I guess what I'm asking is, would you rather have very few real friends, and maybe a beautiful super model looking woman as a wife or high maintenance gf but the relationship feels super transactional, whom you never really have time for anyway

Or would you be cool with just having a regular cute girl, who's super loyal, great friends and fam and maybe just a basic 9 to 5, or whatever else you want but you know it's not gonna make you rich or nothing and without much material stuff?

Obviously you can have great wealth and the great relationships but this is just if you had to choose

money money money

True love dont exist anyway gimme that SACK 🤤

It's crazy cuz I'm in a time going through like a mental faze whete I'm really trying to figure out what makes me happy. Everything tells me if I was rich everything else in life would be so much better, but I'm also trying to work on how to be satisfied with just a more normal life as I know getting super rich or anything is highly unlikely

second option CLEARS first one

I dont argue with anyone who has this opinion one bit.

But at the same time, there really is no feeling like just cuddling up at the crib with a girl whose super into you and watching a movie while she goes down on you lol. Them moments make you kinda just cool with having just like normal resources lmao at least to me

Obviously like I stated already you can have both the wealth and great relationships and experiences this just a what if scenario

I'm a humble ufo

Lmao everybody picking that money option and tbh, if I was doing something extremely useful with my money, maybe it would be worth that sacrifice...

I actually don't care about material things like money but am obsessed with the idea of success so

they told me not to fall in love that s*** is pointless...

x2

I'd prefer love and super loyal girlfriend

Honestly I think as humans were wired, or at least meant to be, to value relationships over monetary things but obviously everyone is different and things have changed

bruh, this started so wholesome

Why is it no longer wholesome? Cuz I mentioned oral sex? Lol I'm grown dude and moments like those DO make you feel happy and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. Ppl needa get off they high horse.

After losing all my friends at my lowest (ppl ive put on, gave jobs and set up for success) imma stick with monetary things.

Humans are weird.

Missing option 3. You both lift eachother up and support each other’s growth.

That is the main basis of being in a relationship

It was just funny to me bc ppl probably get s***in both of the options the OP is describing so felt like a surprising example to role with. But it’s really not a big deal!

Dont even get me started on women, all they do is lie and cheat.

Gimme some dogs and a fun car ill be happy with life.

Rick owens

I’d pick relationships if I had to. Spending time w people is the most rewarding thing imo, though I understand it doesn’t always feel that way

the option where I dont have a 9 to 5

Material items will never fill that void. Ever. You’ll always want more