Well considering my girl is only the babies legal aunt and maryland and delaware both suck the mothers d*** the only chance of even visitation really is if the mother feels like it. And tbh I don't know how likely that is because she really treated us so bad over this situation like we weren't the ones raising her f***ing baby since it was born

I’m sorry to hear that man. Do not give up. Btw are 100% the problem may not be on your end as well?

:(

It was her brothers child. When the baby was born pretty much her brother and the bm was like f*** the baby so we took it in. The dad is in jail and a couple of days ago the girl messaged my girl and said she was ready to have the baby back fulltime and we just had to give her back.

Wait she was giving ya s*** even though ya did her favor by raising the kid

I mean not gonna say it isn't on my as well, but she's got vaginal trauma, she's gotten her period like twice in the year+ we been together. And she said one test came back positive but that it didn't stick so

aww you poor thing...wanna hug

Interesting. Well like I said, don’t give up. It’s likely her baby fever will only get stronger

Aww man I'm real sorry about that. I'd be devastated

can you tell us the baby name?

Yeah her mom was the one messaging us, the bm like 15 or 16. But yeah the mom was being a d***, trying to say she was gonna call the cops and issue a amber alert if we wasn't there 4 sharp and all type of s*** talking about her and her new man have spoken to lawyers blah blah blah.

Me and my girl encouraged her to get to know her baby MONTHS ago when she first mentioned she may want her baby back. She was supposed to have the baby for a day, she took her for a night gave her back and ghosted us after my girl messaging her multiple times telling her she should see her child. So for them to randomly pop up one day on that s*** is just bullshit.

Addelyn, but I really hate that name. We used to call her everything from Addy to Fladdy to Flaggey, ect anything but that awful name

Dam bro it’s crazy, luckily your girl is still the babies aunt and hopefully that BM grows up one day and be able to appreciate y’all and let y’all have some time with yalls niece

It's been crushing my girl. My girl was a home 100% mom so she has gone from warping her entire life around a baby to the baby being gone pretty much overnight.

Fladdy and Flaggey are just as awful

yall were bullying the child

the BM a teen, how old the deadbeat dad if he's in jail?

Im sorry OP. I cant say i know EXACTLY how you feel but one of my homegirls had a kid and we would kick it and i had got kinda attached to that lil man. It wasnt a relationship/acting like the father situation but as my friendship with the girl gradually just faded i ended up missing that lil f***er too.

Ik its nowhere near ur situation im just saying i can.only imagine the pain u must feel if i felt a little bit of pain in a way less serious setting.

Damn that's sad to hear. Sorry about that OP

We just taught her to call me Da Da

@op its a sad situation but it aint your kid you cant make a case in court over a child that isnt yours plus if you think u got a bond with the id she carried it for 9 months she WILL fight yall for her child.
court is expensive you either cut hr and the kid off, or seek legal advice which could blow back up in your face

yall out of pocket for this lol

nigga get ur girl pregnant lol and move on

at 9 months she talking?

Wait if the bm is 16, how old is the dad if he's in jail ?

And that's some straight up bs like yeah it's their child but threatening to call the cops and amber alert after they kinda abandoned the child and left ya to take care of her without being thankful some f*** s*** fr

damn... can’t imagine how that feels. prayers up for you op