For sure but theres too much overreacting going on itt lmao. It seems like people in here never talked to a woman they dont know before
The overreaction comes when a man can’t accept a simple no so they feel the need to further explain themselves. If he goes up to her “clearing the air” is f***ing harassment. I’m ashamed I didn’t get that at one point, and tried to “it was nothing” my way out of situations just so some shawties to confess they were actually considering letting me f*** just had to think
Whole lot of overthinking. Compartmentalize and get back to the reason you pay $30-$50 a month and stop worrying about this lmao. Your own peace of mind could have her there like “damn, the day I came in upset about (who tf knows what) and didn’t say hi to this dude nicely, instead of asking me am I okay, you’re usually in a good mood or some s***, this dude really thought it was cause someone told me he likes me like can you see how you look kinda ehh bruh?
Bruh ur interpretation is all wrong. In reality rejection is natural and u didnt necessarily do anything wrong
If u see every rejection as a reflection of your own flaws you will get pretty self conscious
op gonna see his selfie on a "refuse service; escort off property" poster by next week
All you niggas acting brand new acting like you never had a crush before
if u gonna ask out a girl, do it when the situation is right
mf overthink it
people bashing op are chronically online twitter herbs, its perfectly okay to ask out a service worker as long as you are respectful and dont breach their physical boundaries, my current girlfriend, i met while i was travelling bali, she was the hotel maid in a lesser known provincial costal city and i noticed that she would constantly look over at me while servicing my room and seemed to be giggling behind her mask to me in a shy and playful manner. without a second thought i drew up a gameplan on how i would ask her out the next morning timing her schedule with me getting out of my morning shower. keeping in mind that she was a service worker and that she is ordered to be nice to the guests i approached lightly and then asked her out for dinner to the hotel diner upstairs. she said yes and thats all there was too it. dont let these insecure weirdos talk you out of geniune human contact/relationships. what you layed out in op is perfectly fine and normal so dont be afraid to shoot your shot and clear your name because your reputation is everything.
I go to the gym in the mornings and theres this cute receptionist and a guy that greet me. I've only had some small talk with her bt I felt like she was showing me signs of interest so I was gonna ask her her number to hang out.
My mistake was asking the guy if she "was nice like that to everybody or was taken" and he told me she was taken. And I asked the guy to keep that question between me and him. next morning I went in, it was super awkward and that was the first of a few mornings she wouldnt even look at me or say good morning so I know he opened his mouth. I should have known better because hes one of those dudes that gives off a slimy atmosphere and has a face that doesn't even look trustworthy so its kind of on me, but I didnt want to judge him too harshly
the lesson here is: never ever ask another person, man or woman, of a womans dating status. ask her yourself and let her tell you shes taken herself. at least shell know youre interested then and youll be able to get it off your chest, but if only I knew that then
so tomorrow I'm just go something l ike, "hey I think I made things awkward by asking your boy if you were taken or not. he told me you were, and now I feel like thats something I should have asked you myself, but yeah I totally respect that and didn't mean to make things weird or uncomfortable by it." this might be a bad idea, but I've noticed that when things are awkward with people for whatver reason the best move is to just to address the elephant in the room and then you can both move past it. but the guy that opened his mouth is always sitting next to her too, but I'm just gonna ignore him and speak to her
Hand him a Grammy right now
people bashing op are chronically online twitter herbs, its perfectly okay to ask out a service worker as long as you are respectful and dont breach their physical boundaries, my current girlfriend, i met while i was travelling bali, she was the hotel maid in a lesser known provincial costal city and i noticed that she would constantly look over at me while servicing my room and seemed to be giggling behind her mask to me in a shy and playful manner. without a second thought i drew up a gameplan on how i would ask her out the next morning timing her schedule with me getting out of my morning shower. keeping in mind that she was a service worker and that she is ordered to be nice to the guests i approached lightly and then asked her out for dinner to the hotel diner upstairs. she said yes and thats all there was too it. dont let these insecure weirdos talk you out of geniune human contact/relationships. what you layed out in op is perfectly fine and normal so dont be afraid to shoot your shot and clear your name because your reputation is everything.
was going to write something with a very similar message if you hadn't said it here
op u know for next time not to gossip and let her tell u if she got a man. That's all there is to it
I go to the gym in the mornings and theres this cute receptionist and a guy that greet me. I've only had some small talk with her bt I felt like she was showing me signs of interest so I was gonna ask her her number to hang out.
