Nothing is yours. You'll have no say on the place in terms of any furniture, decorations etc. Most of your stuff won't make it to her place and you'll have to find a place to store it.
If things change on a dime, it will be very easy to kick you out
Makes sense, you’re not wrong
That said, when you have your inevitable arguments and need space, I hope you have a second bedroom or some s***
na u need a separate place when she be banging on the door post argument when u want space n peace <
Definitely get a new place and include an extra room or study so you can have space away from one another
i love living with my partner. it shows you more about them in beautiful ways and you get closer bc of it :)) it’s essential
i moved in with them about a year and a half into the relationship and it’s been great
not until youre married
Terrible advice lol
Never marry someone you haven't lived with
Terrible advice lol
Never marry someone you haven't lived with
terrible advice 90% of the time
you and your partner know each other more than anyone else's advice and this may be the right move depending on your situation
i didn't live with my girl prior but dated for nearly a decade + travelled extensively + moved directly into a new space
been working amazingly well
make sure you live alone for a few years before doing that
trust me
absolutely do this tho
Makes sense, you’re not wrong
fwiw my wife (then gf) welcomed my presence and gave me tons of control in making changes to the layout, decor, etc. I renovated the entire bathroom and chose the color scheme, fixtures, etc. all on my own and she loved it. she appreciated how much I de-cluttered the space and brought my own style into it.
and theres only two doors in the house, the front door and the bathroom door, we live in a two story loft type setup so there's nowhere to run from conflict.
the obstacle is the way and all that. better to work through things than run from issues
terrible advice 90% of the time
you and your partner know each other more than anyone else's advice and this may be the right move depending on your situation
i didn't live with my girl prior but dated for nearly a decade + travelled extensively + moved directly into a new space
been working amazingly well
mad respect
absolutely do this tho
Which is why I’m little boggled with my friend moving in only about 7 months into their relationship. Even prior to this, they had multiple disagreements and arguments almost on a constant basis.
Definitely get a new place and include an extra room or study so you can have space away from one another
this nuh work they'll just yell n bang on door
WE NEED TO TALK NOW! gtta have that batman cave so anytime i wanna escape i
away n she cant find me
gated community type beat with extra security
she not getting in to disturb my rassclart peace ill be back when im good n ready deuces
fwiw my wife (then gf) welcomed my presence and gave me tons of control in making changes to the layout, decor, etc. I renovated the entire bathroom and chose the color scheme, fixtures, etc. all on my own and she loved it. she appreciated how much I de-cluttered the space and brought my own style into it.
and theres only two doors in the house, the front door and the bathroom door, we live in a two story loft type setup so there's nowhere to run from conflict.
the obstacle is the way and all that. better to work through things than run from issues
i think you're giving the dudes on this forum too much credit homie, these mfs about to move in and leave the toothpaste on the counter uncapped everyday and wonder why their life falling apart
terrible advice 90% of the time
you and your partner know each other more than anyone else's advice and this may be the right move depending on your situation
i didn't live with my girl prior but dated for nearly a decade + travelled extensively + moved directly into a new space
been working amazingly well
Good stuff brother
terrible advice 90% of the time
you and your partner know each other more than anyone else's advice and this may be the right move depending on your situation
i didn't live with my girl prior but dated for nearly a decade + travelled extensively + moved directly into a new space
been working amazingly well
Yeah valid lol
Me and my girl been together for 15 years, living together for almost 8 now, have a kid, but ain't married
So do what's best with the both your situations for sure
Marriage ain't gonna make living together more palatable if you don't know them intimately at that point tho
i think you're giving the dudes on this forum too much credit homie, these mfs about to move in and leave the toothpaste on the counter uncapped everyday and wonder why their life falling apart
maybe ur right now that I think abt it
i think you're giving the dudes on this forum too much credit homie, these mfs about to move in and leave the toothpaste on the counter uncapped everyday and wonder why their life falling apart