Somebody tell him he can still lift while being a CA with a steady income . I don't understand, he could've left after stashing a little bit of money to support his lifting thing, then I'd be like ah well, at least he tried, but he not even moving smart.
All he had to do was knuckle down and complete an education handed to him and he would’ve walked into jobs
Guess that’s how life goes sometimes
All he had to do was knuckle down and complete an education handed to him and he would’ve walked into jobs
Guess that’s how life goes sometimes
I hate this phrase here because it implies it was out of his control
Lot of people like this. Sorry it's so close
I hate this phrase here because it implies it was out of his control
Lot of people like this. Sorry it's so close
In his defence I was close to him during the period and had my own struggles with accounting (which I still managed to get my degree in despite some bad mental health issues )
It’s rough but sometimes you gotta thug s*** out for your future
It’s a big mess tbh. I was in South Africa with my cuz in March his dad’s fed up relationships pretty s*** between him and his dad. He’s BEEN supporting him
I think him dropping out of uni hurt his pops bad you can imagine the racks he spent supporting him through just boarding school alone.
He gave him a car it got robbed. Whilst I was there my cousins sister got a new car and the parents didn’t trust him enough to give him his sister’s old car which my cousin took to heart.
Then like a month ago my cousin crashed said car whilst drunk driving
Damn 27 acting like a 19 yr old.
Safest/ best thing to do is for him to beg for that accounting job back, stack up while studying for exams (to increase his earning potential) and put wtv dreams on hold so that the baby and his gf is good.
Then when things are stable financially and hes manned up/learned to be responsible, MAYBE then can he think ab moving to the UK. but i dont support leaving ur bm and child unless theres a plan to bring them along afterwards
Cheating/quitting jobs gotta stop he has a family to take care of now
You better tell him to love his b**** and his son like his life depends on it.
It’s nothing you can do to help him, his life practically over.
He can rock with me for a while whilst he finds his feet.
But his life choices have really made him a burden. His dads a well connected accountant who landed him a job in the past but he quit cos he didn’t wanna work for nobody
Now he’s got a kid on the way
"he didn’t wanna work for nobody"
Oh he one of dem niggas
he'll be alright, he'll manage. my little sister still lives with my folks, had a kid about a year ago and while it was a bit iffy at first, it's turned out alright.
i'm seeing her readjusting to everything and building a new life for herself.
i think it's a thing everyone does with every development in their lives, you deal with it and move on. provided he treats it like that, he should be fine.
I guess the baby is gonna force him to come up with a plan and get his s*** together, unfortunately.
It’s a big mess tbh. I was in South Africa with my cuz in March his dad’s fed up relationships pretty s*** between him and his dad. He’s BEEN supporting him
I think him dropping out of uni hurt his pops bad you can imagine the racks he spent supporting him through just boarding school alone.
He gave him a car it got robbed. Whilst I was there my cousins sister got a new car and the parents didn’t trust him enough to give him his sister’s old car which my cousin took to heart.
Then like a month ago my cousin crashed said car whilst drunk driving
She's gotta get that abortion. This guy is not ready to be a father
thread made me feel good because even when bills kicking my ass at least its not a child