Yeah exactly. Not to mention we tried to ease her back into babies life to make it easier on ALL parties. But she kept the baby overnight once and then disappeared. Then just randomly pops up with these one day MONTHS later. Like dude that's not healthy, imagine being a baby with a whole entire life routine, going on a car ride and suddenly being surrounded by strangers in a whole new environment. Breaks my heart.

So the baby not actually dead, CPS just stepped in?

No cps wasn't involved. Mom just woke up one day and decided she's finally ready for the mom s***.

Oh baby moms stepped up and decided you not what's good for her child. Wild.

Dude we couldn't even find her for the longest time because we needed to babies birth records in order to get her doctor's visits set up. We tried to open a case and everything but the courts closed it because they couldn't find her and since the baby was in mom and being taken care of she was in no immediate danger : /

Nah nah. Honestly it was probably her family that pressured her back into the s***. Because it was the bm's mom that was majority texting my girl, and the second they had the baby her mom was flicking up instantly. And the bm is living with her mom again. And her family would always get on her telling her like yo where yo baby at and there's a time she was lying saying she was still raising the baby so the family didn't know we had the baby for the longest.

For now all seems well enough, which is all you could hope for I guess. Now it's just the process of reverting back to regular life and one of the hardest things is honestly how quiet the house is.

This hurts my heart bro I’m sorry

How old she is? I'm sorry btw

You need to call cps sounds like the mom isn’t fit to raise a child

Im guessing you're in social work? That's the hardest part, is saying goodbye to some kids. Most you can do is hope for the best and stay in touch with them if policy permits. Sorry about this either way man.

Wait. Yeah idk about this. I'd have tried to fight it. Maybe you still can, if you want to.

Selfishness aside I hope the kid ends up alright.

If I invested nine months of love, care and finances for an infant the mother did not want, then that child belongs to me, bloodline bedamned.

That's what I'm saying. At first I didn't really want to tell people it was my child but after a while of spending day in and day out you begin to feel like it is. You make memories with the child, have a lot of her first moments with you. She learned to clap because she always watched us clap FOR her.

this is such a f***ed up situation wtf

Damn

😭😭😭😭

Damn

You ain’t try to get on the phone or all have a meeting about the s***

Why didn’t she want it to begin with

Feel like d**** are somewhere in the picture here on her side

Man and now she just asked if my girl wanted to babysit her for the night

You should baptize the baby and be it’s godparents. Be actual godparents and help support the child