See this is the type of unhelpful s*** that's often said and that's why people with multiple identities should be ostracized from the rest of the community
You don't have a bad and good option here that you can choose from. You have a bad and a worse option, deal with it.
Why should I be casted out from my people because THEY are not willing to accept me? We’re not doing anyone any harm man
Oh yea, story comes first ALWAYS. Niggas be working backwards and that’s why the s*** be turning out surface level and lacking any depth
The point.....
if there is no chemistry between the actors then its just a poor depiction of love which serves us less than no depiction
Shout out to Jay Z for having the most extensive cast of black women in his music videos since the beginning

No, I’m just not one to spread false information about high is more harmful. To act like black people were just suddenly more united back then is just disingenuous. Yes pre-segregation and pre crack we were amongst each other all the time cause we had to be. We called each other brother and sister way more frequently. But to act like the black family wasn’t torn a lot back then I’d just straight up false. Way more domestic violence and child abuse. Plenty of cheating. Gangs still existed. Instead of trying to act like one thing (crack) led to where we are today is just dumb.
Ok but black people were still among the most United communities. Compare the marriage rates, the rate of kids living in single parent Homes, etc to today
See this is the type of unhelpful s*** that's often said and that's why people with multiple identities should be ostracized from the rest of the community
You don't have a bad and good option here that you can choose from. You have a bad and a worse option, deal with it.
I think the good option is stop being homophobic b
Zoe’s series got canceled too while Issa s*** still going but I agree.
We got Daniel, Denzels son, Idris Elba, Damson from Snowfall, Yahya, etc. does Lakeith count as well?
Wouldn't say Lakeith counts. But if we're counting Idris, we can count an older actress like Viola Davis for the women too imo
Ok but black people were still among the most United communities. Compare the marriage rates, the rate of kids living in single parent Homes, etc to today
So having an emotionally and physically abusive father who was probably working all day anyway is better than having a single mother?
See this is the type of unhelpful s*** that's often said and that's why people with multiple identities should be ostracized from the rest of the community
You don't have a bad and good option here that you can choose from. You have a bad and a worse option, deal with it.
Deadass
Wouldn't say Lakeith counts. But if we're counting Idris, we can count an older actress like Viola Davis for the women too imo
I cant count Lakeith as lightskin either tho
So having an emotionally and physically abusive father who was probably working all day anyway is better than having a single mother?
Kind of a stretch to assume the majority of fathers back then were emotionally and physically abusive lol
I’d say it definitely accelerated the government’s goal at the time.
Have you ever heard of the opium war? It’s a war where western powers FORCED china to make their population d*** addicts. It took china 100 years to recover from the affects of the population being d***ged out and all of the moral decay.
The damn government waged an opium war on the black community, it’s effects are still seen today. My father was huge in the trade, got murdered and burned alive in his own vehicle. My uncles and other OGs used to tell me stories of Detroit and how it was before crack hit, I’ll go with their first hand experiences and my experiences growing up over an internet article. Crack was an epidemic.
Kind of a stretch to assume the majority of fathers back then were emotionally and physically abusive lol
Many definitely were due to their circumstances. Not excusing it but not exactly blaming them for it either.
Why should I be casted out from my people because THEY are not willing to accept me? We’re not doing anyone any harm man
You should have the right to enter into a relationship with anyone you want and homophobia is disgusting. You just should identify as black and nothing else.
You got dealt a s***ty hand here, you gotta accept it and play with it. The most significant problem you face as a black gay man comes from the fact that you're black first so you should unite under that identity to get the most chance on your side to actually accomplish something. You'll never be able to completely beat the problems you face as a black gay man so just do what you can and fight for the cause that's the most impactful in your life. Let your kids fight for the black gay cause when racism will be over, it's counterproductive now.
A lot of black famailies were already torn before crack… crack definitely amplified it but it wasn’t the sole reason
My bad I meant to quote you, check my last post
Many definitely were due to their circumstances. Not excusing it but not exactly blaming them for it either.
When you say physically abuse are you talking about spanking?
You should have the right to enter into a relationship with anyone you want and homophobia is disgusting. You just should identify as black and nothing else.
You got dealt a s***ty hand here, you gotta accept it and play with it. The most significant problem you face as a black gay man comes from the fact that you're black first so you should unite under that identity to get the most chance on your side to actually accomplish something. You'll never be able to completely beat the problems you face as a black gay man so just do what you can and fight for the cause that's the most impactful in your life. Let your kids fight for the black gay cause when racism will be over, it's counterproductive now.
You just said being gay and black is dealt a s***ty hand lmfao f*** off dumbass.
I think that's a whole nother issue that's related to black culture's insistence on placing light skinned people on a pedestal
But it also has to do with the objectification of women and that's something I don't want to nor can I reasonably speak on with me not being a woman and all.
History has created this whole divide.
Light skinned slaves were given better preference than their dark counterparts.
npr.org/sections/newsandviews/2007/10/for_lightskinned_only.html
No lie I’ve seen way more middle tone to dark skinned actors and actress thriving in today’s climate than light skin.
This is true but colorism tropes still run rampant in hollywood
You just said being gay and black is dealt a s***ty hand lmfao f*** off dumbass.
I mean it is
In a society where homophobia and racism is pervasive, this is a s***ty hand even though I'm proud of it. That's why "white privilege" is a thing.
Stop trying to be offended p****
You should have the right to enter into a relationship with anyone you want and homophobia is disgusting. You just should identify as black and nothing else.
You got dealt a s***ty hand here, you gotta accept it and play with it. The most significant problem you face as a black gay man comes from the fact that you're black first so you should unite under that identity to get the most chance on your side to actually accomplish something. You'll never be able to completely beat the problems you face as a black gay man so just do what you can and fight for the cause that's the most impactful in your life. Let your kids fight for the black gay cause when racism will be over, it's counterproductive now.
niqqa u makin me laugh rn 😹😹😹😹
When you say physically abuse are you talking about spanking?
No I’m talking actual child abuse