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  • Perreo

    My boys are all 4-5 years older than me and all the time they're bringing up s*** from their adolescence and HS years and whenever i mention how they live in the past they get defensive

    Same with an ex she would always be so caught up in the past.

    You too caught up in the past you miss the future

    Being too caught up in the past misses the PRESENT

    There is no future, the future is just as much as a illusion as the past. If you are always looking forward, you miss the now.

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    You’re 100% correct lol. If you’re pushing 30-40 and always reflecting on your high school days, you peaked in high school lol

  • Aug 10, 2023

    Sometimes I think I live in the moment too much. I’ve had a great life and a lot of great experiences and I often feel like I don’t recognize that enough. I get too caught up in my day-to-day emotions and can’t appreciate the big picture.

  • Aug 10, 2023

    Yea I don't f*** with nostalgia like that

  • Aug 10, 2023

    nostalgia is good in small doses

    it is cool to think back to a certain memory
    like you also got to appreciate and enjoy moments that are worth remembering, nothing wrong with that

    you go on vacation to make lasting memories, no one is gonna crucify you if years later you think back to those moments or memories

    the present is equally important and odds are you gonna eventually think back to the present (2023) just as nostalgically, you just can't see it from that angle yet..

    so truly enlightening is knowing every moment is worth remembering and living, especially the present

  • Aug 10, 2023

    While I do agree that there's something to be said about obsessing over nostalgic moments, some people do have a particular relationship to memory and how memory permeates their life and how the production of memories impacts how they navigate life.

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    Wrong. I can be nostalgic for times when I had less responsibilities and still lead a great life in the present. Sound like you are projecting.

  • Aug 10, 2023
    Lisa

    Blows my mind when people be saying s*** like “2015 was the best year”

    Feel like every year is better than the last

    2013, 2015 and 2010

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    Screw you too

  • Aug 10, 2023
    AK Fresh

    It doesn’t work like that

    People can experience nostalgia without living in the past

    But this perspective doesn't make for a hit thread

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    We been living in a culture of nostalgia ever since 9/11 @op everyone miserable get with the times

  • Aug 10, 2023

    Mother f***er lemme play some damn Pokemon and listen to system of a down f*** u

  • Aug 10, 2023

    Depends on what you're nostalgic for. If you're 30 and miss high school yeah you prob have some things to work on.

    If you're 30 and miss when your only responsibility was cleaning your room and watching cartoons you're just a normal person.

  • Aug 10, 2023

    Bout to cop these cause this dumbass thread

  • Aug 10, 2023
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    Lisa

    Blows my mind when people be saying s*** like “2015 was the best year”

    Feel like every year is better than the last

    2019 was absolute ass

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    Skinn Foley

    We been living in a culture of nostalgia ever since 9/11 @op everyone miserable get with the times

    We ain't all miserable

    Life too short to be miserable for the sake of being miserable

  • Aug 10, 2023
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    My homie had a party a few years back and a dude that was really popular in high school and fell the f*** off afterward was there asking people s*** like "who was the hottest girl in our graduating class" and we were looking at him crazy af lol like dawg we're 25 years old.

  • This is like super obvious

  • Aug 10, 2023
    HURRY UP K DOG

    We ain't all miserable

    Life too short to be miserable for the sake of being miserable

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    Zezima

    2019 was absolute ass

    Same for me. Would take any of the past 4 years over 2019 lol

  • Aug 10, 2023
    JeffersonSteelflex

    ain’t no way you think 2020 was better than 2015

    for me it was

    summer 2020 in particular was an amazing time

  • Aug 10, 2023
    Zezima

    2019 was absolute ass

  • Aug 10, 2023
    ragedsycokiller

    Same for me. Would take any of the past 4 years over 2019 lol

  • Aug 10, 2023
    Broscodolo

    My homie had a party a few years back and a dude that was really popular in high school and fell the f*** off afterward was there asking people s*** like "who was the hottest girl in our graduating class" and we were looking at him crazy af lol like dawg we're 25 years old.

  • Aug 10, 2023
    ragedsycokiller

    Same for me. Would take any of the past 4 years over 2019 lol

    2019 was my rock f***in bottom

    But you have to hit rock bottom to climb out of it