why are you convinced hes full gay instead of bi?
I said probably and probably because he seems very gay.
Also that's what you took out of what I said haha?
This person is also just a kid essentially and I hope he's not getting bullied or feeling really rejected at home. My best advice seriously is to stand up to your mom and tell her to not worry about your masculinity but just support him either way. Also throw a zinger at her and tell her you'd be more masculine if she could keep your father around instead of becoming older and uglier.
I said probably and probably because he seems very gay.
Also that's what you took out of what I said haha?
no its just the only part i was asking a question about
being less masculine doesnt mean youre fully gay instead of bi
This thread is f***ing ridiculous
Good luck OP sorry you’re going through that
Can’t change parents unfortunately
idk what to say bro i feel u moms be odeeee homophobic s*** trash one day we’ll truly be able to express ourselves 100%
I said probably and probably because he seems very gay.
Also that's what you took out of what I said haha?
thread is a classic
First couple posts after op are ridiculous
Just do what you want, it's simple as that. If she can't respect you the way you are, she's a s***ty mom
Slap her ass and palm that s*** hard next time you see her cooking
That’ll show her
f*** all the posters that told u to be masculine. Be yourself, nobody makes the rules for gender identity. Live your life homie.
Slap her ass and palm that s*** hard next time you see her cooking
That’ll show her
go Into more detail. How do you think she’ll react ?!?!
This person is also just a kid essentially and I hope he's not getting bullied or feeling really rejected at home. My best advice seriously is to stand up to your mom and tell her to not worry about your masculinity but just support him either way. Also throw a zinger at her and tell her you'd be more masculine if she could keep your father around instead of becoming older and uglier.
Dude this is terrible advice. There is no "standing up" to your mom, its just making things worse. And that last bit... yikes, are you trying to get this kid kicked out of his house? Come on man.
My mom went through my mail and found my nail polish that I ordered. She started getting mad saying that it wasn’t masculine and that “women wear nail polish” then she threw it away and said I can’t wear it. My mom has always made me feel unwanted and unwelcome throughout my life and I feel even more alienated because she wants me to fit into this generic masculine role and that’s just not me. I’m bi and feel afraid to tell her that because of how she’s previously reacted to me being even somewhat feminine.
It’s hell to be in that space, but remember that you CAN get out of there and pursue to be the person you want to be. Sometimes blood is as thin as water, and it’s okay to get away from family members who don’t emotionally support you.
Don’t acknowledge the people itt posting for likes. You deserve to be who you see fit so long as it doesn’t hurt anyone else. (And being feminine/bi doesn’t hurt anyone)
If shes acting like that u probably wont have true freedom to do what u want until you move out