Apr 4, 2021·2 replies
BIGGWAVE@op its a sad situation but it aint your kid you cant make a case in court over a child that isnt yours plus if you think u got a bond with the id she carried it for 9 months she WILL fight yall for her child.
court is expensive you either cut hr and the kid off, or seek legal advice which could blow back up in your faceShe didn't even want to pick the kid up when it was born. She had absolutely 0 interest in the baby. F***ing carrying the baby for 9 months, I dealt with 9 months of sleepless nights, cold dinners, expenses on expenses. I taught that baby to speak and crawl, to eat and drink on her own, that all US. F*** the court systems man..
- Apr 4, 2021·2 repliesTIIMMY BURNER
She didn't even want to pick the kid up when it was born. She had absolutely 0 interest in the baby. F***ing carrying the baby for 9 months, I dealt with 9 months of sleepless nights, cold dinners, expenses on expenses. I taught that baby to speak and crawl, to eat and drink on her own, that all US. F*** the court systems man..
so u gon steal da baby?
- Apr 4, 2021·1 replyBIGGWAVE
so u gon steal da baby?
She's got the baby bro, it's not stealing she literally gave us the baby and wanted to wash her hands clean. If you can't see how f***ed it is to make someone raise a baby from birth to 9 months in and then decide okay I want her back overnight, idk what to tell you. We sacrificed A LOT for a baby that wasn't either of ours. We were all that baby knew, we essentially gave her to strangers that don't know a lick about her.
- Apr 4, 2021BIGGWAVE
nigga get ur girl pregnant lol and move on
My girl is not pregnant what are you on? I literally said my girl has very little chance of carrying a baby to term.
- Apr 4, 2021·1 reply
6iscoat 9 months she talking?
Da Da is about the only word she can say
- Apr 4, 2021·1 replyTIIMMY BURNER
She's got the baby bro, it's not stealing she literally gave us the baby and wanted to wash her hands clean. If you can't see how f***ed it is to make someone raise a baby from birth to 9 months in and then decide okay I want her back overnight, idk what to tell you. We sacrificed A LOT for a baby that wasn't either of ours. We were all that baby knew, we essentially gave her to strangers that don't know a lick about her.
aight bruh i feel u
- Apr 4, 2021·2 replies
Oblivion XWait if the bm is 16, how old is the dad if he's in jail ?
And that's some straight up bs
like yeah it's their child but threatening to call the cops and amber alert after they kinda abandoned the child and left ya to take care of her without being thankful some f*** s*** frHe's like 20. I believe he's actually in jail for slapping his bm at exxon or some s***. He got 4 years. She pretty much chose him over the baby, but then he gets sentenced and suddenly she's decided she's ready for her baby b
- Apr 4, 2021·1 replyBIGGWAVE
aight bruh i feel u
Man you really don't. You as f***ed as the courts for thinking carrying a baby means more than raising it. When the baby was upset she didn't reach for the mom she reached for my girl, for a developing baby they don't give a s*** who carried them they care who they see day in and day out, that's their peace.
- Apr 4, 2021
freekodakIm sorry OP. I cant say i know EXACTLY how you feel but one of my homegirls had a kid and we would kick it and i had got kinda attached to that lil man. It wasnt a relationship/acting like the father situation but as my friendship with the girl gradually just faded i ended up missing that lil f***er too.
Ik its nowhere near ur situation im just saying i can.only imagine the pain u must feel if i felt a little bit of pain in a way less serious setting.
Yeah idk. I went through a rollercoaster of emotions with that baby. I didn't want her at first, then I just learned to live with her, and in the end I got quite fond of her. Like I said she was calling a nigga dada, we were planning her first birthday, ect. It all just sucks, but it's life you just learn to live with it I suppose.
- Apr 4, 2021·1 replyTIIMMY BURNER
Man you really don't. You as f***ed as the courts for thinking carrying a baby means more than raising it. When the baby was upset she didn't reach for the mom she reached for my girl, for a developing baby they don't give a s*** who carried them they care who they see day in and day out, that's their peace.
im not trying to be harsh i worked years in law firms bro
the reason i said that was cause its expensive tedious and wont always deliver "justice" u could go through years in the system and lose in the end - 6isco 🦈Apr 4, 2021TIIMMY BURNER
He's like 20. I believe he's actually in jail for slapping his bm at exxon or some s***. He got 4 years. She pretty much chose him over the baby, but then he gets sentenced and suddenly she's decided she's ready for her baby b
jesus
- Apr 4, 2021·1 replyBIGGWAVE
im not trying to be harsh i worked years in law firms bro
the reason i said that was cause its expensive tedious and wont always deliver "justice" u could go through years in the system and lose in the endThat part I know well. My girl got some legal counsel and they pretty much said she could come in there with a needle in there and the state of Delaware would still give her the baby. It's just weird how much you can neglect a baby, flat out refuse to hold it or see it, ect and you still got to be like Okay here you go f*** everything we've done.
- Apr 4, 2021TIIMMY BURNER
That part I know well. My girl got some legal counsel and they pretty much said she could come in there with a needle in there and the state of Delaware would still give her the baby. It's just weird how much you can neglect a baby, flat out refuse to hold it or see it, ect and you still got to be like Okay here you go f*** everything we've done.
yup its sad
wish u the best bro yall could consider adopting - Apr 4, 2021TIIMMY BURNER
He's like 20. I believe he's actually in jail for slapping his bm at exxon or some s***. He got 4 years. She pretty much chose him over the baby, but then he gets sentenced and suddenly she's decided she's ready for her baby b
Apr 4, 2021Man the bm sounds like a horrible narcissist that’s horrible
Apr 4, 2021Howling irl but that is ridiculously out of pocket
Apr 4, 2021TIIMMY BURNERIt's been crushing my girl. My girl was a home 100% mom so she has gone from warping her entire life around a baby to the baby being gone pretty much overnight.
That’s s***ty dude. Hope she can heal from this and you as well. Stay strong
- Apr 4, 2021
- Apr 4, 2021BIGGWAVE
so u gon steal da baby?
I know this thread is srs and I honestly respect tf outta OP for having the capacity/maturity to raise a child
But gahdamn this a fire plot for a movie
Apr 4, 2021D'Fuck
Apr 4, 2021this situation is so f***ed up man. hopefully the mother changes her mind and gives the baby back
Apr 4, 2021·1 replyWhat kinda selfish ass b**** gives her own baby away then just decides to want it back after 9 whole months. That’s so f***ed up I feel genuinely sorry for the kid. I’m sure the mom will not raise it well if it’s started off this bad already. Please try to keep in contact with the kid as much as possible
Apr 4, 2021My baby gone too
- Apr 4, 2021
I thought the baby died wtf
Apr 4, 2021😢