she owes me over 4000$ and keeps spending her money on s*** thats not a priority should i confront her or wait for her to give me the money back sometime in the future or am i doomed to be 4k short forever :
Get that s*** back if she don’t got a payment plan with you and she buying bullshit she spending your money
Real talk, take it up w/your family. Don't lose your sister over some measly 4k.
Bih I’d break my sibling teeth over the last coffee crisp, fym mayne
I wouldnt but tbh, I treat my sister like a queen so thats why. Any other lady outside immediate family, I would press for the money.
Bih I’d break my sibling teeth over the last coffee crisp, fym mayne
that's why u take it up w family/inner circle.
I say lend her another 1k. You don't deserve that money back if u seriously asking this
Man I’m in a similar situation, my cousin owes me 1500-1600. She’s a teacher with her own s*** she just spends money on dumb s*** and then ask me to bail her out.
Well I’m not bailing her out anymore, last time she asked for some bread I told her no and she got pissy and started acting like I was a bad guy. I cussed her ass out about all that she doing and she shut her ass up.
Every weekend on snap she would be posting crab legs and bottle girls and then come Monday asking the pastor for money smh
Anyways, you just gotta put your foot down and refuse. I set up a payment plan with my cousin.
MY BRUDDA I know you were wagging your finger at her doing the “eh eh!” would’ve done the EXACT same to my sis
never loan money to family man, my dad taught me that early. you can give them money but don’t give money you need back. it either strains the relationship because you’re waiting on them, or because you come asking
it’s a s***ty situation regardless but if you need some back just be like hey i know asking for 4k at once is a lot, but i need you to get me back for something bc now i’m hurting financially from it
or if your parents are well enough off just hit them up and tell them what happened, see if they can get you back instead
Lmaooo my gf finessed 4k off her slow ass brother to buy herself lingerie & me a Rolex hahahahahaha
if your gf doing this to her own and you think she wouldn’t f*** you over just as fast lmao
Lmaooo my gf finessed 4k off her slow ass brother to buy herself lingerie & me a Rolex hahahahahaha
yeah shes definitely cheating on you
What did you give her that much money for?
Also be assertive about it if they're bullshitting. Family that abuses that bond can get the f*** on tbh.
she needed help when she was going thru her divorce but that was more than a year ago smh
yes u should! but hopefully both parties comes to a mutual understanding and proper respect and yall can work something out u never know if u dont try