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  • Jan 14, 2021
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    shane

    Wow, didn't know it was so simple!

    f***in idiot

    Dude is a good troll I can’t deny that

  • Jan 14, 2021
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    You're talking a lot of s*** about being a grown man and a "real adult" yet instead of telling op the realistic steps that he has to go through to maintain a household with rent, electric, water, phone bills, food, budgeting, car maintenance, car insurance, roommates and etc you're jerking yourself off about moving out and saying

    "just get a job and move"

  • Jan 14, 2021
    Very Peaceful

    Dude is a good troll I can’t deny that

    dudes not even a troll hes just a f***ing idiot

  • Jan 14, 2021
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    shane

    You're talking a lot of s*** about being a grown man and a "real adult" yet instead of telling op the realistic steps that he has to go through to maintain a household with rent, electric, water, phone bills, food, budgeting, car maintenance, car insurance, roommates and etc you're jerking yourself off about moving out and saying

    "just get a job and move"

    If he's 18 he's legally an adult. SO yeah. In case you didn't know. All of those responsibilities are inherent in moving into your own space and being accountable for yourself. Nobody moves in and is shocked at utilities, f***ing moron.

  • Jan 14, 2021
    Majin GoldenChild

    If he's 18 he's legally an adult. SO yeah. In case you didn't know. All of those responsibilities are inherent in moving into your own space and being accountable for yourself. Nobody moves in and is shocked at utilities, f***ing moron.

    where did you mention utilities in:

    "get a job"

    "move out"

    ?

    Where did you explain any actual guidance towards getting an apartment? Whether or not you'll need a roommate? Considering where you're renting/living? Renting a home/vs apartment?

    all talk no action, keep jerking yourself off bozo

    you wanna be a real adult but you look like a real child being so sneering

  • Jan 14, 2021

    No funny s*** I like how you said "I'm out" (the thread), deleted that comment and then came back in

    u pressed?

  • Jan 14, 2021

    You need a job at the very least. A lot of people are saying to get your s*** super right before you leave and that’s good advice, but tbh if you really wanna go you can rn if you just get a decent paying job

  • Jan 14, 2021
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    if OP wants his license he should test for his license
    if OP wants a job he should apply for some positions
    if OP wants to move out of his parents place he should find apt's within his budget

    anyone saying this advice is wrong is a victim and will always be a victim.

    enjoy your miserable victim life

  • Jan 14, 2021
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    Majin GoldenChild

    if OP wants his license he should test for his license
    if OP wants a job he should apply for some positions
    if OP wants to move out of his parents place he should find apt's within his budget

    anyone saying this advice is wrong is a victim and will always be a victim.

    enjoy your miserable victim life

    Enjoy being a delusional miserable f*** that doesn’t live in the real world

  • Jan 14, 2021
    yungboiezi

    I don't want to sound like I'm b****ing, but it's mentally draining, it's like I'm in a cage, they're strict beyond belief.

    I'm focusing on my self rn and I want to improve all aspects of my life, but I feel like they're holding me back.

    You aren't b****ing at all, I have moved out (and moved back in due to covid) and I felt the same way. It's not perfect and how I'd want it to be now but I have faith I'll come out stronger. Whichever route you choose I hope you succeed.

    Just trying to give you something to think about

  • Jan 14, 2021
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    Majin GoldenChild

    if OP wants his license he should test for his license
    if OP wants a job he should apply for some positions
    if OP wants to move out of his parents place he should find apt's within his budget

    anyone saying this advice is wrong is a victim and will always be a victim.

    enjoy your miserable victim life

    So now you’re switching up and saying he should get his finances in order and live within his means instead of “DO IT NOW, MAKE THE MOVE” like you were saying before

  • Jan 14, 2021
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    Very Peaceful

    So now you’re switching up and saying he should get his finances in order and live within his means instead of “DO IT NOW, MAKE THE MOVE” like you were saying before

    Having your financial situation in order is a prerequisite to moving. But I know I gotta dumb that down for some of you and write a f***ing book "25 Steps to Independence" so yeah he should do it and he should move immediately

  • Jan 14, 2021
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    Majin GoldenChild

    Having your financial situation in order is a prerequisite to moving. But I know I gotta dumb that down for some of you and write a f***ing book "25 Steps to Independence" so yeah he should do it and he should move immediately

