she likes or not.

op's mom:

She probably just means to stop being so sensitive and have more confidence. Every post on here you do is talking about yourself/orientation and you gotta understand not everyone is going to fully embrace you being Bi and wearing nail polish or whatever identity you're embracing. Your identity isn't as important or enchanting as you think. Are you sure you aren't exhausting and annoying? It does not make you special nor does anyone owe you anything for it except decency.

Now if she's being homophobic and a bad mother that's wrong but at the same time she knows you're going into the real world soon.

This is just speculation from what I've seen you post but you're also probably just homosexual. Which is fine but stop whining and realize life is long and you'll figure it out and eventually get some good d***.

bruh

wow

I'm curious why you say Wow, seriously?

first page is one of the worst I've seen in awhile

I can't lie it made me laugh but OP needs to be taken more seriously

the only advice i have is just keep the goal of moving out in mind and keep it pushing until that clear date

then u can do whatever u want

in the interim figure out what friends you can crash with for 1-2 nights in emergencies

my mother and i always had a lot of friction
and she got a lot more lax in hs bc she realized she just couldnt assume full control of me--i would just crash at friends places or uber myself around and had been doing that since like middle school

however i also knew she wouldnt permanently throw me out
and that i could get money from my dad so idk you can do all this

and also i just dont like her soooooooo

Yeah the end was a little humor filled and breaking balls but I was not cruel nor was I wrong or out of line in my message.

why are you convinced hes full gay instead of bi?