she owes me over 4000$ and keeps spending her money on s*** thats not a priority should i confront her or wait for her to give me the money back sometime in the future or am i doomed to be 4k short forever :

lmao you not getting that 4k back

Boa if you don’t go fight for your bread back we not talking 40 dollars my g. We talking 4K. Get that s*** back in blood.

What did you give her that much money for?

Also be assertive about it if they're bullshitting. Family that abuses that bond can get the f*** on tbh.

tf? demand your money back. 4k is way too much just to let her go. at least get half back

Man I’m in a similar situation, my cousin owes me 1500-1600. She’s a teacher with her own s*** she just spends money on dumb s*** and then ask me to bail her out.

Well I’m not bailing her out anymore, last time she asked for some bread I told her no and she got pissy and started acting like I was a bad guy. I cussed her ass out about all that she doing and she shut her ass up.

Every weekend on snap she would be posting crab legs and bottle girls and then come Monday asking the pastor for money smh

Anyways, you just gotta put your foot down and refuse. I set up a payment plan with my cousin.

been there u not getting that back bro

Post pics so we can slander her OP

Whoever raised her must be terrible people

Lmaooo my gf finessed 4k off her slow ass brother to buy herself lingerie & me a Rolex hahahahahaha

U a clown op lol

How y'all just be handing over money to unreliable folks, lol? Even if I never gave you a dollar in my life I can tell if u good for paying me that dollar back.

Tell her if that money doesn't show then she's caught in 4k

What kind of stupid question is that? Youre asking us if you should ask for 4gs back?

I love my sister to death but if i loaned her 4 grand with the implication shed pay me back and she didnt, im hunting her ass down wtf

its your sister
confront her

that rolex is fake brother

if you real have one of your girlfriends go slap her around

red flag alert

boy if you dont raw dog her

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Real s*** tho she gon have to pay that s*** back one way or another

Nah op you gon have to step to your sister about that bread

$4k? And shes a reckless spender hell yea id confront her

Confront her for sure but next time never lend out any money to family/friends that you expect to get back. Relationships will get ruined

Either it's a gift or don't give them s***