    ...And if you read the OP then you would understand that he’s not in the right financial situation to live on his own

  • Jan 14, 2021
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    Very Peaceful

    ...And if you read the OP then you would understand that he’s not in the right financial situation to live on his own

    You want him to stay at home and stay unhappy with his situation

    Just say that then

  • Jan 14, 2021
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    pure thoughts

    you're not missing out on as much as you think. for now, just get good grades and focus on what you plan on doing after you graduate. once you graduate and start your career, you can dip.

    be honest with yourself. you can do all that s*** you wanna do while living with you're parents, u're just making an excuse cause you want to move out badly. you sound like my lil cousins. whats stopping you from maturing and overcoming your addictions right now?

    The thing is that I can't do s*** under their roof

    I can't even get a job with them knowing cuz they don't want me to get one, they basically don't want me to be independent at all.

  • Jan 14, 2021
    Majin GoldenChild

    You want him to stay at home and stay unhappy with his situation

    Just say that then

    He’ll end up staying at home even longer if he takes your advice and goes broke paying for an apartment for a few months with no job or savings

  • Jan 14, 2021
    yungboiezi

    The thing is that I can't do s*** under their roof

    I can't even get a job with them knowing cuz they don't want me to get one, they basically don't want me to be independent at all.

    Your parents don’t want you to get a job

    First time I ever heard of that s***

  • Jan 14, 2021
    yungboiezi

    Some backstory:

    I'm 19, I've been sheltered for basically my whole life, only had a social life through school due to my overprotective parents, I don't have a license yet and personally I want to do this to improve my mental health, overcome my addictions and grow as a man.

    I got 3k in the bank another 5k invested in stocks and I'm currently looking at apartments near by the college I'm going to.

    The problems I have rn are that I don't have a job and idk how I'm going to pay for college because most likely my parents won't help me with that if I'm gone, so I'm trying to build another source of income to manage that.

    I’d find a reliable source of a income and a reliable way to get there first. Talk to your parents. Why won’t they help you with college if you’d have more on your plate?

  • Jan 14, 2021

    If you want to go to college why do you need to move out? Are your parents not going to allow you to stay in dorms?

  • Jan 14, 2021

    3k not enough? Where tf do you niggas live?

  • Jan 14, 2021
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    some truly horrible advice being given itt

    people talm bout moving out is some momentous decision that u need to have all your ducks in a row for. not really. it's not that complicated, you pay the rent, you look after yourself, you learn s*** along the way.

    i moved out at 17 and it was f***ing awesome. i was miserable at home. stifled. i wanted to see the big city and experience life!! i had student loans to cover me while i was in Uni. took on some debt, but looking back it was well worth it

    the only people i know who stayed living at home past like 20 are f***ing losers. don't listen to these neckbeards trying to drag you down to their level. yes there will be challenges, but that's what life is all about, learning and figuring stuff out. those late teen early 20 years are golden and you need to be experiencing s*** otherwise you might get comfortable being a neckbeard at home and end up like a 40 year old virgin.

    any advice you want, just ask. im 29 now. own my own condo downtown, got a benz, got a nice job. got my designer clothes and home studio.

    take the plunge OP and get the f*** outta there. don't look back.

  • Jan 14, 2021
    yungboiezi

    The thing is that I can't do s*** under their roof

    I can't even get a job with them knowing cuz they don't want me to get one, they basically don't want me to be independent at all.

    What do they want you to do in life? Live with them forever and what??

    You will have to start working towards your goals while living with them for now. You are smart to be investing in stocks at your age. Keep that same responsible energy.

    Focusing on school is most important. Getting your license and a car should be priority after that. Once you have that you have physical freedom. But you will still be under the pressure of not having financial freedom until you get a stable income.

    If you jump to moving out just because your parents are who they are you will potentially f*** up everything you have worked for up until now. Stay sharp, stay patient, and stay committed to your goals.

  • Jan 14, 2021

    Stay with your parents until u finish college or sign up for some kind of housing assistance and get a job and generate another income with a side hustle. I got a friend making decent enough money on fiverr all she does is teach English and Spanish.

  • Jan 14, 2021

    don’t move out without having a job first and get a loan

    and I would move in with someone living by yourself can get pretty lonely