no avy gang

3y

Please, on behalf of ALL men, do NOT approach women in public. Women are already on edge due to the aggressive nature of men who conflict harm upon them due to rejection. Don't add more of a load on to them than they have to carry. It's NOT fair. Just leave women be, and let them have their things. If you're so f***ing h**** that you have to approach a RANDOM women in public, just pay for sex.

Unconsensual approach is a thing, and is apart of rape culture that us, as MEN have to break the cycle of. Leave women be, and let them have their things in peace.

TLD;DR: Don't be a creep.

Thank you for coming to my TEDTalk.

Mango

3y

You must be hot, man. Congratulations. Awful move though.

bags

3y

I was in a bookstore once and a really cute girl caught my attention. I observed her for a while and a distance. I grab a piece of paper and wrote my name and number on it. Walked past her and let the paper fall behing her. Then I told her she dropped the paper and gave her a piercing look. She reached out that same night. We talked for weeks, we went on a few dates, had s***and eventually became good friends cause she was really cool. We still hit each other from time to time.

She later told me that she thought it was really corny move but decided to give me a chance just for the f*** of it.

bags

3y

I was in a bookstore once and a really cute girl caught my attention. I observed her for a while and a distance. I grab a piece of paper and wrote my name and number on it. Walked past her and let the paper fall behing her. Then I told her she dropped the paper and gave her a piercing look. She reached out that same night. We talked for weeks, we went on a few dates, had s***and eventually became good friends cause she was really cool. We still hit each other from time to time.

She later told me that she thought it was really corny move but decided to give me a chance just for the f*** of it.

999Wrld

3y

cap. I get what you're saying but if shorty gives you choosing signals you should atleast shoot your shot

it's all situational and you as a man gotta be smart/socially aware enough to know when it's appropiate without coming off as creepy

Unwound

3y

Lmao sounds like you dodged a bullet

999Wrld

3y

the entitlement is thru the roof

you gonna spoil me with half dozen? That s*** was funny but ik that s*** hurt a lil bit good lord , b****es just say anything bruh

dr3am_weaver_479

3y

approach a hobby or gainful employment

Big Papi Nizzy

3y

She came to my dorm room to apologize like 2 days after. She wasn’t really like that. But women always seeking validation from each other.

Soo Diff

3y

Never hit on girls working because they get paid to be nice to you. There are exceptions but few and far between.

Big Papi Nizzy

3y

See, I knew this but the b**** was not the baddest in the group and she had stepped away from them so I approached.

Things were going good until her friends came over and she changed into a completely different person. She said “how imma talk to a nigga that work at Dunkin’ Donuts? You gonna spoil me with a half dozen? Get out my face bum”

Bruh I felt like I was bout to have an emotional reaction so I just said “cool” and left

no avy gang

3y

Please, on behalf of ALL men, do NOT approach women in public. Women are already on edge due to the aggressive nature of men who conflict harm upon them due to rejection. Don't add more of a load on to them than they have to carry. It's NOT fair. Just leave women be, and let them have their things. If you're so f***ing h**** that you have to approach a RANDOM women in public, just pay for sex.

Unconsensual approach is a thing, and is apart of rape culture that us, as MEN have to break the cycle of. Leave women be, and let them have their things in peace.

TLD;DR: Don't be a creep.

Thank you for coming to my TEDTalk.

dr3am_weaver_479

3y

approach a hobby or gainful employment

no avy gang

3y

Please, on behalf of ALL men, do NOT approach women in public. Women are already on edge due to the aggressive nature of men who conflict harm upon them due to rejection. Don't add more of a load on to them than they have to carry. It's NOT fair. Just leave women be, and let them have their things. If you're so f***ing h**** that you have to approach a RANDOM women in public, just pay for sex.

Unconsensual approach is a thing, and is apart of rape culture that us, as MEN have to break the cycle of. Leave women be, and let them have their things in peace.

TLD;DR: Don't be a creep.

Thank you for coming to my TEDTalk.

Okay Now Big Man

3y

Never thought of it as a part of rape culture wtf Dawg, I’ve approached tons of chicks back in my sophomore year cuz I’m thinkin I’m a respectful nigga so imma talk my s*** and if she not feeling me, imma bounce.

Bro this explains so much of why my social life is where it’s at right now

Puffy

3y

It's kinda normal for college students but for actual adults, you'd need to have crazy game and be really good looking to do this.

rhyming rhino

3y

Where is your social life at right now

This can be a psa and a learning experience for a lot of people

Okay Now Big Man

3y

Lmao, see when I push up on a girl I never say no s*** like what @Squilliam said keep it light and casual. Have gotten a lot of numbers this way. But idk, just feel like sometimes people misconstrue your intentions. And then for the most part, anytime I bagged a chick it would never go anywhere. Nonetheless, feel like I’ve been posted in my fair share of groupchats

But yeah my social life in college is nowhere close to where it should be. Very disappointing considering how good I look, how well I dress, etc. Most women would say I’m a good option just off looks. I’m getting therapy now, but man I couldn't keep a girl in my life for longer than one month. It was always something wrong I was doing. I just feel left so much to be desired when it came to women and friendships. I’d genuinely say I have 2 good college friends lol. Just burned a lot of bridges to say the least. I should've been poppin