He’s a self employed personal trainer in South Africa and business ain’t good ain’t been good since Covid.
We’ve been tryna get him to move to the UK but obviously visas an issue now there’s this news (an abortion was planned but his girl didn’t go through with it).
Got no solid income, still lives with his parents and he’s got a kid on the way
He’s down badd and I feel out of my depth how can I help him?

Sorry champ he should’ve helped himself

He’s screwed

i would tell him to consider changing his career and do something more stable for the time being so he can support this kid and ideally not have to stay with his parents

send bro some trojans

Dropped out of college to pursue training. 27 now with no qualifications

tell him he better get his s*** together quick he got no choice 😹

These hoes can't be trusted!!
Rule #1

Rule #2: Don't try to save someone who won't save themselves.

I think the best thing for him would be to move to the UK. He won’t see his kid as much but it’s something he also wants to do. South African economy’s lame

Mad reckless for getting his girl pregnant though

Sounds like he’s just gonna have to get a real job now

She agreed to the abortion and cried when it got to the day

I understand though it’s rough but a kid ain’t what they need rn

In South Africa with no qualifications destined for poverty man

tell him to get a certification for data science or programming or some s***. It cost like nothing and he could land a job off of it

i mean lets be for real
If your cousin gets to the UK and leaves them behind is he really gonna be an involved father? I don't know him more than you but it's something to think about.

additionally if he tries to leave the country this chick will probably want to go with him. depending on their relationship status, he may want them to come with him. and then when he gets to the UK he's likely gonna be living with someone in your family until he gets on his feet. who's gonna be willing to take all that on? for your sake i hope its isn't you

Yall cant have him and the girl move to the UK? I mean tell him to boss up and be a man and take care of his family by getting some qualifications.

He can rock with me for a while whilst he finds his feet.

But his life choices have really made him a burden. His dads a well connected accountant who landed him a job in the past but he quit cos he didn’t wanna work for nobody

Now he’s got a kid on the way

Lol he might need to give pappy a call

F*** sake… he made every dumb decision possible

Only option is moving back home

Sent me a whatsapp this morning saying he doesn’t wanna be here anymore

His mom found out today his dad’s prolly gonna go crazy

Congrats!

I believe it is too late for that

So they didn’t get an abortion?

Nope girl didn’t wanna go through with it neither did her mom.

Baby’s due in may and bro’s penniless

raise the kid for him

Tell him to leave get dude a plane ticket asap