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  • Nov 10, 2022

    I just know she got that fire

  • Nov 10, 2022
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    ragedsycokiller

    Bruh chill out lol.

    This probably the first time a girl actually tried hitting him out of the blue.

    OP just leave. It's almost 85% f***ed with the power dynamic at this point. Not much therapy can do to save anything in a short amount of time.

    Also sounds like y'all argue a lot more than y'all should

    Nah you need to talk to folks like that otherwise they aren't gonna listen. Calling a nigga a b**** is one of the best ways to make em change. Clearly this mf is not built for the toxic relationship he's about to endure. He was crying in a fetal position of one punch so I'm tryna save this man from being wrecked

  • Nov 10, 2022

    Why did she hit you?

  • Nov 10, 2022

    That's what I mean brother. Clearly you aren't built for that toxic energy. The girl has made it clear that she has a lot of trauma. She doesn't need a relationship, she needs therapy. I'd dip out before things get worse

  • Nov 10, 2022
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    Let all that s*** out too . Your love just dehumanized you to one of the highest extents (you aren’t in the clear either depending on what you said to her) , anger or sadness better be the reaction

    What’s your plan though homie

  • Nov 10, 2022

    Last person I expected op to be was Longstroke. But glad you finally settled down though, y’all will be good

  • Nov 10, 2022
    TiTi

    Interesting doc I saw last week about an abusive girlfriend

    !https://youtu.be/SIYkIPStTXU

    15 seconds in had to stop the video - that's where i got burnt here

  • Nov 10, 2022
    Innocent

    Call her mom and ask if she ever swung on her, I feel like she did that s*** because u was winning the argument

    this a good point tbh ask her friends, family this is important info at this point moving forward

  • Nov 10, 2022

    she hit you with the "BITCH!"

    Don't play with her weak nigga

  • Nov 10, 2022
    RenBop

    No cap this is grounds for a break up or space but if some reason it isn’t . Therapy is a necessity not an option.

    Therapy is a necessity not an option.

  • Nov 10, 2022
    blonded

    immediate therapy or drop imo

  • BLACK
    Nov 10, 2022

    you a b****..

  • Nov 10, 2022
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    Not even a slap, a punch to the face is crazy

  • BLACK
    Nov 10, 2022
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    f*** her then dip

  • Br00ses 🐣
    Nov 10, 2022

    Idk why this made me think of that but remember early jersey shore how everyone hated Snooki then after she got punched in the face in that one club everyone loved her thats crazy how getting assaulted basically made Snooki famous

    I'm sorry that happened though op you should break up with her thats unacceptable behavior

  • Nov 10, 2022
    Mac Wit Da Cheese

    Brag thread

  • Nov 10, 2022

    I seen my cousin get rocked in the face by his girl

    They were fine for a few afterwards but there’s just lines you don’t cross

    They eventually ended things and he still brings it up every now and then lol

  • Nov 10, 2022
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    That’s a no go doggie

  • Nov 10, 2022
    figaro

    break up with her lol

  • Nov 10, 2022

    Didn’t even read the post but dump her now and never turn back.

  • Nov 10, 2022
    BLACK

    f*** her then dip

  • Nov 10, 2022
    ganger

    That’s a no go doggie

    Ops gf went draymond on him and he over here trying to figure out a way to make it work

  • Nov 10, 2022
    cold mountain

    no, OP does not have to put her into counseling or take her to a psychologist.

    Maybe that would be helpful, but the only thing that has to happen is that OPs girl never hits him like that again.

    F*** are you talking about bro I have never ever wanted to put my hands on my loved ones no matter the case. If you have childhood trauma bad enough to punch your SO in the f***ing face you need counseling full stop. If you're capable of doing it once you're more than capable of doing it more than once

    I gave you the benefit of the doubt at first but I hope to god you're just trolling.

  • Nov 10, 2022
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    ASAKI

    Ok but there's still consequences. At minimum OP's gotta force her ass into counseling and have her be looked at a psychologist for any mental disorders, if she really does have childhood trauma.

    Again, depends on OP's boundaries. If it was me, I would've kicked her ass out expeditiously and never talked to her again. This is still domestic violence, and domestic violence almost always has a pattern of repetition.

    Big Facts to the first point.
    To the second, I like to give benefit of the doubt but I completely support somebody who would rather get the f*** out.