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  • Jul 18, 2024
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    BD32

    Nothing is yours. You'll have no say on the place in terms of any furniture, decorations etc. Most of your stuff won't make it to her place and you'll have to find a place to store it.

    If things change on a dime, it will be very easy to kick you out

    Makes sense, you’re not wrong

  • Jul 18, 2024
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    FKA Tadow

    That said, when you have your inevitable arguments and need space, I hope you have a second bedroom or some s***

    na u need a separate place when she be banging on the door post argument when u want space n peace <

  • Jul 18, 2024
    headieone

    Do NOT move into HER place

  • Jul 18, 2024
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    Definitely get a new place and include an extra room or study so you can have space away from one another

  • i love living with my partner. it shows you more about them in beautiful ways and you get closer bc of it :)) it’s essential

    i moved in with them about a year and a half into the relationship and it’s been great

  • Jul 18, 2024

    Do whatever you want though you’ll learn from this either way . I sure did

  • Jul 18, 2024
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    I want to get together with a trans woman

  • Jul 18, 2024
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    youngtubesteak2

    not until youre married

    Terrible advice lol

    Never marry someone you haven't lived with

  • Jul 18, 2024
    Sexytgurl_

    I want to get together with a trans woman

    Okay bet. You gonna pay my rent?

  • Sexytgurl_

    I want to get together with a trans woman

    epic username

  • Jul 18, 2024
    plants

  • Jul 18, 2024
    Millz

    make sure you live alone for a few years before doing that

    trust me

  • Jul 18, 2024
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    HURRY UP K DOG

    Terrible advice lol

    Never marry someone you haven't lived with

    terrible advice 90% of the time
    you and your partner know each other more than anyone else's advice and this may be the right move depending on your situation

    i didn't live with my girl prior but dated for nearly a decade + travelled extensively + moved directly into a new space

    been working amazingly well

  • Jul 18, 2024
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    Millz

    make sure you live alone for a few years before doing that

    trust me

    absolutely do this tho

  • plants 🌻
    Jul 18, 2024
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    All Gas no brakes

    Makes sense, you’re not wrong

    fwiw my wife (then gf) welcomed my presence and gave me tons of control in making changes to the layout, decor, etc. I renovated the entire bathroom and chose the color scheme, fixtures, etc. all on my own and she loved it. she appreciated how much I de-cluttered the space and brought my own style into it.

    and theres only two doors in the house, the front door and the bathroom door, we live in a two story loft type setup so there's nowhere to run from conflict.

    the obstacle is the way and all that. better to work through things than run from issues

  • plants 🌻
    Jul 18, 2024
    f_e_n_n_y

    terrible advice 90% of the time
    you and your partner know each other more than anyone else's advice and this may be the right move depending on your situation

    i didn't live with my girl prior but dated for nearly a decade + travelled extensively + moved directly into a new space

    been working amazingly well

    mad respect

  • Jul 18, 2024
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    Go ahead and do it dumbass lol

  • Jul 18, 2024
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    f_e_n_n_y

    absolutely do this tho

    Which is why I’m little boggled with my friend moving in only about 7 months into their relationship. Even prior to this, they had multiple disagreements and arguments almost on a constant basis.

  • Jul 18, 2024
    KIDBlNO

    Definitely get a new place and include an extra room or study so you can have space away from one another

    this nuh work they'll just yell n bang on door WE NEED TO TALK NOW! gtta have that batman cave so anytime i wanna escape i away n she cant find me gated community type beat with extra security she not getting in to disturb my rassclart peace ill be back when im good n ready deuces

  • Jul 18, 2024
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    plants

    fwiw my wife (then gf) welcomed my presence and gave me tons of control in making changes to the layout, decor, etc. I renovated the entire bathroom and chose the color scheme, fixtures, etc. all on my own and she loved it. she appreciated how much I de-cluttered the space and brought my own style into it.

    and theres only two doors in the house, the front door and the bathroom door, we live in a two story loft type setup so there's nowhere to run from conflict.

    the obstacle is the way and all that. better to work through things than run from issues

    i think you're giving the dudes on this forum too much credit homie, these mfs about to move in and leave the toothpaste on the counter uncapped everyday and wonder why their life falling apart

  • Jul 18, 2024
    f_e_n_n_y

    terrible advice 90% of the time
    you and your partner know each other more than anyone else's advice and this may be the right move depending on your situation

    i didn't live with my girl prior but dated for nearly a decade + travelled extensively + moved directly into a new space

    been working amazingly well

    Good stuff brother

  • f_e_n_n_y

    terrible advice 90% of the time
    you and your partner know each other more than anyone else's advice and this may be the right move depending on your situation

    i didn't live with my girl prior but dated for nearly a decade + travelled extensively + moved directly into a new space

    been working amazingly well

    Yeah valid lol

    Me and my girl been together for 15 years, living together for almost 8 now, have a kid, but ain't married

    So do what's best with the both your situations for sure

    Marriage ain't gonna make living together more palatable if you don't know them intimately at that point tho

  • plants 🌻
    Jul 18, 2024
    f_e_n_n_y

    i think you're giving the dudes on this forum too much credit homie, these mfs about to move in and leave the toothpaste on the counter uncapped everyday and wonder why their life falling apart

    maybe ur right now that I think abt it

  • Jul 18, 2024
    f_e_n_n_y

    i think you're giving the dudes on this forum too much credit homie, these mfs about to move in and leave the toothpaste on the counter uncapped everyday and wonder why their life falling apart

  • Jul 18, 2024
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    plants

    i say do it. aint like your name gonna be on the lease right? can always just move back in with ur family? not much at risk imo

    Moving in somewhere where your name not on the lease is some dirty loser s*** fr