My mistake was asking the guy if she "was nice like that to everybody or was taken" and he told me she was taken. And I asked the guy to keep that question between me and him. next morning I went in, it was super awkward and that was the first of a few mornings she wouldnt even look at me or say good morning so I know he opened his mouth. I should have known better because hes one of those dudes that gives off a slimy atmosphere and has a face that doesn't even look trustworthy so its kind of on me, but I didnt want to judge him too harshly
the lesson here is: never ever ask another person, man or woman, of a womans dating status. ask her yourself and let her tell you shes taken herself. at least shell know youre interested then and youll be able to get it off your chest, but if only I knew that then
so tomorrow I'm just go something l ike, "hey I think I made things awkward by asking your boy if you were taken or not. he told me you were, and now I feel like thats something I should have asked you myself, but yeah I totally respect that and didn't mean to make things weird or uncomfortable by it." this might be a bad idea, but I've noticed that when things are awkward with people for whatver reason the best move is to just to address the elephant in the room and then you can both move past it. but the guy that opened his mouth is always sitting next to her too, but I'm just gonna ignore him and speak to her
shoot him/her
f*** it bro
wild out
crash out
Can't even go to the gym without thinking about your d***, lame af
people bashing op are chronically online twitter herbs, its perfectly okay to ask out a service worker as long as you are respectful and dont breach their physical boundaries, my current girlfriend, i met while i was travelling bali, she was the hotel maid in a lesser known provincial costal city and i noticed that she would constantly look over at me while servicing my room and seemed to be giggling behind her mask to me in a shy and playful manner. without a second thought i drew up a gameplan on how i would ask her out the next morning timing her schedule with me getting out of my morning shower. keeping in mind that she was a service worker and that she is ordered to be nice to the guests i approached lightly and then asked her out for dinner to the hotel diner upstairs. she said yes and thats all there was too it. dont let these insecure weirdos talk you out of geniune human contact/relationships. what you layed out in op is perfectly fine and normal so dont be afraid to shoot your shot and clear your name because your reputation is everything.
Someone with brains on this low iq site
op gonna see his selfie on a "refuse service; escort off property" poster by next week
people bashing op are chronically online twitter herbs, its perfectly okay to ask out a service worker as long as you are respectful and dont breach their physical boundaries, my current girlfriend, i met while i was travelling bali, she was the hotel maid in a lesser known provincial costal city and i noticed that she would constantly look over at me while servicing my room and seemed to be giggling behind her mask to me in a shy and playful manner. without a second thought i drew up a gameplan on how i would ask her out the next morning timing her schedule with me getting out of my morning shower. keeping in mind that she was a service worker and that she is ordered to be nice to the guests i approached lightly and then asked her out for dinner to the hotel diner upstairs. she said yes and thats all there was too it. dont let these insecure weirdos talk you out of geniune human contact/relationships. what you layed out in op is perfectly fine and normal so dont be afraid to shoot your shot and clear your name because your reputation is everything.
Niggas clapping hands but this nigga a passport bro, shawty from America she probably make $2 less if that than him… It hit different
people bashing op are chronically online twitter herbs, its perfectly okay to ask out a service worker as long as you are respectful and dont breach their physical boundaries, my current girlfriend, i met while i was travelling bali, she was the hotel maid in a lesser known provincial costal city and i noticed that she would constantly look over at me while servicing my room and seemed to be giggling behind her mask to me in a shy and playful manner. without a second thought i drew up a gameplan on how i would ask her out the next morning timing her schedule with me getting out of my morning shower. keeping in mind that she was a service worker and that she is ordered to be nice to the guests i approached lightly and then asked her out for dinner to the hotel diner upstairs. she said yes and thats all there was too it. dont let these insecure weirdos talk you out of geniune human contact/relationships. what you layed out in op is perfectly fine and normal so dont be afraid to shoot your shot and clear your name because your reputation is everything.
Passport bro?