Bruh chill out lol.
This probably the first time a girl actually tried hitting him out of the blue.
OP just leave. It's almost 85% f***ed with the power dynamic at this point. Not much therapy can do to save anything in a short amount of time.
Also sounds like y'all argue a lot more than y'all should
Nah you need to talk to folks like that otherwise they aren't gonna listen. Calling a nigga a b**** is one of the best ways to make em change. Clearly this mf is not built for the toxic relationship he's about to endure. He was crying in a fetal position of one punch so I'm tryna save this man from being wrecked
That's what I mean brother. Clearly you aren't built for that toxic energy. The girl has made it clear that she has a lot of trauma. She doesn't need a relationship, she needs therapy. I'd dip out before things get worse
Let all that s*** out too . Your love just dehumanized you to one of the highest extents (you aren’t in the clear either depending on what you said to her) , anger or sadness better be the reaction
What’s your plan though homie
Last person I expected op to be was Longstroke. But glad you finally settled down though, y’all will be good
Interesting doc I saw last week about an abusive girlfriend
!https://youtu.be/SIYkIPStTXU15 seconds in had to stop the video - that's where i got burnt here
Call her mom and ask if she ever swung on her, I feel like she did that s*** because u was winning the argument
this a good point tbh ask her friends, family this is important info at this point moving forward
No cap this is grounds for a break up or space but if some reason it isn’t . Therapy is a necessity not an option.
Therapy is a necessity not an option.
you a b****..
f*** her then dip
Idk why this made me think of that but remember early jersey shore how everyone hated Snooki then after she got punched in the face in that one club everyone loved her thats crazy how getting assaulted basically made Snooki famous
I'm sorry that happened though op you should break up with her thats unacceptable behavior
I seen my cousin get rocked in the face by his girl
They were fine for a few afterwards but there’s just lines you don’t cross
They eventually ended things and he still brings it up every now and then lol
That’s a no go doggie
Ops gf went draymond on him and he over here trying to figure out a way to make it work
no, OP does not have to put her into counseling or take her to a psychologist.
Maybe that would be helpful, but the only thing that has to happen is that OPs girl never hits him like that again.
F*** are you talking about bro I have never ever wanted to put my hands on my loved ones no matter the case. If you have childhood trauma bad enough to punch your SO in the f***ing face you need counseling full stop. If you're capable of doing it once you're more than capable of doing it more than once
I gave you the benefit of the doubt at first but I hope to god you're just trolling.
Ok but there's still consequences. At minimum OP's gotta force her ass into counseling and have her be looked at a psychologist for any mental disorders, if she really does have childhood trauma.
Again, depends on OP's boundaries. If it was me, I would've kicked her ass out expeditiously and never talked to her again. This is still domestic violence, and domestic violence almost always has a pattern of repetition.
Big Facts to the first point.
To the second, I like to give benefit of the doubt but I completely support somebody who would rather get the f*** out.