Ignore him, that's his gimmick

I swear ktts only advice on relationships is "break uip with your partner"

This is literally how he argues don’t bother

Make completely ed statement or say something that’s literally false > repeatedly say people are missing your point when they push back

You should see how he tries to do this with philosophy, it’s really embarrassing

I'm saying we aren't OP and we don't know his girl or his situation. We have a tiny snapshot of the very lowest point of the relationship. Gotta keep in mind that this is not enough info make an accurate call.

Really, OP probably shouldn't have even made this thread. This is between the two of them, only he will know what the right call is.

if you go to anyone anywhere, even irl, about relationship struggles, 90% of the time they'll just tell you to end it

No cap this is grounds for a break up or space but if some reason it isn’t . Therapy is a necessity not an option.

This is not exclusive to this platform

immediate therapy or drop imo

True

therapy is always an option

gosh u guys are so annoying with the "i know 100% exactly what you need to do" attitude

Ooo ok good to know

no mf maybe u just serially misunderstand me

my only point is that we don't have the info to say if OPs girl is a horrible person or not, or if OP should leave her or not, and so on. Immediately jumping to "break up" is a normal response, but it's not necessarily the best response. Being so quick to assume the relationship is doomed and the girl is a horrible person ticks me off. I'm someone who will only cut off a person as a very last resort.

yall aint s***

Wait is this serious or is OP one of those gimmick accounts

yes this is fr

Nigga is online asking for opinions . I gave mine . I don’t have time to give a 1000 and one alternatives . That’s what y’all niggas are for. Relax

At least give her the threat of breaking up make her contemplate that what she did was wrong

And yes if it get physical i think therapy is a necessity. That’s not even a hot take opinion regardless of if you personally would do it or not

If you’re getting in any physical altercation with someone you might love

That’s a sign that therapy would probably help you understand why that’s happening.

Because that shouldn’t happen.

Obviously not but you shouldn't stand for that s***. It's a waste of time dealing with a damaged woman like this. She's likely gonna end up cheating on you and blaming it on her trauma. Based on your reaction, you ain't built for that toxic energy so I'd say dip out for your sake

From my experience the majority of people regret not leaving toxic relationships SOONER compared to the opposite.

Now if they were married, had kids and/or mutually owned assets etc etc I think there’s more room for discussion, but if it’s just a bf/gf situation and they don’t even live together yet and this is already happening OP can probably save himself a lot of pain cutting ties at this relatively early stage.

People gotta check themselves, don’t put your hands on someone unless they’re a threat, but also getting riled up and yelling is some ho s***.

tell anyone irl, another forum, your closest friend...

The moment u mention that she punched you, they will tell you to end it

Please use common sense, dont put this on ktt

Man i hope decide what u decide, it all ends good for you bro